Originally posted by: vijayam
@ Red.. During those times, he had not got Ichcha as his wife. Till he got her, he was craving for her, but once he got her, his craving was satisfied and gradually the familiarity with her has diminished his caring side and reduced her value and he has started taking her for granted just like the others. Because he considers her as a poor girl with nowhere to go except Jogi's house, he is taking it easy assuming that she would have gone there only and that she would come running the moment he snapped his fingers.
We saw a new side to his character when he said the first time guiltily that he was afraid of his weakness for the baby after holding Tapasya's hand during sonography and later went and felt her tummy to feel the baby's movements with out caring for Ichcha's feelings and not feeling guilty about it anymore, even though he was assuring Ichcha that she mattered more to him than babies, all the while remaining a mute spectator to the taunts of his family towards Ichcha, calling her barren. It did not bother him when everybody was calling his most beloved wife barren and were doing 'Nazar utharne ki pooja', sidelining Ichcha, but the moment she said that he was infertile, that too, with solid proof, like the Dr's diagnosis, which can easily be verified with previous reports and prescriptions, this Veer could not tolerate it and his male ego surfaced, fueled by the feudal, orthodox Daddaji, Mai, & Co., who continued to accuse her as barren with out any proof, just due to their high class arrogance. What double standards.. Veer's consequent actions have only proved that he also is a true Bundela, steeped in their arrogance and king sized ego.
You have rightly pointed out in your reply to my post which I have quoted in the link given below:
originally by vijayam
that Veer is fine as long as he sees a docile, dumb, muted, scared & meek iccha because thats the iccha he loves & satiates his male ego of being powerful, image of being a savior...the minute she tell a harsh truth about him, she is no longer his iccha, what rubbish!
Edited by hermione8 - 14 years ago