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serendipity.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Oh God Resham!

You had to come and give official DARSHANS to the forum with a BANG, didnt you!? 😉

SO PROUD THOUGHHH! 😎 hahah, yes, i know, the poor guy gets blamed for everything he does, they see him with this typical scrutinizing critic's eye, and put him under the scanner for EVERYTHING. Some people become EXTREMELY irrational when it comes to interpreting characters, especially that of Raman's they misunterpret!

He has come a LONG LONG way. he listened to the WHOLE of what Ishita had to say, he STOPPED Simmi, Shouted at her FOR Ishita... and is going to dig DEEP into the matter to bring the truth out... and the forum waasis shall start contradicting THEIR OWN statements, like they already have :P

But its okay, as long as the discussion is healthy enough, and stays to some healthy "criticizing" instead of "bashing" its mostly bashing, but theyd just like to name as "criticizing"... anyways, i hope the blames and bashing stops for a while now.

That character is REAL and FLAWED... how difficult is THAT to understand? 🤔

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*Resham*

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Thank you guys for the welcome 🤗

I dont understand, he really accused Ishita, he did bring out their relationship in open, but why dont you all understand that its btr that the relationship is now in open, atleast people will not make a 2 and 2...now looking at the spoiler, isnt it enough that Raman is taking firm stands, he was hurt earlier, as said once bitten, twice shy, raman is exactly behaving that.

He doesnt have any love lost feelings for Ishita, but that doesnt mean he doesnt respect her, when one has to find truth, he starts behaving in a rude way towards the person who is already hurt with the allegations, to protect him/her.

We always blame Raman, but we dont see that Ishita too was somewhere rude to him in the earlier of the episodes, I dont wish to bring this Raman vs Ishita here. Its common that male actors always gets bashed esp when its a Ekta show.

If you see things, see things on both the sides, everyone is having right to express their opinions, but to blame a particular character for all sorts of reasons, is not right. Anyways my POV.

Now when this man will start loving Ishita, everyone will like him. Just saying😆

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Why i don't blame him , my take

he was not even there

he was not told

he was not taken in confidence before dragging Sarika to police station to arrest his sister's husband , it could have been a day later after conferring with him and the maika members

opening can of worms in front of full family was NOT his decision or plan ...the decision to not have anything private but to make all public was not his but taken by Ishita . Once that can of worms is opened with a determined decision to thrash out things although they get ugly ,thats exactly what happens . Then theres no private , nothing personal , everything is thrashed out . It cannot be that nanand's husband's out of control libido is discussed without returned incredulity like you wearing attention seeking dresses or your bedroom relations or your friendliness mistaken for something with ulterior motive . It is a serious charge . Everything is said then in the proving and disproving of things . Wives of these predators lunge forward to pull tufts of hair of the accusing women . I know one wife who sat on the chest of another woman who was accusing by throwing her down and went on pummeling her . Names like hussy and prostitute r called . Raman was incredulous that Parmeet knew about their bedroom . Had Parmeet told Ishita same thing she would have reached conclusion that he knew coz he discussed with Raman . So , no blames .

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Nisha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: *Resham*
Thank you guys for the welcome 🤗
I dont understand, he really accused Ishita, he did bring out their relationship in open, but why dont you all understand that its btr that the relationship is now in open, atleast people will not make a 2 and 2...now looking at the spoiler, isnt it enough that Raman is taking firm stands, he was hurt earlier, as said once bitten, twice shy, raman is exactly behaving that.

He doesnt have any love lost feelings for Ishita, but that doesnt mean he doesnt respect her, when one has to find truth, he starts behaving in a rude way towards the person who is already hurt with the allegations, to protect him/her.

We always blame Raman, but we dont see that Ishita too was somewhere rude to him in the earlier of the episodes, I dont wish to bring this Raman vs Ishita here. Its common that male actors always gets bashed esp when its a Ekta show.

If you see things, see things on both the sides, everyone is having right to express their opinions, but to blame a particular character for all sorts of reasons, is not right. Anyways my POV.

Now when this man will start loving Ishita, everyone will like him. Just saying😆

@bold... cant be agreed...

its insult and abuse to woman hood

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serendipity.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

also, im so sorry but RAMAN DID NOT DO WRONG! The SMS CLEARLY spoke of Raman and Ishita's relationship... the mobile phone was being literally circulated! Everyone had read it or was going to read it sooner or later!!! It had it clearly that SHE didnt get a physical relationship from Raman and so she'd get *THAT LOVE* from Param... Raman only said that out aloud because he was taken aback by how Param came to know... so he blurted that out, so yes, there as well he isnt exactly at fault..

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BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Well

It is sad ppl always take genuine healthy criticism as bashing and with some ulterior motives

Well to me in same way spirited defending of Raman whatever he bullshit he does as irrational as you must know it is two way street

And to me he solving the issue after he has done the ugly stuff means nothing because

Over here in this house

The character of a respected doctor has been denigrated without giving her benefit of doubt

And no amount of problem solving and apologies can bring back lost dignity

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serendipity.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

these people think that RAMAN'S character deserves the bashing... HE insulted women,,, womanhood and NOT PARMEET! 😆 😆

i dont know how and why its RAMAN instead of PARMEET... lemme remind you, HE is the villain guys, youve misunderstood Raman to be one! 😛

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*Resham*

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Nichus, I agree that the statement should be considered as an insult to womanhood, but Raman didnt do it intentionally, he was shocked to know how their relationship ws known to everyone, I would say that lets wait for the episodes to churn out before putting anyone behind the bars or accusing them, Raman is a flawed character and thats the best of him. I dont take people as gods and goddesses and I hate BT for showing actresses as goddesses and the ones who cant be ever wrong. Its history of the production house, again m not accusing anyone, m just placing somethings which should be a good read.

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BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

He believed pervert in a way and so deserves whatever criticism he gets Its all well deserved

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Priya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: serendipity.
<font color="#ff3366">these people think that RAMAN'S character deserves the bashing... HE insulted women,,, womanhood and NOT PARMEET! 😆 😆</font>
<font color="#ff3366">i dont know how and why its RAMAN instead of PARMEET... lemme remind you, HE is the villain guys, youve misunderstood Raman to be one! 😛</font>

lol ditto this

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