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I see there are lot of topics floating around the forum related to yesterday's episode and i have read most of the replies .After reading few responses I fail to understand Raman's obsession with first born kid and few people justifying his actions .A child is a child ,how does it matter when she/he was born?I do see few post saying Ruhi or any other kid cannot take Adi's place in Raman's life ..if that is true then they have no right to bring another kid into this world.Every child deserves same kind of love from their parents.It was not Ruhi's fault that she was born second .It was Raman who was eager to have Ruhi .
Even during hospital scene he was remembering Adi's birth nor once did he say anything about Ruhi .I agree that he loves Ruhi but unfortunately he cannot love her as much as he loves Adi and this pains me a lot.She deserves same kind of treatment from her father atleast .It was Raman who wanted to have a second child.I feel she is blessed to have Ishita in her life else she would have never got her parent's love.She is Ishita's daughter and she will always be.
Being his daughter's mother,Ishita deserves some respect from Raman. He knows that Shagun doesn't leave a single chance to insult Ishita but still he gave her the superior feeling by mentioning that it was she who gave him the happiness of being a father .Shagun might have given to birth to his first kid but it also true that she is responsible for snatching Adi his first born from him.How could Raman forgot this.I understand his thank you and sorry but I was unable to understand his other dialogues regarding memories and happiness which only she can give.
My intention was not to offend anyone .I was just sharing my feelings and I would like to clear that I am not Ishra's fan but a normal viewer who likes seeing some sensible stuff on TV and YHM is one serial which hasn't disappointed me.
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