Its Not Yet Love - IshRa

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Nabila

@bila_a

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

I totally agree with you aani, I never believed they were in love yet, yes they Are finally progressing in terms of how they were towards each other and like you said acceptance, but i like love slow burning romance and this is what we are getting and I'm grateful for that cause I don't see that at all in hindi serials. they are definitely not there yet and your post is pretty long lol so I skimmed because I'm busy and sick but I'm reserving right now so I can come back and read properly and reply back fully :)

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aditi

@gupta.aditi20

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

hey..

woah.. firstly such a long post... uff.. it was so long.. that mind used to keep wandering in between... but apart from that... it was worth reading...

i too think on the similar lines... i too have same pov as yours.. i also commented on someone's topic about the same.. though i dont remember on whose topic...

i completely agree.. they do no love each other yet... but yes i would say that they have atleast come to respect each other... earlier they only used to see dark side of their actions.. now they are beginning to see the good side...

and its very nice to see the physical attraction part... for a relation to start there ought to be an attraction... and its very subtle and natural which is quite endearing... i mean naturally if we see someone regularly and have seen them in their worst of clothes comes infront of you suddenly all decked up we ought to notice him... i guess this is what is happening with ishra... now they have started noticing each other.. and knowing each other... be it any reason for ruhi or otherwise.. like when raman asked ishita's favourite color or size or ice cream flavour...

but still that couldn't be called as love yet... when they both have such a hurtful past...

like ishita said that once heart is broken it takes many years to repair but cracks remains... it does not mean she had moved on but yes she has made peace with it... until and unless when her past remains in past.. the moment subbu comes infront of her she is again transported in the past as shown in earlier episodes... ( i would seriously like cv's to concentrate on ishita's past too... i feel she too was inpleccibly hurt... subbu was her first love and the man she wanted to marry... )

now coming to raman.. he has not made even peace with his past... the reason being his children... yes he has ruhi... but his heart cannot ever forget aditya.. who was his first child... and everyone is little biased towards their first child because they give them the first experience of parenthood... but his own son hates him without any fault of his.. how can a man make peace with it... and then how can he move on .. actually even if adi does not comes and stay with him.. but atleast consider him as his father... he could make peace with his past... then probably he would have the capability to move on in reality...

but yes both of them have accepted that they are each other's responsibilities.. and are starting to understand each other... along with little bit physical attraction.. but for love they still have a long way to go

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aditi

@gupta.aditi20

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: paru_rox
Finally ... am really glad you posted this today Aani. Can always count on you to relate matters in the right perspective. I can be pretty lazy myself so tend to avoid making posts myself. But loved your post too much so here goes ...

I completely agree with you on this. Ishita's speech and her statement that Raman is good for her, nowhere implied that she has fallen in love with him. Its acceptance finally from both their ends ... acceptance that they are married and have responsibilities towards each other and not only Ruhi or their extended families. Acceptance that both Ishu & Raman now know that they will stand up for each other ... maybe not as people caught in deep and passionate love but as two people who care for and respect each other.

Raman misjudged Ishu in the land deal issue and blamed her in front of the entire family. But the ensuing good that he reaped of her one decision made him realize that he has never thanked or apologized to her for all she has done for his daughter, his family and finally him. Thus the Tamil speech. However it was no declaration of love.

While it seems that Ishita has moved on from Subbu and is over her past, that is so not true. I completely agree with you here. The reason she is at peace is firstly even though she loved Subbu, she was not married to him. So her situation can never be compared to Raman's relationship with Shagun. Secondly Subbu is not a part of her daily life which certainly helps. Also unlike Raman, Ishu is not bitter towards marriage or its vows. She has accepted that Raman is her husband and is a good man though a bit "sanki". Thus the Punjabi speech to thank him for all that he has done till now for her starting with proving her innocence in the PervMeet horror, buying gifts for her, his appreciation when she has looked WOW, his clear acceptance of her in front of Shagun and what he did for Mihir-Mihika. She appreciates the various facets of the man she married and this is what it was about ... certainly not love.

But this does not mean that she has forgotten her inability to conceive (her guilt over this despite that this is beyond her control), her pain of rejection from the person she had loved. I would be super pissed at CV's if they don't show Subbu's track and her closure over her past.

