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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Mepharm
Amazing post Ruby👏
You always manage to put a positive spin on the content and bring forward an aspect which could have otherwise gone unnoticed.

I am personally happy with ISHRA relation and it's pace...I would just like them to have some more couple screen space...

For example mihir mihika scenes however long or short they seem complete...but with ISHRA it feels rushed...it's okay they didn't show their lunch date and it was left to our assumption but they could have easily extended that scene by showing their car ride back home.

Also the cvs have introduced so many characters at a time that great actors and loved characters like VANDU BALA and ishitas dad are almost ignored😕.

I Love ishitas interaction with her dad ...but there hasn't been a single scene marriage I think.

Thank u Mephram ... 🤗

Bala & Vandu track will come up as well .. & let the pregnancy progress ... they will also be part of the mohabbatein circle 😉

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Posted: 10 years ago

#32

@redwine

Good post dear. My problem is not slow pace f Ishra story. This "tyag ki devi" u described is not the Ishita that I got to c before in YHM. Even when she lets ruhi go with raman to picnic during Accident track she did it coz f practical reasons n not tyaag.

I cannot bear this character butchering, hence m not able to relate to this story f YHM lately. 😭 Sad but cvs hv taken this path n nothing can b done about it.

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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: mnr123
@redwine

Good post dear. My problem is not slow pace f Ishra story. This "tyag ki devi" u described is not the Ishita that I got to c before in YHM. Even when she lets ruhi go with raman to picnic during Accident track she did it coz f practical reasons n not tyaag.

I cannot bear this character butchering, hence m not able to relate to this story f YHM lately. 😭 Sad but cvs hv taken this path n nothing can b done about it.

Ok lemme see if i can talk u thru to get back some interest .. this is just for discussion sakes .. 😊

tyaag = sacrifice ..

for a moment forget all the million speculative posts about how Ishita will leave Raman & al that crap .. just focus on the current track .. & tell me when did u feel she sacrificed ?

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Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: redwine1

Ok lemme see if i can talk u thru to get back some interest .. this is just for discussion sakes ..😊

tyaag = sacrifice ..

for a moment forget all the million speculative posts about how Ishita will leave Raman & al that crap .. just focus on the current track .. & tell me when did u feel she sacrificed ?

Oof where should i start from, getting Param home, sacrificing her own self respect to give Simmi justice .
Again getting Shagun Home n putting her in the bed, sacrificing ur own n ur husbands space n comfort in ur house without asking its members. Shaguns comfort is more important than comfort levels of ur family members?

I really find it illogical, maybe u as a viewer can relate to it but I cant dear n m not criticizing u for ur post. M criticizing cvs for their product.

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yhm_craze

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Posted: 10 years ago

#35

@redwine aww that was a quick response..thank u!! 😳

You know I was comparing the accident track with what is happening now (dont know wot to call this track..there are so many that I am lost 😆)...we are all rallying for Ishita that she got Shagun to Bhalla house on humanitarian grounds and that she had no other option. Remember Raman was in a similiar situation in the accident track when he saved Shagun from the fire in hotel and Ishita saw them together with Shagun in Raman's arms. We felt bad for Ishita then too..but then wasnt Raman also helping Shagun on humanitarian grounds? At that point obviously Ishita had no clue about their connection with the accident. Yes she saw them together the same day in the morning but then without talking it out she was quickly on her way of assuming the worst. Raman was also helping Shagun and he had no option..he could not really leave her there to die..he would have helped anyone in that situation. What if Raman had got Shagun to Bhalla house then? What if he had taken her to his bedroom just like Ishita did? What would our reaction be? and more importantly what would Ishita's reaction be? The problem is not the lack of trust in each other..the problem is they dont trust themselves enough..they dont think they are good enough for each other...Ishita because of her infertility issue and Raman himself said "mai Subbu thodi hu" 😆😆.

Another point that has been argued enough is Raman saying "mera ghar" in his outburst. Again if I go back to the accident track when Ishita came to know of Raman saving Shagun and Raman came back drunk and created a ruckus. He was dumped wasted in his own living room by Ishita and his family. Just like Ishita was almost alienated now. Correct me if I am wrong coz I dont remember the dialogues verbatim...didnt Ishita tell him then that she wont leave as it is her home and her family? did she mean that it was not Raman's? She saw that Raman was destroying his own home and family and she was ready to fight even him to save that..isnt Raman doing the same thing? We may disagree with the methods in the way they go about expressing themselves but arent they doing the same thing?

