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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayab


I dont think that a 3rd person can really convince the people in a relationship to change something. To sort out the problems within a relationships, only the people within the relationship can solve it. Here, only Anshuman and Pakhi have the ability to sort out there relationship. A 3rd person cannot influence them, no matter how hard they try, because in the end it's up the the person within the relationship whether to accept or reject the other person.


Third person can't convince people in a relationship, agreed. But Girish and Lavanya can definitely play a role. Its not a random stranger, but their family. If I was doing something wrong, my older sister would definitely try to help me sort myself out.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thats what I said. All of Sarat's male characters are basically flawed - mostly egoistic, self sentered men - who make mistake in the "heat of moment" and pay the price for it all their life.

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Overall, what I am trying to say is, the whole problem that Anshuman has is that he does not believe in trust that mutually exists in a relationship. He always puts greater emphasis on what's before his eyes. He needs to stop giving in too easily to what's before his eyes. The day he realizes that relationships are built upon trust and he stops believing on what's placed before him in an instant, he'll be able to win Pakhi back.

So what are your thoughts?

BASICALLY - Anshuman needs to learn the trust aspect of a relationship, and what it actually means.)

Agrre with you , if we look at Anshuman from the starting trust factor was not in his dictionary . He is practical person , believed what was before his eyes . Steadily Pakhi brought some changes in his outlook to look at the things but his childhood incident effected his trust factor .
This book might be written may be in early 1900 , Value of that time and now has taken 360 degree turn . Its quite difficult for the makers now to bring some changes but keeping the essence of the book intact . Look at Gulzar,s Izaazat with Rakha or many directors of that time , Rashikesh Mukharjee,s movies . Wman characters were strong . Talking about her 18 years wait then there is another of Sharat,s book turned in to Movie . Khushboo. Its treat to watch the sensitivity of the characters where male characters are flawed . Now People are not interested in literature , more interested in overdramatised , sensationalism .
Still people remember the shows when this TRP was not invented and writers have freedom to give wings to their imagination .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: monaco


Third person can't convince people in a relationship, agreed. But Girish and Lavanya can definitely play a role. Its not a random stranger, but their family. If I was doing something wrong, my older sister would definitely try to help me sort myself out.



If I was Paakhi older sister I would tell honey you are a little bit too much in love with your self respect and in a relationship that would be dangerous...an advise an older person told me the day I got married she was in a marriage self respect is important but when in argument, it takes the bigger person to say sorry and when that is said...husband and wife should let go otherwise its over!!
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