Raman should forgive Param too !!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since Param has a daughter and Simmi loves Param may be now Raman will forgive Param too! And may be give him a hug and console him for all the mistakes he made and promise him for Ananyas sake that he will be safe..

If he can do so for Shagun then he might as well be fair to Simmi and Ananya !!

His character lost respect today...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is a very inequitable comparison.
Ananya is 6 month old baby, who has her mother, her grandparents and whole lot family to take care of her and bond with. She is yet to start recognizing relations as her own.

Whereas Adi is messed up kid, who only connects with his mother, and she happens to be the world for him. Had Raman taken any action against Shagun, Adi's world would have come crashing down. Whatever we may say, how much ever me may hate him, but Adi is just a 11 year old kid, raised under the appalling upbringing of a shallow and disgusting witch of a woman. Just that h doesn't realize it yet.

Having said that, I do not support what Raman did. I understand his predicament to an extent. But he was terribly wrong in hiding the truth form Ishita. I don't see any reason for him to do so. Ishita has always supported him though thick and thin. She deserved to earn his trust and she deserved to know the truth, more so when the whole matter is concerned with her mother's accident.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Of course it's inequitable only in the sense that one was intentional (Params misdeeds) and Shaguns accident apparently was a mistake.. That being said.. Supressing and hiding the issue just because she is Adis mom isn't fair.. Even Param was Ananyas dad.. Doesn't matter if one has family or no.. No one can fill in a parents place in ones life...

If he exposed Param he should expose Shagun and then leave the decision to Ishita.. Why lie and hide.. What a shame !! How is he different than Simmi.. Doesn't matter if he feels guilty.. His guilty won't stop Ishitas pain once she'll know the truth

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Whatever was the situation of his upbringing , he's enough a big boy to understand some few actions, for example, he knows when to act rudely and when to act sweetly with his own father...
If one of the parents is not good enough, is not capable of setting a good example or teach him what is good or what is bad, at least the other must try to guide him in the right path, but here both his parents only succumb to his demands and follows what he says as if his words are a sort of order...

I also think why Ananya must live w/o the love of his father, he must forget and welcome Param back home for the sake of Simmy who loves her hubby a lot and their child...


Edited by ALUJNA21 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman is pussy whipped. That is the only word that comes to my mind. When Ishita told him "let it go" after the whole Amma's lies to the police incident, he was dead against it and told Ishita that every criminal is related to someone , if we let everybody go then ...

He was all bent on sending Ashok and Param to jail but as soon as he found out his ex wife did the accident the color drained from his face...even before Shagun mentioned Adi.

When it comes to Shagun, he wants everyone to adjust as she is the "mother of his children". That is the expectation of most men nowadays and the reason of parents getting mistreated.

MOTHER, father, sister, brother , bhua, phupha etc etc...everybody adjust coz she is the "mother of my children"!!!!!!She will not adjust...dont expect !!!!!..."WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MY CHILDREN??"

I for one dont agree with this logic...its sickening and root of many evils!!

Wonder if he would have the same logic if his mom had been the one run over.
Edited by shazam1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: EKEK

Since Param has a daughter and Simmi loves Param may be now Raman will forgive Param too! And may be give him a hug and console him for all the mistakes he made and promise him for Ananyas sake that he will be safe..

If he can do so for Shagun then he might as well be fair to Simmi and Ananya !!

His character lost respect today...

I love how u looked at the other side of the coin...Just as Adi is his son,just so Param is a father to a daughter...The same principle should apply irregardless age of child and living situation of child. Just so Adi can beg for his mother just so Param daughter should have begged for her father,however,she is a helpless infant who do not have a voice as yet...
Even if Adi's mother fails to teach him right or wrong he is around 10-11years,is not he attending school where they teach right and wrong?
We look at the angle of a helpless father trying to console a unreasonable ,rude mannerless child,but in all that we forget the most human act,that is justice for the victim irrespective of who the culprit is and what relationship that person has with you..
The purpose of finding the culprit was to give Ishita's mother justice for a hit and run accident,how a bratty kid, a father ridiculous obsession for his son and a heartless insensitive woman take precedent over giving Ishita's mom justice...
EVery person who are victims of crime committed against them just want to see the perpetrator punished,but what Raman does hide the truth deny justice to a old woman for a son who is heading down a destructive part because he has his mother traits...There are times when people cant be saved but do the right humanitarian thing.
So Ishita has to go on her knees and beg Raman to give her mother justice...Giving into Adi pleads and saving Shagun was just very baseless and one load of crap...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shazam1

Raman is pussy whipped. That is the only word that comes to my mind. When Ishita told him "let it go" after the whole Amma's lies to the police incident, he was dead against it and told Ishita that every criminal is related to someone , if we let everybody go then ...

He was all bent on sending Ashok and Param to jail but as soon as he found out his ex wife did the accident the color drained from his face...even before Shagun mentioned Adi.

When it comes to Shagun, he wants everyone to adjust as she is the "mother of his children". That is the expectation of most men nowadays and the reason of parents getting mistreated.

MOTHER, father, sister, brother , bhua, phupha etc etc...everybody adjust coz she is the "mother of my children"!!!!!!She will not adjust...dont expect !!!!!..."WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MY CHILDREN??"

I for one dont agree with this logic...its sickening and root of many evils!!

Wonder if he would have the same logic if his mom had been the one run over.


Bang on
It just proves he is a hypocrite.
He don't mind sending romi and the excuse he got is adi will become lone
I am not buying his crap
Edited by Ridhi. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Baap re itna reaction pls yaar trust Raman he might give justice to ishu once he knows shagun is faking .
If not we will hate him till then watch it guys don't go emotional .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar29

Baap re itna reaction pls yaar trust Raman he might give justice to ishu once he knows shagun is faking .
If not we will hate him till then watch it guys don't go emotional .



That's the problem.. Why can't he give justice if it's Shagun.. Why only give justice when it's easy for him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lets seee what happens...really hope he doesnt fall for that witch shagun!! Sshe irratea me to no end

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