Teej in Uttaran? - Page 2

Originally posted by: divy609

Ok it's usually not celebrated na....I thought maybe only we have that kinda customs....Yeh kuch ajeeb log hain 😡 😡

yeah divya, even i was thinking the same; how can the bundelas celebrate festivals so soon after vansh's death😲 . may be special rules for tappu varna, woh thabahi machadegi naa islye shayad 😆 ; and divya, teej is just like namma mangalgowri vratha; but that they fast the whole day; we fast only till puja time 😊

Originally posted by: lambooo

Now it seems that some people have more knowledge about Indian Traditions and costumes living far away from India and having just a rudimentary knowledge of the great Indian culture based on <font color="#ff0000">truth, non-violence, love, sacrifice</font> not based on l<font color="#ff0000">ies, violence, hatred and selfishness. </font>I think our esteemed women members will enlighten the forum though there are regional variations, it is a common practice in all parts of the country that not any rituals, pious things, festivities cannot be held for one full year after the death of a person and if the deceased happens to be a young one, no one even talks about them....here people are lecturing about celebrating rituals with full sringar......I do not know whether to laugh or pity on such ignorance......

yeah lambooji, i think its followed very strictly in every traditional family in the entire country- N.S.E.W, that no festival should be celebrated in case of a death in the family upto 1year... the bundelas toh, boast of following reet-riwaaz na; what happened to this??

bundela's have gone nuts??????????

if they show this, it will be a slap on their face..........I think Veer the sensible person we know will refuse to entertain this ploy of our poor Tappu Baba and she will getting furious tabahi macha degi.........ooiiiimmmmmmaaaaa......humein to bahoot daar laag raha hai......😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: lambooo

Now it seems that some people have more knowledge about Indian Traditions and costumes living far away from India and having just a rudimentary knowledge of the great Indian culture based on <font color="#ff0000">truth, non-violence, love, sacrifice</font> not based on l<font color="#ff0000">ies, violence, hatred and selfishness. </font>I think our esteemed women members will enlighten the forum though there are regional variations, it is a common practice in all parts of the country that not any rituals, pious things, festivities cannot be held for one full year after the death of a person and if the deceased happens to be a young one, no one even talks about them....here people are lecturing about celebrating rituals with full sringar......I do not know whether to laugh or pity on such ignorance......

Yeah LambooJi As far as my knowledge goes even B'days are not celebrated....U won't believe this New items are also not purchased.....But here everything happens Ulta-Pulta 🤢 🤢 🤢 I wanna see if Mai is also gonna join 😳

@Shalini: Mangala Gowri Vrata ok....My mom does it Yeah we don't fast the entire day Hehe 😆

Originally posted by: divy609

Yeah LambooJi As far as my knowledge goes even B'days are not celebrated....U won't believe this New items are also not purchased.....But here everything happens Ulta-Pulta 🤢 🤢 🤢 I wanna see if Mai is also gonna join 😳

@Shalini: Mangala Gowri Vrata ok....My mom does it Yeah we don't fast the entire day Hehe 😆

and even if the Bundelas do it it will be another problem for her??? where will she get all her jewelery for sola sringar (in a death house). she has already sold all these to pay for her sins.......another lie...another nautanki.....my poor baby even does not know how to a nautanki....what will she do now???

Originally posted by: divy609

Hey ya ,I remembered suddenly, a death has happened recently and already they are celebrating festivals 😲 😲 😲 Immediately after the 13th day

By the way what's this Teej

exactly Divya ....I was thinking the same thing abhi abhi to vansh ki 13th day ritual manayi.... and they are all so much in grief ...
forget about mourning for a year...... its not even a month....n now suddenly this celebration ....I dont understand..?

teej is celebrated by north indians....i have a bihari friend who does this fasting. no eating drinking i believe like karwa chauth.

but teej is supposed to be done by every married woman every year...dont they have to do it even if there has been a death in the family?