And yet..I see a very important difference in the 2 tracks...there Raman knew from the beginning that he was doomed and he was wrong and he was dying in guilt...but here so far CVs have not shown Ishita even realizing what's happening most of the time 😕

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shidin0117

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Posted: 10 years ago

#36

Hi Ruby,

I am speechless really, thanks for the analysis explaining about Raman's dia. about which I had commented on ur prevoius post. And when check my IF mail lo, i found the mail from explaining abt the same. so many many thanks. Waiting for ur next post...

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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Hey Mnr ,...

No sweat no criticism taken .. i get the frustration that ur feeling ..

i get that personally these tracks for u left much to be desired ... i always say that how a particular thing is perceived by one is not necessarily how it is perceived by another ..

But heres food for thot .. this is a family .. in Ishita's own words in India one marries into a family not just to an individual .. sometimes in a family one has to swallow the bitter pill for the greater good .. Param insulted her .. yes .. param was a threat to her security .. but Param was also exposed now .. this perhaps from Ishita's POV was a calculated risk so as to save another woman from a bad fate of a man who had feel of clay ..

Whats more earlier she herself was unknown to Param's true nature .. this time she herself is aware of his true nature ..

This is not a personal view .. but from a story point of telling.. in a family one has to sometimes sacrifice or rather compromise a bit to let the family function well ... the best thing is her family for whom she is doing this (baring Simmi) everyone is aware of her immensely good nature & is in full support of her ..

In the case of Shagun ... i don't think she really gave it a thot .. she reacted .. one as a woman .. one as a doctor .. she saw an unprotected .. defenceless woman on the streets in the dead of night .. who was in no state to either control herself or even be coherent about what was happening in & around her ... it was the age old instinct to protect a woman that made her do what she did .. This woman was also the mother of 2 kids . .one of those 2 kids was Ishita's own daughter .. as a mother she reacted ...

The sacrifice ... give it a thot .. i myself have written countless times .. Ishita doesnt deep down think Raman is over his past ... but having said that .. what was amazing in her this move was THE AMAZING TRUST SHE PLACED IN HER HUSBAND .. that move while stupid ( nothing justifies the bedroom) ... was also courageous .. very JKR .. most of us women would actually be scared to even think this ... I think her husband has nailed her down perfectly .. JKR & Bewakoof aurat .. 😉

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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: yhm_craze
@redwine aww that was a quick response..thank u!! 😳
You know I was comparing the accident track with what is happening now (dont know wot to call this track..there are so many that I am lost 😆)...we are all rallying for Ishita that she got Shagun to Bhalla house on humanitarian grounds and that she had no other option. Remember Raman was in a similiar situation in the accident track when he saved Shagun from the fire in hotel and Ishita saw them together with Shagun in Raman's arms. We felt bad for Ishita then too..but then wasnt Raman also helping Shagun on humanitarian grounds? At that point obviously Ishita had no clue about their connection with the accident. Yes she saw them together the same day in the morning but then without talking it out she was quickly on her way of assuming the worst. Raman was also helping Shagun and he had no option..he could not really leave her there to die..he would have helped anyone in that situation. What if Raman had got Shagun to Bhalla house then? What if he had taken her to his bedroom just like Ishita did? What would our reaction be? and more importantly what would Ishita's reaction be? The problem is not the lack of trust in each other..the problem is they dont trust themselves enough..they dont think they are good enough for each other...Ishita because of her infertility issue and Raman himself said "mai Subbu thodi hu" 😆😆.

Another point that has been argued enough is Raman saying "mera ghar" in his outburst. Again if I go back to the accident track when Ishita came to know of Raman saving Shagun and Raman came back drunk and created a ruckus. He was dumped wasted in his own living room by Ishita and his family. Just like Ishita was almost alienated now. Correct me if I am wrong coz I dont remember the dialogues verbatim...didnt Ishita tell him then that she wont leave as it is her home and her family? did she mean that it was not Raman's? She saw that Raman was destroying his own home and family and she was ready to fight even him to save that..isnt Raman doing the same thing? We may disagree with the methods in the way they go about expressing themselves but arent they doing the same thing?

