Whose a better father? - Page 8

Originally posted by: xavivilla

😃😃😃😃 very funny question.....Actually I LOVE VEECHA BY bottom of my heart but I am a fan of tapu too NOT veeyah.....i HOPE THIS CLARIFIES A BIT...😳😳😳 Consider me as a veecha fan member cause I AM. 😃😃😃

Originally posted by: ankit111

Jogi was best father and a man of principle, while Veer father only find his spine recently. till now he hd no any contribution in Veer and Vansh upbringing and was totally controlled by dump, Mai. so he cant be a good father😆😆😆, may be gd person by heart, but as father he hs no contribution absolutely. the person who cant even uttar a word against his wife and Dadaji, how can be a gd father😆

Originally posted by: palma0211

but how come Veer turned out so good with all the trademarks of Umed?

Originally posted by: ankit111

Jogi was best father and a man of principle, while Veer father only find his spine recently. till now he hd no any contribution in Veer and Vansh upbringing and was totally controlled by dump, Mai. so he cant be a good father😆😆😆, may be gd person by heart, but as father he hs no contribution absolutely. the person who cant even uttar a word against his wife and Dadaji, how can be a gd father😆

Originally posted by: palma0211

but how come Veer turned out so good with all the trademarks of Umed?

Originally posted by: intruderfast

see palma ji,

a person is defined by what he does and not what he might feel inside.

its the choices and decisions a person make that really defines him or her

Originally posted by: groucho

In principle I agree with some of your statements but if one were to be neutral then one could poke holes into some of the statements.

We are not psychiatrists here, just viewers with our own points of view. But for arguments sake

1. Jogi a man of principle - Maybe but a true man of principle would have reported the hit and run accident.
2. Umed - no contribution to his son's upbringing - How do we know that??? A silent or bullied man can in his own way teach his son's values. We have only seen him from the time V and V were grown up.
3. Jogi - best father - Is there such a terminology that an outsider can give to a man. It is only a perception of an outsider or us viewers The result of a good or best father is what the child or grownup offspring considers him to be. No doubt he has tried to be the very best he could with very little help from his wife or daughter. BTW, it is my opinion that despite Jogi paying more attention at times to Ichcha, Tapasya's character is not a reflection of Jogi's attributes as a good father.

Where I am in total agreement is that the person you finally are is thanks to the choices and deeds that you make in life.👍🏼

I am not saying I am taking any sides, I am just pointing out various perceptions that could be used for the both of them.

I like Jogi's character (strong, faithful and loving) immensely (acting asides) and although Umed has been more of a guest actor till now, he has attributes that may have been seen as dormant to us but somehow Veer has managed to imbibe them.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

u have raised a valid point👏

see i go by what i see.

we dont know if umed has given any values to his son veer,

he might have , he might not have, we dont know.

as 4 jogi,

if u see from the starting, he has been a good father,

tried 2 give out good values, he tried 2 punish if tapasya did any wrongdoings.

i will not say jogi is perfect father(no one is),

but he is one of the better fathers i have seen .

and i think he was definately better than umed.

he was the father in action😊

Originally posted by: groucho

I have no issues with what you said earlier or now. You are absolutely right. We need to go by what we see and then use our own perception. I like your terminology 'father in action' ----------Good one👏😊😊

thanks,

very good topics, very nice views