Originally posted by: sonali_dg
@ Hima-- I just read how you came over and instigated a whole new argument. I also saw how you constantly pondered over an insignificant remark of Rahul on that consummation thread and took offense- everybody knew there was no pun intended still, your took deliberate offense. Now here, you successfully rot the fun and start pulling up a fight and blame co- forumites of "manipulating the video" and yet ask them not to take offense is so not done.
Its perspective you know, yea 99% of people including celebs and Rashmi herself found her Bhojpuri movies obscene and cheap. Didnt you know the reson of her name change/ identity change? That too just before she entered national television? The actor herself claims to feel insecure, she didnt mind it, who are you and me to get offended on her behalf.I request you to constrain and restrain your visit, comments or participation in threads which you will choose to take offense and rot our together activity and fun, after a hard day's work people come here to enjoy relax and have fun, not fight. Thats what I guess most people here do... I found the Veeya thread and all those zillions of "pure consummation" threads disturbing and I chose not to enter those and disturb myself..Theres no point in going and instigating fights and arguments on others concept of fun.
If I object to a remark on myself...let me categorically tell you that I have all the right in the world to do so. If you like certain remarks..suit yourself...but atleast you are no one to tell me which remarks I need to enjoy or like! About being sporting...I consider my own decision best-which statements are genuinely are sporting..and which derisive! I don't suppose I need to take your advice or consider your opinion over and above my own wise judgment. If I find a remark offensive on myself..it doesn't matter what YOU think about it.
About Rashmi on this thread- What defines vulgarity for you...defines part of profession for others....Rashmi herself finds her videos obscene-is a surprise..can you elaborate it? If you can't, then don't give useless examples in future-at least to me.
for example- for some weaning a bikini might be vulgar...while it may be a cultural thing for another...however calling someone words like "vulgar".."cheap" incessantly will be offensive---no matter what. I do not agree with the way you define "codes of conduct".About her insecurity..everyone in that talk show was supposed to talk about insecurity -and that talk had a perspective.
If I find something offensive- I will report it, or if it is not taken care of ...I will point it out(If I have time to do so)
And about your advice.
1) I don't believe you dont indulge in instigating/offensive talks yourself.
2) You are not my role model.
You point out anything at me.-un necessarily.....you hear it back for yourself. Call it instigation-or report it...do whatever you want- heart of hearts everyone knows who starts what kind of instigation.
I believe in my own judgments. Thanks for your advice though..however unsolicited and redundant it was!