The Rainbow - A Shruthi-Shirley Collab - Ch-15 on P-23 - Page 7

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi exactly my concern will burying down the issue solve anything or bring peace? And here radhika is doing just that. Her not being interested in spending time is just a cumulation of the issues they as a couple are facing..
Jaya when u put it like that yes ur right one must count on ones blessings.. gratefulness helps.. but will it sustain the strain of a major issue? Now I understand the logic if him not wanting to go for pta. That if he goes he's not going to be of much help.. but isn't that what partners are supposed to be.. helpful in each others life.. making the other person's life easier..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Ria most marriages are like the way I have explained. And to a great extend woman themselves are responsible for it. What Jaya says is true because most men will be courier service. But what people dont want to accept is that men can be beyond courier service. Sadly when a wife comes it is far too late not much change can be done. But if a mother spends some quality time with her son he can be improved. I have colleagues in my office who go for PTA meetings. Who drop their kids to school, pick them up etc.. if needed. You have to evolve them a bit
Jaya feels such marriages are fine. i feel yes that marriage will survive but it can have lasting repurcussions in the kid's lives. From mild to severe. I have seen this in my family itself. Jaya grew up in a joint family, went to a harmonious joint family.

I was born in a joint family, grew up seeing that family going fragmented, went into a family that as unit is harmonious but still the shreds of fragmentation has affected it deeply.

So for my life I have gone into understanding what has broken it and what will keep it. That's why though me and Jaya know the ground reality the way we deal with them might be different.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Chapter 6- The food

Radhika was tired by the time she reached home. What with Keshav barging onto her. What if she accepted his help once, she has not given him right to give opinion on each and every case of his. She knew how the firm worked and so far have followed all the policies diligently.

She saw Rohan sitting and doing homework. Ryan was playing building blocks. Abhi as usual was with newspaper.

Once the dinner was finished she called Rohan. Rohan came to her head bowed as if he knew why his mother was calling him

Ryan came to her and Radhika gave a strict look to Abhi which Abhi knew that if he didn't take Ryan and move to the bed room his wife is not going to be happy. Once Abhi went with Ryan, Radhika looked at Rohan

" Rohan Beta tell me. Don't you like the food. I make different curries everyday. If it is about warm food, beta you know..

" Maa it is not about warm food, I ..." the child looked at her hesitatingly whether to tell or not

" Beta you are supposed to have proper lunch and if you waste lunch , ask your friends, go hungry it is not good for you. So tell your Maa what is ailing you" asked Radhika

" Maa I don't want non-veg food " told Rohan

Radhika was surprised. What had happened to Rohan suddenly. He loved fried chicken like anything

" But no non -veg why suddenly, you like chicken a lot "

" Maa that you know this time for Children's day we had a chief guest who is from PETA. She showed us the reality of how animals are tortured in the name of food. Some pictures were really moving Maa. After that whenever I see chicken and other non-veg items I feel those animals are pleading to me, not to kill them"

Radhika was stumped. Now what was she supposed to tell her son. To have non-veg, while he wanted to be a veggie which was actually not bad. But allowing him that posed major challenge for Radhika because Abhi wanted Non-veg everyday, even she preferred to have non-veg and Ryan to liked it. Usually she cooked one non-veg dish per day and it was for everyone. But now cooking veg and non-veg everyday would be taxing for her on working days.

But she felt it was time for a healthier choice. Atleast 2 days a week all of them will have veggies only. Rest day she will manage to make something good for Rohan. Weekends was ok as she could make 2 dishes.

" Rohan beta that is your problem. Don't worry. From tomorrow your lunch box will have veggies only. But one thing beta, others in the family will have non veg. You wont feel bad naa" asked Radhika

" No Maa. I know Papa loves non-veg a lot. I just don't want for myself "

" That's like a good boy. Now if you have finished your homework, pack your bag for tomorrow"

Once she settled Rohan , she went to her room. The question was how to convince Abhi for having veggies 2 days. She sat beside him in the bed. He tried to be romantic but Radhika was curt

" Abhi I need to discuss something with you" and she told him the gist of her discussion with Rohan

" Radhika, Rohan is mad to go behind things like PETA. It will be a passing fad. Why are you encouraging it" asked Abhi

" Abhi it might be a passing fad and maybe after sometime Rohan will start having non-veg. But I want Rohan to take that decision himself than telling him it is a fad or something. Secondly our son is not doing something bad. Being a vegetarian is good for health. So if a child chooses a healthy option why a mother should discourage it. He is quite open in us having non-veg. So why cant we be accommodative of his request. Thirdly I am asking you only 2 days as Wednesdays and Fridays are generally hectic for me so I have to choose my son and give what is good for him. I will make spicy veg dishes "

" If Rohan wants veg, I want non-veg Radhika" told Abhi. " I don't know how you manage but I cant go without non-veg. Children's habits can be changed. It is just that you don't want to try" told Abhi

Radhika gulped hard. But when she spoke she was firm. " Abhi I have taken the decision. So if you want non-veg on Wed and Fri you can have it from your office canteen. I cannot ask this to my son. And I cannot manage two dishes on Wednesday and Friday.

Saying it she switched off the lights and turned away from Abhi tears streaming from her eyes. Why cant her husband understand some simple things. Why cant he change a little bit.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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shruthi sis you have written it very well... rohan is really good... now waiting for the next update...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#65
Thanks Sandhya. Next is in Shirley's bucket 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
#66
Finally the breakdown has started.. Let's hope abhi understands
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Thanks Sandhya. Next is in Shirley's bucket😃

you gave keshav's plan back to Shirley... you both write this story from different angles.. you r writing radhika's personal life, while Shirley writes what happens in office... it is a clever idea...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#68
It's not breakdown Ria. It is a emotional void which the story needs.@Sandhya we are trying to balance it out so that the story moves in the direction we want as we had decided on the theme of the story though not how it will play out.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What's the difference Shruthi.. and y u say emotional void.. what does that mean
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Ria a breakdown generally happens when trust goes. Where a partner cheats on another either with another woman or financially like gambling, betting and all. Here that has not happened. It is difficult to survive a marriage where there is no trust.
Emotional void is an empathy to your partner. Understanding that person's needs and changing yourself a bit to accommodate the other person's needs. There are many people who wont do that. It is not only men, but there are woman also. They want things their way, doesn't matter your wife has issues, your kids has issues. They are fine as long as their routine is not disturbed. Will not tolerate slight disturbance in their routine and always expects other to change routine. A marriage does goes along with such emotional void for the sake of kids, society etc etc ..

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