YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #26

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Nisha

@Nichuss

Elite

+ 33

Posted: 11 years ago

#1061

wtever b th reason hubby wife relation shldnt b secretive... Ask same que to ur mom... Or married frds

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Colt.Pixy

@Colt.Pixy

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#1062

Originally posted by: swathibalan

Notice how on multiple occasions raman remembers an instance from hid past. Thats not a man who has moved on. Thats a man who is carrying th baggage of his past with him always

All the flashback scenes are tomshow that

flashbacks will always stay in his mind. because he had enough time with shagun of 6 years. he has 2 kids from same woman. he has lived those past 6 years of happy marriage too. it can't be shift +deleted who ever comes in his life. the thing is he does not remember them as "oh, I miss that time" "I miss moments with my ex wife"

Even after 20 years of now, she will be always in his memory . that does not mean he has not moved on.

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Jyoe

@Jyoe

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#1063

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

Exactly Jyoe.

He said he wants to make new memories, he could remove shagun from his heart after long time of 6 years,he asked her to become his strength if she still thinks that he is not over his past, she has definitely trust issues for raman still . and in opposite she trusts blindly to sanjana who has met her just before few days ? 😲

Exactly.good that you mentioned the new memories one..i dont think a man woud ever say that if he was still hung up in his past...n dint even Ishita admit (during accident track that she had believed Raman to be supporting Shaggy earlier may be coz he still loved her..but aft that she realized it was not fr shaggy..but fr Adi)..and what about the recent rain dance...yes it was for him to prove he still had romance.but was that dance not an assurance of his feelings for Ishita ? would he have done that if he was still stuck in past.

Phew..what discussion..dimaag ka dahi ban raha hai...seriously i think I should not think about it more..and just watch the show without any logic or using brains much...just to end the discussion from my side..i feel Raman has clearly moved on and over his past..its Ishita who still has trust issues..now have to see if she will overcome that herself...or Raman has to make it clear to her!

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Wela

@Wela

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

#1064

Hope it is ok for me to post here... was silently reading the discussion and its always amazing to read various POV..intrepretations are always fun to read as a reader !! 👏

Being married you know that the only way forward is when u let go of past and move ahead as one...both Raman and Ishita absolutely need to deal with the past in order to move past the insecurities that pull them back...Ishita needs to start thinking about herself and her marriage (she does not understand how gullible she is because of the goodness of her heart although I do not want her to lose her essence) and Raman needs to learn to speak clearly- he needs to clear his head from the past insecurities...the only way is to talk.. So the track I feel is needed but sometimes nuances are lost in the noise in Indian soaps...things are amplified 2 tones higher than needed(TRP's needed to survive)

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--Megha--

@--Megha--

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#1065

Originally posted by: escapeworld
Now that Ishita is ready to move forward in this relationship, she will realize the enormity of being a second wife to a man who has kids out of the previous marriage..huge difference between Subbu and Shagun..Ishita never married him, leaving him behind is easier..Shagun betrayed him after marriage and two kids..its complicated...so Raman needs to really DRILL into Ishita's mind explicitly that I AM OVER SHAGUN!!

Yes I agree with this any woman will have insecurities considering Shagun is beautiful n bore kids.

Ishita is a messed up person n Raman needs to start with that but for that he needs to realize how to go about things. 😆

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Indu

@escapeworld

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

#1066

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

flashbacks will always stay in his mind. because he had enough time with shagun of 6 years. he has 2 kids from same woman. he has lived those past 6 years of happy marriage too. it can't be shift +deleted who ever comes in his life. the thing is he does not remember them as "oh, I miss that time" "I miss moments with my ex wife"

Even after 20 years of now, she will be always in his memory . that does not mean he has not moved on.

Yes, there is no doubt that he has moved on, but this is not about Raman. This is about Ishita, about what she thinks about Raman's feelings for Shagun. Raman needs to tell her in no uncertain terms that he does not love shagun, he is over her, and is ready to move on.

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#1067

PHEW !!!!

Why am i arguing .. I am not Sonali Jaffar .. & this aint my story to tell ... we can all agree to disagree & we will all be right simply coz .. each viewer interprets the story in his or her own way .. no way is the right way or wrong .. coz no interpretation of a creative work can be right or wrong ..

So this is my interpretation of the current track ... who cares whether its right or wrong .. its fun to passionately discuss it ..

So finally hitting the sack now .. neeni beckons ..

catch y'll on the other side of this drama tomorrow 😉

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Bhanu

@btalwar

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#1068

If I have to put my two cents on today's revelation of Arora clan ... I will put it like this

PROS

1. Mi Mi happening for sure after an obvious drama.
2. Loved the way Raman sat while this drama was unfolding. It was a jerk for that man. His wife clearly did not trust him with matters of heart and past.
3. This will definitely prompt the much needed communication between Ishra about their PAST. It should be in detail. It is needed for them to continue further.
4. Ishita has a heart of gold. Her thoughts were noble at the end of the day .. the direction of her actions may be questionable.
5. We may get to see another side of Mihir, someone who is not an OCD and knows how to speak. It is the first time he stopped Mihika to take the lead ,.. more than once.

CONS

1. the presentation of the over the top drama scene ... EEEKS ...
2. Ishita has a heart of gold can be taken to another level. I have an inkling she will ask Shagun to be present in MiMi marriage against all khandaan .. SP Bahu act ... that by my standards will be sheerly impractical.
3. The entire streched marriage act ... am already hoping for a joint honeymoon so CVs can u pleej hurry up 😆

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-kri-

@-kri-

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#1069

Originally posted by: redwine1

Jyoe ..

lovely that u brought that up .. now go back & see that scene .. u will understand what i am saying ..
But we can agree to disagree as well .. i am cool with that .. 😳
She categorically tells him .. u have feelings for SHAGGY . he DOES NOT DENY IT ..
she says u scold her as if she is URS .. he does not deny that ..

she has brought this out a lot of times & each time he has been mum about it .. but in the case of ishita . the moment he asked about Subbu she denied having feelings .. & in very crisp & clear words ...

He had feelings...But that was hate which prevented him from moving on... I just can't believe that a man can still love a woman who betrayed him and left his 6 month old kid to lead a better life with a man after mocking his love for her...

When Ishita asked him to throw that hate, Shagun went out... Now, he doesn't affect him like before...

DARLING precisely my point .. whatever be the feelings .. HE NEEDS TO ARTICULATE TO ISHITA .. I HATE SHAGUN .. is ok .. but he needs to ANSWER RIGHT

this is not about Raman & what he feels about his past ,. this is about what Ishita feels he feels for his past

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I think this track will help Raman to open his mouth... Ishita has been cheated...just for her innocence and her good nature... One big lesson...

Now, its going to explore a new side...

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chweetu

@chweetu

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#1070

blame d writers for making OTT drama for dis bhai behen ka khulasa n mihir wl shout at ishu?oh wow yahi dekna reh gaya ta dat man hv no right to shout if he dont hv guts to tell d truth about his past!!bhai mere parents hote mihika k parents ke place mein they wl nvr gv my hand to him!!ye mihir ke amma ko manane ki tareeka humein samajh nahi ati :/