Fateh using Tejo

After watching 19th July episode, it is so sad the way Fateh is using Tejo to make Jasmin understand that he has moved on.

sometimes when Fateh talks about his feelings I feel like I understand him, but when he uses Tejo and leading her on to believe that Fateh really feels something for Tejo is just wrong.

I know and I understand when your first love breaks your heart how it feels. Sometimes it even makes you do something stupid. But it is never right to use someone else’s feeling because you are in pain. Tejo had told him that she would help him get over her, he could have took her help but no he made her believe that he can’t live without her.

How many can relate to Fateh (first love breaking your heart), would you have done the same thing?

Honestly, it’s hard moving on from a heartbreak especially if it’s your first. But self respect is also important, which Fateh doesn’t understand. He’s obsessed with Jasmine as she is with him at this point. He seriously needs to move on and be an independent person and not just always looking to Tejo for help all the time.

I think the word moving on is wrong. You have to go thru different stages of healing process before you start moving on. First of all, he needs to understand and accept the fact that Jasmin is selfish and she never loved him. If he accepts this much it would make him feel much better

He is using her yes . That is quit evident from Saturday episode. But he is honest in whatever he is doing to her except one thing. He still has not communicated his recent interactions with Chameli.

He has been calling her wife so repeatedly . Now I realise it is not just for saying sake he may use his rights physically too. It may happen as way to run away from present chaos but then that's how it often happens.

His touches , his embraces along with that constant clamouring my wife ,my life partner may have started as part of jest and consolation but slowly these words have conditioned Tejo and Fateh into taking each other as husband and wife.Once you start accepting facts verbally somewhere deep in mind you end up applying it too.

I am not against using your life partner until you are honest and faithful to each other. That's why life partners are called so . Be their when needed , stand for each other . In your weak moments it's your husband or wife who become your strength. So no wrong if Fateh grabs his wife Tejo when he is going weak. Wrong would be if he grabs his ex flame Chameli

All is forgotten and forgiven between husband and wife till you are honest and faithful.So I as Tejo fan will always give him a chance till he keeps those two things intact.

Now that all I said is only valid till Tejo knows whole truth. Which he has not . So his whole my wife thing is going to fail big time . When wife realises that husband is playing double game with her. No games but only faith can keep the marriage boat sailing.

I’m glad I dumped this show.

Can’t bear to watch two selfish people who are doing a battle of the egos by using Tejo.

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

He is using her yes . That is quit evident from Saturday episode. But he is honest in whatever he is doing to her except one thing. He still has not communicated his recent interactions with Chameli.

He has been calling her wife so repeatedly . Now I realise it is not just for saying sake he may use his rights physically too. It may happen as way to run away from present chaos but then that's how it often happens.

His touches , his embraces along with that constant clamouring my wife ,my life partner may have started as part of jest and consolation but slowly these words have conditioned Tejo and Fateh into taking each other as husband and wife.Once you start accepting facts verbally somewhere deep in mind you end up applying it too.

I am not against using your life partner until you are honest and faithful to each other. That's why life partners are called so . Be their when needed , stand for each other . In your weak moments it's your husband or wife who become your strength. So no wrong if Fateh grabs his wife Tejo when he is going weak. Wrong would be if he grabs his ex flame Chameli

All is forgotten and forgiven between husband and wife till you are honest and faithful.So I as Tejo fan will always give him a chance till he keeps those two things intact.

Now that all I said is only valid till Tejo knows whole truth. Which he has not . So his whole my wife thing is going to fail big time . When wife realises that husband is playing double game with her. No games but only faith can keep the marriage boat sailing.

Bold Red : Bingo. I am having the same thoughts since a few days, he is doing all well while he is trying to move on, but the only thing lacking between their relation is clear communication.

They need to communicate as husband and wife, she needs to tell him about Jasmine's drunk incident, and he needs to tell her about the Gippy meeting being Chameli's idea and then this prank call and Love declaration, these two will be enough for Tejo to see the real face of her cunning sister, and after that Fateh needs to be transparent with her "Tejo, i am trying to move on, but some times i get distracted and stretched between my past feelings and I feel like I am unable to move forward, but whenever you're around me, it helps me a lot, you're my Strength Tejo" i think he needs to tell this to her rather than leading her on 🤔 and if after that they get physical atleast Tejo will be aware of his mental state.

