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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Tapasya has to give and take, not take all the time.


U put it perfectly



and what exactly hasnt she given to Rathore to date? he tells her to do things his way she does she always does and badle mein what does she ask for ...a little love...understanding (which is every wife's right) salsa classes and shopping? She has been very well behaved since marrying Rathore! She bows in front of his every wish if its not to do with ichha!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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and what exactly hasnt she given to Rathore to date? he tells her to do things his way she does she always does and badle mein what does she ask for ...a little love...understanding (which is every wife's right) salsa classes and shopping? She has been very well behaved since marrying Rathore! She bows in front of his every wish if its not to do with ichha!


I see HIM bowing before her every wish . Right from the stormy night when she delayed the going to fetch the baby thing by posing stupid untimely questions to him about U want me WITH or WITHOUT the baby to the incident where she asked him U want to make a choice between ME or ICHA ...one episode back , when he tried to make her see things for once by keeping aside personal emotion ...and focussiong only on the baby . Even there he sighed and humored her just as he had humored her on the stormy night .

There is a possibility that now she will start competing with Yuvraj and its here that she will lose AGAIN . She will believe Nani now when Nani tells her that see Rathod loves Yuvraj more than u ...he brought Icha in to give him milk although u forbade it .

She has this pathological need to be placed FIRST . Be it a choice between her and Icha or a choice between Her own baby and Herself or a choice between Yuvraj and herself .

Rathod focussing on Yuvraj's needs and giving a damn about her personal issues with Icha WON"T go down well with her . Babies who go thru the problem Yuvraj is going thru ...And trust me I have seen this happening in real life ...the problem of making them take feeds but they crying for breast milk as they have tasted it ...the mother having died within few days of delivering etc ...Such babies actually become malnutrioned or die .

Rathod is only focussing on keeping the baby healthy and alive . Neither is he picking Icha over her , nor is he remotely attracted to Icha , nor does he want to hurt Tapasya . Its none of the 3 things .

Tapasya can take care of her emotions and survive as she is an adult . But the defenceless baby may not as he needs an elder to take decisions for him .

Tapasya may be good to the child as she does not really have a bad heart . But his Father AND mother is actually Rathod . That kind of connection Tapasya simply does not have . She is just not the type .She did not even have it with HER baby .

Rathod gives a damn if What Icha did was right or wrong . Things have gone beyond the point . He is focussing only on the present .

He himself was raised by a Daijaa ...not a mother . In Rajasthani or even other Hindu sub castes , many a times when breast milk is insufficient in a mother , the child is given to someone who has just delivered a baby , has excess of it and is willing to feed it .

Thousands of Indian children in villages etc r raised this way .Even in joint families .

For Rathod its simply a practical issue .

Each time Tapasya cannot make it into a CHOOSE ME issue . One day he might just do that and she will get REALLY hurt . As that will be HER loss more than his . He is a wonderful husband that any woman would kill to have . For once she should keep her ego aside , discard Nani's poison and UNDERSTAND him .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In return he should understand her! Did the doctor say the baby wouldnt be able to survive without breast milk? So what is the great need? Yuvraj just needed to get used to the bottle milk. Till when will ichha feed him? Tapu has some deep hurts where Ichha is concerned and Rathore needs to understand that! Baki sab toh I feel there is no point discussing😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I see HIM bowing before her every wish . Right from the stormy night when she delayed the going to fetch the baby thing by posing stupid untimely questions to him about U want me WITH or WITHOUT the baby to the incident where she asked him U want to make a choice between ME or ICHA ...one episode back , when he tried to make her see things for once by keeping aside personal emotion ...and focussiong only on the baby . Even there he sighed and humored her just as he had humored her on the stormy night .

There is a possibility that now she will start competing with Yuvraj and its here that she will lose AGAIN . She will believe Nani now when Nani tells her that see Rathod loves Yuvraj more than u ...he brought Icha in to give him milk although u forbade it .

She has this pathological need to be placed FIRST . Be it a choice between her and Icha or a choice between Her own baby and Herself or a choice between Yuvraj and herself .

Rathod focussing on Yuvraj's needs and giving a damn about her personal issues with Icha WON"T go down well with her . Babies who go thru the problem Yuvraj is going thru ...And trust me I have seen this happening in real life ...the problem of making them take feeds but they crying for breast milk as they have tasted it ...the mother having died within few days of delivering etc ...Such babies actually become malnutrioned or die .

Rathod is only focussing on keeping the baby healthy and alive . Neither is he picking Icha over her , nor is he remotely attracted to Icha , nor does he want to hurt Tapasya . Its none of the 3 things .

Tapasya can take care of her emotions and survive as she is an adult . But the defenceless baby may not as he needs an elder to take decisions for him .

Tapasya may be good to the child as she does not really have a bad heart . But his Father AND mother is actually Rathod . That kind of connection Tapasya simply does not have . She is just not the type .She did not even have it with HER baby .