And yet..I see a very important difference in the 2 tracks...there Raman knew from the beginning that he was doomed and he was wrong and he was dying in guilt...but here so far CVs have not shown Ishita even realizing what's happening most of the time 😕

Honestly if u could see me now .. i am giving u a standing ovation ...

U just gave me immense relief that i am watching the same show .. 😉

I have written in countless discussion threads about the hotel incident .. i found that even more shocking a thing to do .. carrying Shagun in his arms out of the hotel .. but what was even more shocking was HE SAW HIS WIFE .. but just walked past her .. its not like he dumped Shagun in the backseat & came to pick his wife up & offer her a lift ..

He made it out to be a sordid thing ... At that time as well .. I felt Ishita as a wife placed amazing trust in her husband .. she felt bad .. about the fact that her husband was meeting Shagun .. but i don't think it even struck her to question adultery ...

The difference in the 2 tracks is ... Raman did every thing clandestinely .. even though he was offering protection .. he was doing it clandestinely . at least in the beginning .. till IShita forced his hand to come out in the open ..

While Ishita brought Shagun home .. in front of her family .. expecting the family to help a woman who was the biological parent of the grand kids of the house to be offered shelter .. knowing this was about one night . it was an inconvenience of a night only ...

I urge u to pen ur thots more .. they are so lucid .. they are so deep & such a unbiassed overview .. loved it to bits .. Thank u so much for sharing this here once again ..

BEWARE am gonna keep badgering u whenever I can to post ur thots from henceforth 😃

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redwine1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: shidin0117
Hi Ruby,
I am speechless really, thanks for the analysis explaining about Raman's dia. about which I had commented on ur prevoius post. And when check my IF mail lo, i found the mail from explaining abt the same. so many many thanks. Waiting for ur next post...

Hi Shidin ..

Thanx a ton .. i should actually thank the people who asked me this ques on the dialogs for this post .. So THANK U FOR making me write this post ..

Hope this answered ur ques ... when i saw this scene the first time .. i was speechless . rather than a frown i had a smile on my face .. cudnt believe what all this man was revealing today ... loved this totally ... & man the actor really came to party .. ONE TALENTED GUY ..

He carried the scene with amazing aplomb .. his acting was very real .. very natural .. very instinctive .. in my book it came from the heart so it touched the heart .. 🤗

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yhm_craze

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Posted: 10 years ago

#40

My like button is on strike 😡

Aww @redwine thank u!!! As Raman would say mujhe verbal diarrhea ho gaya hai ab 😆😆

I am not disputing the fact at all that Raman made blunders in the accident track. His leaving the hotel with Shagun leaving Ishita stranded there was insensitive. And thats the problem isnt it...there is no communication. Of course explaining his presence there would have lead to questions from Ishita (according to him) as to what he was doing there with Shagun in the first place and being the jagga jasoos 😆 she would then come to know the truth about the accident so he just fled from there 🤢. She may have not questioned him but in her head she was reaching the worst conclusion and hence her heartbreak when she saw Shagun in Raman's arms.

But this Shagun drunk drama was not that big a problem for the drama it created. It could have so easily been resolved by a phone call from Ishita to Raman 😕. Whatever problems they have between them atleast they have always helped each other in such a situation..I hope Ishita does not doubt that too 😆. In fact she did not call up anybody forget Raman. So she got it in her head that she has nobody to help her and she has no choice and dragged a drunk Shagun to Bhalla house..but she could have got help 😕. She got Param back on her own too 😲.

Now again Raman seems to be hiding about Sanjana. So far it has been all Mihir and Mihika and Mihir's secret to be revealed so I understand Raman's silence..it is not his secret to reveal. And he did try talking to Mihir to tell the truth. But Param's warning to Ishita that Sanjana will have a big role to play in her life and Raman's fear on hearing her name has got me worried. Really I dont want a repeat telecast of Raman's majboori 🤢.

The problem is they dont talk to each other. And again that is happening because of their fear and insecurity. They dont want to appear weak or vulnerable in front of the other. Raman is still letting down his guard after the accident track but I am yet to see Ishita really doing it.

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