not liking trish

I am not liking trish. the story can change in a day or 2 like before but for now I am not liking trish a bit. Maybe its just me but older sisters are mother like. they try to protect u from harms and help u when u r distressed. maybe it is just me. my older sisters are like that.

i understand trish is mad at tanya for stealing her guy. even then i would expect trish to be insulted 1st then mad. doesnt she believe yuvraj loves tanya and tanya loves yuv. then wish them well. be happy they r together but since she is hurt it's ok. she doesn't have to like them.

but as a sister does it not bother her at all something is wrong with tanya? everyone else seems to know tanya is going through something. its like before. when ur sister is in trouble she shouldnt always have to come and tell u something is wrong. u should care enough to know. i have never seen her care. she is a little too busy with herself.

I am sorry to any trish fans and the people who believe trish is being too nice. If trish was out for revenge it would be immature so thank god she is not doing that. but for now she is TOTALLY AN INSENSITIVE SISTER. her mind so wrapped around her happiness and herself she doesnt care what tanya goes through.

yes i get it you were wronged...you were betrayed...you were robbed of the guy who wanted to marry ur sister and not u. and u ended up marrying a better guy who loves. Oh the tragedy in life.. she is more of a terrible sister than i imagined if she has decided nvr to care about tanya because of yuv.

i really used to like trish but now she is making me really mad. she should think why everything happened. ofcourse her conclusion wont be rape but with tanya/yuv and kul's behavior it is a little too obvious everything is not as it seems

Your point is well taken.

I'm going to twist this around a bit. For those ladies who are in love (single, though), if the person you loved more than anything else in the world ran off and married your OWN sister, how would you feel? You know, the sister who slept next to you, the sister you helped take care of, the sister with whom you talked about love and the person you love, the sister with whom you shared your marriage plans. It's been only 1-2 months of this nonsense. Anger, betrayal, manipulation, and alienation are not little things. Years is what it can take.

To stretch my point further, I am giving another Vivaah example:

Sujata loves Raghav. Raghav decides to marry someone like Manshaa for reasons unknown to Sujata. You see where I am going? I'm trying to eliminate the Trish factor/bias. She is heartbroken, given the opposition to their marriage and feelings they had for each other as of a few hours ago. Do you think she should just forgive and accept they love each other? After a month? After 3 months? Never?

2) Not perfectly matched to this track, but let's say Yuv and Tanya still married. If he helps someone else and due to his "generous" nature, becomes committed to them, even emotionally, would you be pissed or would you just accept that they loved each other?

i think Trish has a bit of an attitude and ego problem. Once you're married, you're married. if he's a nice guy and really loves you, forget about the past and don't destroy what you have in the present. If you're married and he's not nice at all, then there's a problem. But I'm sure that even if a person was married but not so much in love with the guy (like Trish-Rajdeep situation), then she wouldn't want to give her suhaag away. Because marriage forms a very important bond. So she might as well focus on the wonderful guy that she has and say "its all in the past" to her sister and her ex-bf

I think a lot of people on this forum are blinded by their never-ending love for Tanya. Seriously put yourself into Trishna's place and how would you feel? I know personally, it took me a really long time (def more than 1 month) to get over my last BF and I wasn't even in love with him. It was made even worse when he started going out with someone on my campus and I had to see them around EVERYday. In Trishna's case, her SISTER got married to her LOVE. She got cheated by not only her boyfriend, but also her sister. The sister she loved dearly and talked about with her boyfriend.
Trishna now has found her soulmate in Rajdeep's form, but can she still forgive betrayel? I am still mad at a "friend" that betrayed me and that was over a year ago. I've moved on with my life, but there are just certain things that take time to forget. Give Trishna some time, and when she finally finds out about Tanya's rape (I really don't know why Tanya hasn't told her yet...it would solve LOTS of problems-including Rajdeep's mom trying to prove there is tension between the sisters) she will forgive and forget. Hopefully, by that time, there won't be another problem in Trishna's life.

Agreed Point, but everyone has different opinions, her character is very ego type as mentioned but she is a good actor =)