Rathod gives a damn if What Icha did was right or wrong . Things have gone beyond the point . He is focussing only on the present .

He himself was raised by a Daijaa ...not a mother . In Rajasthani or even other Hindu sub castes , many a times when breast milk is insufficient in a mother , the child is given to someone who has just delivered a baby , has excess of it and is willing to feed it .

Thousands of Indian children in villages etc r raised this way .Even in joint families .

For Rathod its simply a practical issue .

Each time Tapasya cannot make it into a CHOOSE ME issue . One day he might just do that and she will get REALLY hurt . As that will be HER loss more than his . He is a wonderful husband that any woman would kill to have . For once she should keep her ego aside , discard Nani's poison and UNDERSTAND him .
[/QUOTE] @kools welcum back !! 🤗u came after so many days!!🤗and perfectly said!! 😆😆😆taps is actually an attention seeker whow ants attention all 2 herself at the cost of oders & even now also competing wid ababy. earlier she used 2 compete wid ichha from the childhood after she came 2 know that icchha is better than her in studies after icchha overcame the prob of language intially. and how she behaved wid her wen at school icchha got the attention of the teachers & students alike!!until icchha wasn't at her level whether in studies or oder things shesperfectly fine wid it & even don the halo of her mentor but the day icchha started getting attention 4 her qualities from all she started jealous of her!!
it was like suddenly praising her toy more than her but she wat she wanted/s that ever1 shud praise her 4 possessing such a toy!!
ther r many ppl who r attention seekers & even common ppl also wants sum attention but not like taps. wen ever sum1 wants attention 4 their gud work then its ok but the way she wants is noneither justified nor practical!!
and i agree wid u abt this mother's milk!! though many babies can tolerate bottle milk or powder milk but it doesn't mean its gud or we shud make such a small baby go thru such a pain or rather i say its cruelity 2wards sum days old baby by refusing him giving his natural need wen u can've option!!and not all babies can tolerate. sum may show aversion after sum days 7 sum instantly & sum never.
wen we at an adult age can't tolerate sum1 forcing their views or tastes etc. on us then why r ppl time again saying that force it on a 6-7 days old baby who can't understand. & saying he"ll b fussy but hav 2 take it. why r ppl not undestand this simple fact!!
and i totally agree wid rathore bcoz wen u've an option available then just bcoz u doesn't get along wid sum1 u force a small baby 2 go thru this!! if hes 7-8 yrs. old or older than then can b forced 2 make him understand abt right & wrong!!and here rathore is more concerned as abt kid.
kools i completely agree wid ur whole post barring taps'ven't bad heart bcoz she doesn't've bad heart but an evil, overjealous, attention seeker heart!!😆😆
and if theres a choice btn a baby'd natural need which is
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

In return he should understand her! Did the doctor say the baby wouldnt be able to survive without breast milk? So what is the great need? Yuvraj just needed to get used to the bottle milk. Till when will ichha feed him? Tapu has some deep hurts where Ichha is concerned and Rathore needs to understand that! Baki sab toh I feel there is no point discussing😆


Ummm...WHY ? Sorry , did not understand WHY she should be given precedence over a defenceless baby EACH TIME . He did it once for her on that stormy night and that delay cost him his child . Now AGAIN ? So that the adopted child too is perhaps lost ?😆😆

Doctors give impassive judgements bas . The rest is upto the parents . Doctor told him the reasoning behind the refusal to take milk ...in perhaps 3 or 4 days due to dehydration Doctor may tell Ur Baby is on verge of dying , quick run around and search for someone ready to feed breast milk that it is CRAVING for ...why should Rathod as a parent WAIT for that to happen if he can save his baby that torture right now ? Why would he put his baby thru that senseless torture till it comes from Doctor's mouth ...just coz Tapasya's feelings will be hurt ?😆😆

Did he call Icha immediately after she left , sneakily , after agreeing upwardly with Tapasya ?😆 No, he saw for two days after the episode that his baby is just not taking the feed . IT takes very little and is in danger of being malnutritioned . Babies can pull on like this for 4 days and on fifth day BAM they can JUST DIE . No exaggeration . He should wait for that ? Why ?

Ideally CVS should have showed Tapasya as a mother this time instead of shaking her hips and doing salsa . They should have shown the mother streak in Tapasya for a change ...that the SAME Tapasya who insulted Icha and threw her out when she caught her breast feeding the baby comes to a decision seeing the baby's suffering and goes to Icha with the baby and asks her to breast feed it HERSELF .

Her character would have shone like a beacon then . The stupid CVS lost a golden opportunity ...They showed Icha like a typical Hindi Film Mom whose Mamta spurts ...But they did NOT do justice to Tapasya's character . Instead what they showed was even when the baby is having serious issues about getting proper feeds , Tapasya is happily practising salsa and wiggling her hips when any other mother would have been distraught with anxiety .😆 Aren't they stupid , the CVS ? I mean SO WHAT if Rathod offered to babysit ...if MY baby had stopped taking feeds I would not concentrate on my job , forget salsa valsa .

