Siding with trish and Tanya...

I can't understand why we are dividing the sisters. Both are going through a lot and both have their faults. No one is really right or wrong here.

For Tanya:

I really think the people who are not sympathetic toward her are heartless. The girl was raped!! SHE WAS RAPED!! people who get raped kill themselves because how humiliating it is. That's what she is going through. Yes the most logical thing to do is to tell Trish she was raped but it's not easy. And if that happened in real life rape victims usually can't come out and say they were raped. Not till later. Way later.

Next: She knows she would be doomed , more like her family would be doomed in the eyes of the society if she doesn't have a husband. From the very beginning it showed Tanya deeply cares about her family. How can I dislike a girl who thinks of her family so much? She couldn't put off Kanaiyah because Kanaiyah raped her so she could marry him and no one else. THAT's why Kanaiyah raped her. So she had NO other options. After her rape she really didn't have much choice to survive society's scrutiny! I feel even more sorry for now that not only does she has to go through her rape ordeal but also breaking her sister's trust. Which she had little to do with. I am ashamed of the sisters. More ashamed of Sujata and Mansha. Maybe trish is blinded by a broken heart what's their excuse. When my sister is disturbed and I ask her what's going on and she yells at me to go away, I don't abandon her. I have to help her. She is my sister and I love her. I know she would never do something so wrong without a reason backing it up. Oh tanya bechari!

For Trishna:

What can be more sad her own sister is married to her boyfriend. I still have my journal pages after pages filled how my little sister is heartless trying to take the guy I love. So her position is really tough. She gets sad everytime she sees them.

But she is wrong too. One she is older hence more responsibilty falls on her shoulders than Tanya's. She should try to find out what happened rationally. She never even let Tanya speak. She asked Yuvi, then she made up her mind and since then everyone has been treating Tanya wrong. Everyone!!! More reason why my heart breaks for Tanya. Atleast Trish has lots of Support. Trish has everyone in her family!

So Trish decides to fix her broken heart by cheating another guy. If she happily wants to move on by marrying Rajdeep she should do so and stop looking at Yuvi. I think it's inconsiderate and scheming and quite selfish on her case to marry a good guy and not tell him she once loved and still loves his best friend. That's seems more wrong to me than Tanya. Tanya has a strong reason backing her mess up.Trish never wanted to marry, she still doesn't need to marry unless she loves Rajdeep. Pretty heartless if you ask me.

I loved him for sacrificing. It was wrong. But what choice does one have to survive from such a society where a girl can ruined by just mere rumors? Now he is making me mad though. Stop looking at trish. If you can't stop looking at you wife's sister and best friend's wife then your sacrifice has little meaning!

VERY, VERY VERY well said, i agree!

Originally posted by: Multani90

I agree whatever Tanya is doing is understandable If I was in that situation I would probably have done the same, because the matter isn't so small. But you explained every very beautifully.😃

You explained it wonderfully Fatima!

I gotta add my two cents here.

I definitely feel bad for Tanya since she got raped .. but in what day and age are these people living ? A rape victim needs medical help, counseling and the last thing she needs is for her parents to hide the fact that she was raped from her sisters and get her married off to her sister's boyfriend.

What if Trish and Yuv had already slept together because they are dating ?? What would Kul do then .. um lets see .. flip a coin ??? I don't understand how people make TV serials in the 21st century with such 16th century ideals. Regular people watch these serials, if something like this happens to one of their family members or god forbid one of mine or yours, is this how you'd deal with it ?? Get them married off to someone ?

Tanya is an extremely weak character with no backbone. She knew she should have got help from her family to deal with the rape, but she chooses not to tell her sisters and agrees to get married to Yuv. All that Tanya does now is weep and feel even more guilty, when she should be trying to deal with the aftermath of her rape with PROFESSIONAL help.

Yuv is stupid, he should have never married Tanya while he loves Trishna, not only did he destroy Trishna completely, but he destroyed the relationship between the two sisters. And now he feels guilty about Trishna ?? Give me a fricking break !! Dude you dug your own hole, now you gotta live with it.

Trishna has no idea what is going on. First her mother disses her boyfriend, then he goes off and marries her sister without any rhyme or reason, then none of them will tell her anything. Of course she has no idea what is happening and she will think the worst of everyone. She trusted Yuv and Tanya and they broke it in the worst possible manner. I personally feel she is well rid of Yuv, because obviously he did not love her and trust her enough. Hopefully she has a better relationship and a life with Raj.