Now the best point... their attraction towards each other. Unlike the normal soap characters, both Ishita and Raman have been shown to be quite mature in terms of physical proximity with each other. While in some scenes before marriage they were uncomfortable, but their physical proximity after marriage never disturbed them to the point of them acting like untouched virgin teens 😛 . Their recent acceptance that both find each other physically attractive is the best part of their mature relationship. I honestly want to know what kind of sleeping arrangements they have on if Ruhi is not in the room nowadays. Does the couch still figure in 😉

I have a few points about the recent revelations on the sort of marriage Raman-Shagun had but guess above is already too long. Anyone who makes it till here ...well this is for you 👏😆

actually you deserve 👏 for these two points... i always feel ishita's pain is under rated.. though i believe it cannot be and should not be compared with raman's but still cannot be left behind without a closure...

and thank god for that they do not behave like untouched virgin teens... like you mentioned.. it would have not matched with the maturity the kind of characters they are... and like normal human beings they appreciate when one is looking good...

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swaram

@swaram

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Totally agree with your analysis. Love in their case is going to blossom slowly and the foundation is now being laid. I think this slow but concrete laying of trust ,respect and admiration for each other will lead to developing a love which can then withstand any challenge that life may throw at them for now they will have each other and face it together!

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cool_arpana

@cool_arpana

Voyager

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Well Aani Thank you for this post...

I too agree on these lines regarding IshRa's relation ...

and now when someone with similar views has expressed it so vividly ...

it has given words to my thoughts honestly...

so better keep putting up ur views...

never hesitate...

Awesome post !!!

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serendipity.

@serendipity.

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Aani. this post was longer than your OSes! 😳

i'll BRB, i agree to most of the things, so there isnt really anything i have to add as such... but... let me be back 😆

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Juggaadd

@Juggaadd

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

I totally agree with you Aani, Ishita and Raman are not in love yet. In my opinion, they need to move on before falling in love with each other. Raman needs to be indifferent and stop comparing Ishita and Shagun. Similarly, Ishita needs closure regarding Subbu. She needs to see clearly how fortunate it was that she didn't get married to Subbu. Not that Subbu is a bad guy. He just isn't right for her. The writers could show Ishita and Raman moving on because of each other's love but I don't want it that way.

So far, it has been about the both of them realising how wrong they were about the other and that they are in fact each other's responsibility. Like you said, it is about moving beyond the "sirf Ruhi ke liye" and taking a step towards a relation which if not love, can be a sort of friendship that will help them lead a comfortable married life which at the moment, Ishita and Raman think is not possible.

I fell in love with Divyanka's acting and thereby with Ishita yesterday. The way she spoke to Mr. Tandon and unable to control her emotions breaks off at one point and apologises for her tears was mind blowing. Another brilliant yet subtle acting was how their comfort grew throughout this journey as they became familiar. I am not talking about chemistry which is obviously there. It is something more.

I even came to feel that Ishita and Raman are at a basic level, the same. Both are straightforward, truthful and cannot stand anything wrong or any sort of injustice. Both are aware of the power and necessity of love. They are mature, responsible adults.

What they say, what they don't say, each and every single aspect about them tells a lot about the both of them and so beautifully that you can't help but love these imperfectly perfect individuals and couple.

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shalu79

@shalu79

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Really very good post Anni. 👏

Whatever u write Anni be it ur OS or like this analysis, u express ur view n thoughts so beautifully just love how u put it together.

Now regarding this analysis.

I agree with u they r not madly or passionately in love each other like Ishqwala Love 😉 but the journey has already begun.

I too want their relation too gradually develop as it is shown.

loved the way they showed how understanding between these two have been developing and after reading new spoilers we can see that they have started sharing their problems too. Its really new step in their relationship.

It will be treat to watch their journey of falling in love or may i say rise in love😳

Lovely post again Anni.

As Aparna said don't hesitate to post ur views. and even if we have some difference of opinions with others it does't mean we hate the show or character or we love them less. Everybody has right to express themselves. Forum is meant for healthy discussions.

As Karan said in one of his interviews of 100 epi celebration, we r all like family (read YHM family in our case😉),aur family mein chote-mote batein hoti raheti hai. It doesn't mean we hate each other.😃

It always a pleasure reading ur posts.

🤗

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ARWA

@jojo1986

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Loved it and I agree with you

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: DivzKaranGauHit
completely agreed its not love yet its the process which will lead to dat transition of them from just being married for ruhis sake to be each others real lovers ,It will happen .

thanks hon 😊