Originally posted by: Niroo

I think the word moving on is wrong. You have to go thru different stages of healing process before you start moving on. First of all, he needs to understand and accept the fact that Jasmin is selfish and she never loved him. If he accepts this much it would make him feel much better

Agree, one can not just move on, it goes in phases, it takes a while to get used to once you loose a person or even an object for instance. Habits don't go away easily. It will take a while for him to realize that what he felt for Chameli was not love.

Remember the very first time he used her like this ? Tejo had understood his intention and told him never to use her like that again.. He used her again but Tejo thinks he’s genuinely fond of her in that way :/ UGHH

Jasmine and Fateh are both so selfish, they only think about themselves. This little night out with Tejo isn’t because he is interested in spending time with her, it’s because he wants to avoid Jasmine, block Jasmine out of his sight and mind. He’s using Tejo to relieve himself of his problems -__- what an ideal husband... NOT.

Originally posted by: Niroo

After watching 19th July episode, it is so sad the way Fateh is using Tejo to make Jasmin understand that he has moved on.

sometimes when Fateh talks about his feelings I feel like I understand him, but when he uses Tejo and leading her on to believe that Fateh really feels something for Tejo is just wrong.

I know and I understand when your first love breaks your heart how it feels. Sometimes it even makes you do something stupid. But it is never right to use someone else’s feeling because you are in pain. Tejo had told him that she would help him get over her, he could have took her help but no he made her believe that he can’t live without her.

How many can relate to Fateh (first love breaking your heart), would you have done the same thing?

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

He is using her yes . That is quit evident from Saturday episode. But he is honest in whatever he is doing to her except one thing. He still has not communicated his recent interactions with Chameli. He is honest with who? With himself? I don’t think he even realizes that in the process of replacing Jasmin’s memories with Tejo he is literally using her. If he had been completely honest with her than it would have been completely different

He has been calling her wife so repeatedly . Now I realise it is not just for saying sake he may use his rights physically too. It may happen as way to run away from present chaos but then that's how it often happens.

His touches , his embraces along with that constant clamouring my wife ,my life partner may have started as part of jest and consolation but slowly these words have conditioned Tejo and Fateh into taking each other as husband and wife.Once you start accepting facts verbally somewhere deep in mind you end up applying it too.

I am not against using your life partner until you are honest and faithful to each other. That's why life partners are called so . Be their when needed , stand for each other . In your weak moments it's your husband or wife who become your strength. So no wrong if Fateh grabs his wife Tejo when he is going weak. Wrong would be if he grabs his ex flame Chameli I think the good part of their relationship was that it was transparentf from the beginning where Tejo already knew the crazy love that Fateh had for Jasmin. But as a psychiatry professor, she is not using her knowledge that one doesn’t move on just like that who they loved crazily. I still think it is wrong to think of your ex when you are trying to touch your life partner. Also, touching your life partner just to show that oh you have moved on.

All is forgotten and forgiven between husband and wife till you are honest and faithful.So I as Tejo fan will always give him a chance till he keeps those two things intact. I am sorry but it is not that easy to just forgive and forget even if they are husband and wife. If one is trying to touch their life partner while they are thinking about their ex that is mentally and emotionally cheating your life partner. And that is never forgotten or forgiven

Now that all I said is only valid till Tejo knows whole truth. Which he has not . So his whole my wife thing is going to fail big time . When wife realises that husband is playing double game with her. No games but only faith can keep the marriage boat sailing. A relationship works when two people are on the same page. In this relationship Tejo is going to madly in love with Fateh while he is going to be so focused on Jasmin that he has forgotten that he is cheating his best friend

And I completely believe in fate, and I believe sometimes relationships break because it wasn’t mean to be. No matter how much you loved that person.

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

I’m glad I dumped this show.

Can’t bear to watch two selfish people who are doing a battle of the egos by using Tejo.

I agree, Jasmin has forgotten that the person she wants to hurt is her sister. And Fateh has forgotten that he is gonna hurt his best friend.