But Chalo , A MAN thought like a mother . Koi Baat nahi ...it was refeshing to watch . He prioritised the BABY OVER ICHA AND TAPASYA for a change .😆😆

Tapasya Needs to grow up at some time na ? She really cannot compete with babies u know ...competing with Icha is fine . But if she competes with Babies and demands prioritsation over THEM by making isue of her FEELINGS , she may lose the best deal of her life ...RATHOD .

U see some things in life r more important than feelings .😆

Survival , for instance . Of a Defenceless Baby .






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Posted: 13 years ago
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Breast mill is best for baby. No argument abt it. There's nothing wrong if rathore wants the best for his kid.But he could've gone for other options. He is rich and influential.He couldn't find any woman other than veer singh bundela's wife to bfeed his kid? It is so weird. If some other man has asked tapasya to come to his home and bfeed his baby in his wife's absence,what would have been mr rathore's reaction? He would take the gun and shoot him. That's it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rathore is playing with her feelings! So many babies are adopted and fed bottle milk seriously does it harm them? Just so Yuvraj can get breastmilk Rathore is creating such a big problem! Firstly HIS wife will be furious and secondly Veer wont appreciate it either! This stupid stunt will now create another daraar in BOTH marriages and there will go the cvs TRPs cos no one wants to watch such lunacy!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute



iccha is not tapasyas sister
jogi or divya never adopted iccha nor damini adopted tapasya
then how iccha became tapasyas sister
iccha is a servant just a servant 2 tapasya in tapasyas house
better u understand the truth
they never showed any adoption episode nor divya ever said iccha as her adopted daughter



V true! Ich is never adopted in takurs house nor taps w by dami!
All her life she lived as PA of taps! Or as maids daughtor growing in their house!
Ich kehne se mein ti behen sach mein nahi behen ban skti!
Rishte dil se bante jarbasti ghar mein rahe tho what can taps do about that!
This all bcoz jogis guilt trip of prayaschit he gave raw deal to his fami n dami fami too!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Iccha is a morally adopted daughter by Jogi. Iccha is not legally adopted and Divya does not care about Iccha but Iccha and Jogi consider their relationship as father and daughter in mind and spirit. Legal adoption comes in for distribution of wealth and not for distribution of love.

Rathore does not care who breast feeds the baby as long as the person is available. Since Iccha is readily available, Rathod decided to ask her first before looking for other options. Rathod is a practical person, so as long as the baby's needs are satisfied, he is happy. He feels breast milk is better than bottle milk and has also put the baby's needs above Tapasya's feelings.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Newveechafan

Breast mill is best for baby. No argument abt it. There's nothing wrong if rathore wants the best for his kid.But he could've gone for other options. He is rich and influential.He couldn't find any woman other than veer singh bundela's wife to bfeed his kid? It is so weird. If some other man has asked tapasya to come to his home and bfeed his baby in his wife's absence,what would have been mr rathore's reaction? He would take the gun and shoot him. That's it.


Other women ? 😆😆😆 Other women r what sitting on the roads is it , waiting to give breast milk to babies of rich persons if they need it ? Is it that EASY you think ? Rathod may be immensely wealthy , but his richness has LIMITATIONS . This is a most delicate and embarassing demand ...and finding such a woman may take DAYS . By the time his baby will cry his little heart out and get malnutritioned . Finding a woman to breast feed ones baby , kidney transplant donor , eye donor is not easy my friend . It may have been easy for Rathod to trace that thief by sending his casino bouncers out ...but they cannot really go around asking women Aie Bache Ko doodh Pilayegi Kya . They will be SLAPPED .😆😆

And Why will he like a stupid Search for someone else and waste time when he already KNOWS a woman who was more than willing to Give milk and she HAD it in plenty , her child , according to him , had DIED . Leaving a source he already knows exists why will he run from door to door searching for another source .Makes No sense to me .

his wife's issues with childhood playmate do NOT interest him ...his Baby interests him .

As far as Veer goes...I will support him FULLY in his anger when he gets angry with Icha coz I can understand him ...where he comes from . Any man will be SHOCKED that his wife is breastfeeding another man's baby secretly without telling him. No issues there .

But Veer is also an extremely KIND man . When initial shock subsides and the urgency of the situation sinks in , Veer does have the capacity to place a child ahead of ALL other issues ...He placed Kanha and Mukta above even his family honor issues like WAARIS etc . Unlike Tapasya who only sees things from HER point of view and harps on MY FEELINGS MY FEELINGS , Veer can rise a little above that .He HAS seen Icha's grief upon losing her child and her mistake in going and feeding Tapasya's kid will perhaps be understood by him in a calmer frame of mind although he may find it shocking at first . Veer is reasonable . Lets hope and see .


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago

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