Originally posted by: redwine1
UGH ... sorry sorry sorry . for making u feel low .. i always hope my posts put a smile on the face of people ... so another sorry to u ..
Ok lemme try helping here ... what i have written is RAMAN's POV .. of what he FELT .. but that does not take into account what ISHITA FELT ..
if u read while u were sleeping .. i wrote there .. she brought Shagun to the one place she knew would offer SECURITY .. her home .. which is BHALLA house ..
CROSS WIRES .. i have actually written these words a lot of times .. while he believes she has not understood his gestures .. she is still living with the thot he is in love with his ex ..
Note the no. of times ... she has built her hopes up with his I LOVE U .. & with him immediately retreating back ..
As a viewer we have not really seen much from what ISHITA feels .. in the beginning of her marriage the words .. AUKAAT .. STAY IN UR LIMITS .. have been drummed into her .. the spectre of Shagun is very much a reality in their lives .. while SUBBU is only a name to contend with ... Its easier for Raman to deal with her past .. since he is NOT FACING HER PAST REGULARLY .. while Ishita at every turn gets to face his past ..
For her to believe in their relation status change she will need to hear it directly .. Note how when she is confused one day dejected .. Bala gives her the KACCHA AAM explanation .. post that day .. she starts seeing Raman with the eyes of a man who has potential to change ..
yet again when she is struggling with seeing the Desire in Raman's eyes ... its bala who categorically reminds her of the change in how she also perceived her husband ...
Ishita as a woman has been so badly battered in LOVE .. that she will need to be told DIRECTLY .. not in the veiled taunts & statements that Raman gives her ..
This is the same woman who was accused of trapping him by him .. this is the same woman who when she came close to him even to apply balm was told ... U need any excuse to touch me .. how is that woman to understand the change in dynamics .. till someone ACTUALLY SPELLS IT OUT TO HER ..