Ishita being subservient? Repetitive verbal abuse by Raman! - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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[DIV]Really ..didn't he regret not sharing Adi's truth with Ishita earlier during the accident track? and he doesn't learn from mistakes ...he again repeats the same by hiding Mihir's truth? common ...if Ishu can accept shagun's daughter ...why won't she be OK with Shagun's brother marrying mihika? ..she knows Mihir to be as good hearted as she knows ruhi to


Except this time it is not Raman's secret to tell. It's Mihir's. So therefore it's up to Mihir to tell his secret to his fiance or her sister. Ishita should have ask Mihir. Raman was right not to betray his brother's trust. When Mihir is confident enough he will tell them himself. There is no need for Raman to intrude in this matter. That all I have to say.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry double post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks ...
yes I do appreciate the wonderful things they've shown in the show thus far ..
but anyone who has anything to say in favor of raman's snide comments in the 21st aug episode ..seriously need to think twice...
the woman has done so much for you and you yell at her for asking about Mihir's past? ..you verbally abuse her when she's trying to make conversation...and then the moment she mentions Adi you let out a smile?! ...seriously ...as long as she's sucking up to you u smile ..and when she asks you something you don't want to talk you get angry??
how bout at least he nicely replies saying that he doesn't want to discuss it ...be cordial at the very least ...!! .though IMO he needs to tell her the truth ..after all her sister is marrying the man they are talking about ...she deserves to know! ..

Originally posted by: Muskaan00

Great post!

But pl be careful, ppl are gonna get defensive here , the freedom of expression is getting highly questione in this forum these days!

They forget we have every right to critisice the show which we appreciate wen it shows some great story line as well!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well then..AT least he should tell her that cordially ..he should tell her like a good friend will ..that Mihir has trusted him with his past and he cannot go behind his back and let it out ..if she really wants to know she can ask Mihir about it herself! ..I don't see why the outburst about her being a spy and to do what she is told ..who is he to bloody tell her what to do ..besides why should ishita even go to remodel mihirs house ..shes no interior decorator ..that's so weird! ..if he doesn't consider her wife enough to share truths he knows ...he can't order her to do things either!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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True.
When you love someone you start expecting respect not just in terms of feeling but verbally too. Raman is too harsh in words. If he knows Ishita is good human being,respects her so much then at least he should show it in words too. He never thinks before he speaks and when these days he is trying to be funny seems to irritate us more.
We understand its his way to cover up his feelings but still not justifiable. Even Ishita never back answer him and behaves as his slave rather than his wife or friend or whatever.
When Raman was hurt from inside his rude behaviour,his arrogance,his irritation was justified but now his life has gone to an another level where his kids are happy his family is content...he himself is stress-free than this attitude...not acceptable.
CV we request you to think about it and even episodes are getting too annoying and boring these days. We know you guys don't want to show ishra in love but at least show something worth watching.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with you. Ishita is supposed to be among the more progressive female leads on Indian television. She should not be shown as someone who takes such rude comments lightly. I remember how during the initial phase of the show, she would never think twice before giving Raman a piece of her mind whenever he tried to berate her. But these days, she doesn't even respond to his offensive remarks. Maybe they're trying to show that she is in love with him and she understands him enough to not take him seriously. But the Ishita that we know would not turn a blind eye to such unacceptable behaviour.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good point. There's a fine line between a teasing taunt and a direct insult which the CVs are not always able to handle very well. But on the other hand I'll say that Ishita is a very secure kind of a person and never actually takes anything that he says very seriously. But anyway, I don't think Raman's the only one who insults his partner. Ishita often gives as good as she gets. But maybe she has to up her dose a bit more. And lastly, I don't think I'd enjoy the show as much if the two were always polite to each other!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Taunts and nok jhok in apropiate time is fine,even to use as defence mechanism with regards to his feeling for her but it should not be rude or done to hurt.

What i don't understand is,after adi and all the drama there was because raman kept the truth from ishita,why is he keeping mihir relationship with shagun a secret 😕
Edited by momb24 - 11 years ago

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