Does Raman really know how to respect woman? - Page 2

no he dsnt respect women but one thing can b done ..one of us shud go thr n teach him to respect women😳

Originally posted by: ishra4ever

I agree a bit and disagree a bit.

I agree with you in few points that Raman is at times too harsh with Ishita, though nowadays it has reduced a lot.
And ishu was deeply hurt when raman didn't tell her the truth about Adi causing Amma's accident and he knows that she would not bear again if he lies. Then also Raman is hiding to her n whole iyer family about Mihir's family and past.
It is not at all acceptable at this stage when raman started having feelings for ishu n considers her parents.as his.


But, I disagree about the statement that Raman doesn't respect ishita. Raman's character is such that he is cordial with strangers but he takes out all his frustration on his loved ones. If you notice, he yells the most on mihir, ishu and his own mom. It doesn't mean he doesn't respect them...infact these 3 ppl matter the most to him. His mom ishis backbone while mihir is his brain and ishita is his heart n soul now.

He doesn't need to pretend to be someone infront of these 3ppl n he knows dat he can be himself n speak his heart out infront of these 3ppl...


It happens in real life too. We shout the most at d ppl whom v call our own. Like u can shout at ur own mom simply fr no reason n yet u luv her d most. But u will try to be as cordial and as pleasing to your mother in law even if u dont gel well with her bcoz u need to maintain relations n peace.


Well I am such a person similar to raman. If I'm frustrated, I take it out on my frnds n family n I knw dey wudnt mind coz dey knw sumthng is bothering me.
But if I meet a stranger or acquaintance, I would behave cordially with him or her even if I'm in a bad mood coz I can't emote.my feeling to the ppl who r not important for me.

Hi,

Originally posted by: ishra4ever

I agree a bit and disagree a bit.

I agree with you in few points that Raman is at times too harsh with Ishita, though nowadays it has reduced a lot.
And ishu was deeply hurt when raman didn't tell her the truth about Adi causing Amma's accident and he knows that she would not bear again if he lies. Then also Raman is hiding to her n whole iyer family about Mihir's family and past.
It is not at all acceptable at this stage when raman started having feelings for ishu n considers her parents.as his.


But, I disagree about the statement that Raman doesn't respect ishita. Raman's character is such that he is cordial with strangers but he takes out all his frustration on his loved ones. If you notice, he yells the most on mihir, ishu and his own mom. It doesn't mean he doesn't respect them...infact these 3 ppl matter the most to him. His mom ishis backbone while mihir is his brain and ishita is his heart n soul now.

He doesn't need to pretend to be someone infront of these 3ppl n he knows dat he can be himself n speak his heart out infront of these 3ppl...


It happens in real life too. We shout the most at d ppl whom v call our own. Like u can shout at ur own mom simply fr no reason n yet u luv her d most. But u will try to be as cordial and as pleasing to your mother in law even if u dont gel well with her bcoz u need to maintain relations n peace.


Well I am such a person similar to raman. If I'm frustrated, I take it out on my frnds n family n I knw dey wudnt mind coz dey knw sumthng is bothering me.
But if I meet a stranger or acquaintance, I would behave cordially with him or her even if I'm in a bad mood coz I can't emote.my feeling to the ppl who r not important for me.

some how i agree with u i totally agree when somebody loves someone at the time of difficulty he or she takes out his frustration on their dear one but at the time of any thing happen bad not all the time yahan daily ka hai


If u love some one u usually take out ur frustration in ur loved one i believe in this some time ago but something happened with me in my personal life i do not believe in this theory of love .
but for me when some one yelled at u without any reason it means that u r uninvited person ur post reminds me this theory of love which i forget it,u have indirectly touched my wounds which i forget oh kabhi kabhi itni positive soch rakhne se u have to pay off one day so its better to open ur eyes n be realistic

in ishra scenario they both r uninvited person for each other in their life .Raman did not want to marry ishita ,even ishita did not want to marry him they married for Ruhi's sake but whenever raman taunt ishita wo har waqt frustration mein nahi hota ya kisi problem mein nahi hota.Wo har chez mein aise hi karta hai Like ishita us ki life mein zabardasti bhaj de gai hai used her like a punching bag he say whatever he wanna say to her > some people said ishita's know him thats why she never questions him but here ishita's knew her limitation thats why she did not mind it.


undoubtedly their relationship progressed quiet well but know raman has to soft spoken towards her thts wat i wanna say respect ki sath baat kare

One question why non of you feel bad when Raman insulted and misbehaved in most worst manner at pre-engagement party of Miir and Trisha .. he literally made Shagun fell on floor and caused her injury ... why every one who is voicing the reghts of Women enjoy most when Shagun get insulted from Raman time and again ... woman is woman be it Ishita or Shagun ...

He does respect women, just he has a funny way of showing it!especially to those that are younger than him. He respects mrs iyer a lot & we've seen that. He also respects his mum a lot. But with ishita he feels he can take out he's frustration on her when he's upset, which is really annoying but I guess husbands are like that!! You know what? As annoying as he's behaviour is, it's actually quite realistic. In reality,men are just from another planet!! Me & my friends are always ranting about our husbands! Someone's always complaining about what their husband did today,said today.its just that we're not half as patient as Ishu!!

I also many times fight with my mother my father but that's not mean i didn't love them or not respects my parents even some times i found my self very badtamiz but they are mine so whenever muje koi baat pasand nahi ati meri fight start(aur yeh life mein apki daily basis pe hota rehta hai that's why YHM is very realistic serial for me) after that i very ashamed on my self . But that's true i love them a lot.

raman actually respects women...he taunts ishu becos he is pulling her leg and also he tries to control his feelings for ishu thus he put on tough exterior mask of rudeness for ishu...

nice post n valid point.seems cvs r inspired by aparichit movie n busy in writing 50 shades of raman kumar bhalla. raman respects women but rkb not tats wat cvs saying lol.

If Raman was not a person who respected Women Ishita wud've walked out of that marriage taking Ruhi along with her. Coz after all Ruhi too is a girl n no point in staying wid a man who doesnt respect women coz that wud just mske her a meek n timid person. She chose to stay with Raman n his family I hope that shud answer ur question.