Does Raman really know how to respect woman?

i am making this thread i really wanna know does raman really respect woman yes or not?becoz i dont think so ,may be few people does not like my post i just sharing my POV because i am observing this from quiet long time.Today i finally decided to share with u

I am not happy with Raman. if u think he respect woman than
For me a good man always respect woman N specially his wife his own woman
i must say raman has double standards.ishita and shagun both r his children 'mother while shagun is his ex n Ishita is his present wife may be he accepted her as a wife or not ( as u know his fav line sirf Ruhi ki liye).He helped Shagun twice becoz she is a woman n mother of his children.for sihita case he undoubtedly helped her in some occation wo bhi srif Ruhi ki liye but rest of it he always yelled ishita n Taunt her with his famous one liner (seriouly now adays i am not enjoying one liner ) he never talk to her politely n calmly .
if he really respects woman than he has to acknowledge Ishita.he always yelled at her she is always there whenever he needs help but he never showed respect to her

Shagun is woman & she is mother of his children so she helped her today
But

Wat abt ishita ?she is also a mother of his daughter n for showing the world's she is his wife too but he never acknowledge her even he has problem with her face, voice, weight her profession. had hai .when Ishita was going for surgery he made her video n left her alone there n even blackmailed her with that video.Why he left her if she really respect woman wo bhi is condition mein?he never satisfied with ishita chahe wo kuch bhi kare .Its a good quality of man if he gives respect to his woman for me he is not respecting her .there r so many cases where people do 2nd marriage but those couple accept each other as a partner its hard for them to love each other initially but they give respect to ur partner is not a hard task . i knew he has faced torturous marriage,now he did not beileve in love but if he cant love Ishita koi baat nahi atleast he can give respect to his partner its not very hard for him atleast for Ruhi's sake he try at least.lakin nahi when ever he sees ishita his taunting meter starts

If Raman really respect woman than its a high time he has to start respecting Ishita. he has to stop taunting her now if cv's really wanna show That raman know how to respect woman ?its high Time Cv's has to change his character now hamesha shagun se realated chezon wo izzat dena janta hai when if we talk abt Ishita he lost his Brain he always accused & scold her . it does not look good to me itna sab kiya hai ishita ne he has to start respecting her plz stop yelling at her ab nok jhok or one liner ki name mein bohat kuch bola hai but now it looks like over.

I also felt like that but then raman is free with ishu, and ishu know its just joking, and pyaar bhari nokjok not serious...
And yes raman respect woman
Ashok and Param doesnt
Just my pov 😊

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

This is what is eating me... CV's are going out of the way to show how Raman is respecting women. But then at other times he comes across as a complete jerk! He does respect Ishita but does he respect her only when the world is against her? where does this respect go when he is speaking to her at other times? I am mostly angry with the CV's for not being consistent with Raman's behaviour... He has realised Ishita's worth, he respects how much she has done for his family...then on the basis of this knowledge why should she be at the receiving end of his harsh words? Does a man treat a woman who has supported him in every way in such manner?

Completely agree with both the above writers

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

This is what is eating me... CV's are going out of the way to show how Raman is respecting women. But then at other times he comes across as a complete jerk! He does respect Ishita but does he respect her only when the world is against her? where does this respect go when he is speaking to her at other times? I am mostly angry with the CV's for not being consistent with Raman's behaviour... He has realised Ishita's worth, he respects how much she has done for his family...then on the basis of this knowledge why should she be at the receiving end of his harsh words? Does a man treat a woman who has supported him in every way in such manner?

@bold is the point...Raman is a jerk, but to everyone! he is an equal opportunity jerk, but under his bitterness and his harsh exterior he is a guy who respects women, and his elders.

When he's angry, hurt, his defense is attack with sharp and mean words or stony silence...he does this with everyone...but even by his own admission he respects Ishita as a woman, his warrior Queen.

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

This is what is eating me... CV's are going out of the way to show how Raman is respecting women. But then at other times he comes across as a complete jerk! He does respect Ishita but does he respect her only when the world is against her? where does this respect go when he is speaking to her at other times? I am mostly angry with the CV's for not being consistent with Raman's behaviour... He has realised Ishita's worth, he respects how much she has done for his family...then on the basis of this knowledge why should she be at the receiving end of his harsh words? Does a man treat a woman who has supported him in every way in such manner?

thanks for understanding my POV i agree with u now its undigested for me to accept this type of RKB behavior,Cv's has to show consistency in his character otherwise RkB character lose his charm.
@ i am totally unthinkable why he treated her like tissue paper.

Raman, Respects women he has never misbehaved with ishitha , he keeps taunting her just to pull her leg, even ishita does that to raman it doesnot mean he doesnot respect her.

I agree a bit and disagree a bit.

I agree with you in few points that Raman is at times too harsh with Ishita, though nowadays it has reduced a lot.
And ishu was deeply hurt when raman didn't tell her the truth about Adi causing Amma's accident and he knows that she would not bear again if he lies. Then also Raman is hiding to her n whole iyer family about Mihir's family and past.
It is not at all acceptable at this stage when raman started having feelings for ishu n considers her parents.as his.


But, I disagree about the statement that Raman doesn't respect ishita. Raman's character is such that he is cordial with strangers but he takes out all his frustration on his loved ones. If you notice, he yells the most on mihir, ishu and his own mom. It doesn't mean he doesn't respect them...infact these 3 ppl matter the most to him. His mom ishis backbone while mihir is his brain and ishita is his heart n soul now.

He doesn't need to pretend to be someone infront of these 3ppl n he knows dat he can be himself n speak his heart out infront of these 3ppl...


It happens in real life too. We shout the most at d ppl whom v call our own. Like u can shout at ur own mom simply fr no reason n yet u luv her d most. But u will try to be as cordial and as pleasing to your mother in law even if u dont gel well with her bcoz u need to maintain relations n peace.


Well I am such a person similar to raman. If I'm frustrated, I take it out on my frnds n family n I knw dey wudnt mind coz dey knw sumthng is bothering me.
But if I meet a stranger or acquaintance, I would behave cordially with him or her even if I'm in a bad mood coz I can't emote.my feeling to the ppl who r not important for me.

hmmm buddy i undrstnd ur point...evn i was upset wid raman fr wat he did yesterdy (when ishu asked him mihir's truth)...bt raman scolded ishu bcz he feel she has a ryt over her... he can say anythin to ishu, bcz he feels ishu is his property...his yelling at ishu isnt bcz he doesnt respect er or sumthin...its oly bcz he find her to be his... n dats y he jus tell her anythin he feels like n ishu also doesnt take it seriously cz she knows her hubby quite well...