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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Avyakta
Instead of mourning for death now , why not celebrate the life , even though it is past ?! Recollect all those great moments of past and move forward Tulsi !😊

Yes! I wish I can pause the time.I know I can't do that and so I have no choice but move forward .Everyone has their own ways of expressing n grieving.Seetha has been my support from past 1 1/2 yrs.When life is not easy on you 😕 .It is hard to make you understand .

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Madhuri

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

We all understand your grief Tulasi ! And our heart felt wish is that you must be happy for her sake , otherwise she will feel sorrow for you from there .

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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Snehamadhuri
We all understand your grief Tulasi ! And our heart felt wish is that you must be happy for her sake , otherwise she will feel sorrow for you from there .

madhuri, I understand dear and I am not upset with avyakta but when ever I look at my daughter ,I remember seetha's daughters.here not one thing everything is connected.I just post few of them.thank u and I will try.

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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

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A rare conversation between Ramkrishna Paramahansa & Swami Vivekananda READ IT LOUD TO FAMILY, it's one of the best message I have come across...

1. Swami Vivekanand:- I can't find free time. Life has become hectic.

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you free.
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2. Swami Vivekanand:- Why has life become complicated now?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Stop analyzing life.. It makes it complicated. Just live it.
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3. Swami Vivekanand:- Why are we then constantly unhappy?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.
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4. Swami Vivekanand:- Why do good people always suffer?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer.
With that experience their life becomes better, not bitter.
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5. Swami Vivekanand:- You mean to say such experience is useful?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons .
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6. Swami Vivekanand:- Because of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading...

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides the way.
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7. Swami Vivekanand:- Does failure hurt more than moving in the right direction?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
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8. Swami Vivekanand:- In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.
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9. Swami Vivekanand:- What surprises you about people?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- When they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me?"
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10. Swami Vivekanand:- How can I get the best out of life?

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.
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11. Swami Vivekanand:- One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

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Madhuri

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Tulsi ..read the entire conversation of the two spiritual intellectuals ,and deeply influenced by the essence of that conversation . In the end , see this message , it is aptly suited to evoke interest in life whenever we lose hope in life . Very good content and in a way to console our grief .---

Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Snehamadhuri

Tulsi ..read the entire conversation of the two spiritual intellectuals ,and deeply influenced by the essence of that conversation . In the end , see this message , it is aptly suited to evoke interest in life whenever we lose hope in life . Very good content and in a way to console our grief .---
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

yes I know thank you.

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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Seetha

I know your love for Mother Nature,

Where ever you are ,

You may be passing thru the canopy of trees,

Every leaf,every branch ,every flower is whispering to each other,

Saying this journey of life as to go on,

As a traveller we travel to different places and our human body goes thru different changes,

This is nature's call,some go before n some after,

God has his own way of dealing things!

Loosing you suddenly is painful,

We are taking one day at a time,

Miss you and love you!

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Tulasi14

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Seetha. ,

The impact you made on me is tremendous this bond of friendship started one and half year ago.My heart can't believe you are not there,It's been two months but still very hard to digest that you are no more.

You dwell in my heart and eyes ,love you and miss you!

I promised

you I will not cry but n't even single day goes by not thinking of you.

Where ever my legs are going,how ever long the journey is

Even if the steps are incorrect ,you would come along with me,

The convo's lasted for hours,used to listen patiently and I miss your sense of humor

You used to make me laugh crazily.

You used to get upset with words loneliness and defeat!

You used say how cum you are lonely ,I am there with you!

We used to argue but I used to give up!(you are a book I always use to give up)

In defeat also you used to walk with me.

The love you showered me has no boundaries or endless,

Like a friend you shared with me so many happy,sour and painful memories,

M y friend who stayed with me thru ups and downs,the love you showered me with your love tied me to this beautiful place n beautiful friends!

This is how I get thru by writing to her every day !

Live n let live,spread the happiness of love,

Tulasi:)

Only two people in the whole world call me Bangaru thalli(golden girl) in very very affectionate way one my brother and Seetha.My brother is my friends cousins brother.

Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive - the risk to be alive and express what we really are.

Miguel Angel Ruiz