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Posted: 5 years ago
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Titli, I think yeh sab unn so called 'gender roles' ki galati hai. I mean I'm not criticizing Anu's character, but this is being said bcz Anu doesnot want Kallu to get blamed for turning a son against his father. Which even Kalyani does not want, consciously or unconsciously she did similar thing when Malhar said he would talk to his father about the money issue. It's just that today she felt that Baapji crossed a limit and she wanted him to intervene.

It's kinda due to gender roles set by the ancesters. Sometimes it bothers me to see it on screen so vividly, coz common man takes inspiration from these scenes. We are lucky that we know better.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: deep.d19

Titli, I think yeh sab unn so called 'gender roles' ki galati hai. I mean I'm not criticizing Anu's character, but this is being said bcz Anu doesnot want Kallu to get blamed for turning a son against his father. Which even Kalyani does not want, consciously or unconsciously she did similar thing when Malhar said he would talk to his father about the money issue. It's just that today she felt that Baapji crossed a limit and she wanted him to intervene.

It's kinda due to gender roles set by the ancesters. Sometimes it bothers me to see it on screen so vividly, coz common man takes inspiration from these scenes. We are lucky that we know better.

Wahi toh ! Piri dar piri hum sasuralwalo ki unjustified demands ko man lene ka siksha , Maike se le ate hai. Kalyani , Anu se samazdar hai.... Atleast she raised her voice. And bapji jab apna regressive soul bahar late hai tavi malhar ghar mein nhi hota ! Pata nhi yeh kala saya kab hatega!
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Posted: 5 years ago
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I wish mallu had hugged her while consoling her...it felt a little incomplete. I wish that moment had been longer. I only watch for kalma moments! Baaki sab gaye bhaad main!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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The allegations that Baapji put on Atharv and Kalyani were very serious in nature. What guarantee that Baapji would not do it again which would create problems btw a husband and wife. Anupriya should have thought abt that before stopping Kalyani.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hamiltonbhatia

The allegations that Baapji put on Atharv and Kalyani were very serious in nature. What guarantee that Baapji would not do it again which would create problems btw a husband and wife. Anupriya should have thought abt that before stopping Kalyani.

Bapji did it to break the camera , I dont think he will do it again . And if he does Malhar is not going to buy that. Bapji did it for a purpose and the purpose is done. Kalyani will try to stop the marriage but Anu will b kidnapped. When Malhar will b reaching with his force , she will b get married with Anu. Aj ka episode miss mat karna .Hala ki mera miss ho jayega!
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: neeraja91

I wish mallu had hugged her while consoling her...it felt a little incomplete. I wish that moment had been longer. I only watch for kalma moments! Baaki sab gaye bhaad main!

Mujhe bhi yahi laga... Hug karna chahiye tha... 😭

But sometimes I feel so content to see Malhar bridging the gap between AnuYani Coz once upon a time he wanted them to suffer coz of his anger. So it's so adorbs to watch him. 🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Wahi toh ! Piri dar piri hum sasuralwalo ki unjustified demands ko man lene ka siksha , Maike se le ate hai. Kalyani , Anu se samazdar hai.... Atleast she raised her voice. And bapji jab apna regressive soul bahar late hai tavi malhar ghar mein nhi hota ! Pata nhi yeh kala saya kab hatega!

Along with Mom telling their daughters that sasural is your family too, a Mom needs to learn herself that even the d-i-l is here to make a family, and not break it. These lessons are given to girls because this happens in the society. It shouldn't.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I know he did it for camera but Anu doesn’t. All I am saying is in general this is what she should have thought about. Her advice is suitable for mother in law dil squabbles not accusations like these.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hamiltonbhatia

I know he did it for camera but Anu doesn’t. All I am saying is in general this is what she should have thought about. Her advice is suitable for mother in law dil squabbles not accusations like these.

Actually the problem is Malhar had immense trust issues in their initial phase of marriage .He was immensely rude ,ruthless and very sceptic , After knowing Sampada and Atharav's truth he mellowed down , He now had turned to a caring loving and supportive. Though he was supportive earlier , But never expressed it . Now that he become such a support system and his trust issues had gone for the time being , Anu dont want to disrupt the marital bliss they are enjoying ,so she is preventing her to get involved into any tiff or clash.She is behaving like a typical mom who does not want her daughter to get detached from her loving husband. She definately is wrong. If u have seen the show Anu had always been a meek , stupid and boring character. U can only pity her. Respect is not a thing she can earn. She only brings her strong self out when kalyani gets into trouble or get stuck in any unforseen danger. Four of them Kalma and Anusar had weak points . Despite being genuine and brave , they some time falls prey of their weaknesses.
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thr always deals with socially relevant issues.

In our society daughter in laws faces lot of problems in her in laws house not only through her mother in law but whole family mainly father in law too. The abuse of children and mentally challenged children is unfortunately also happens.

Anu is any typical mom who wants her daughter to have a happy married life thus stopping her from creating anymore problems.

But thr always shows kalyani as a role model for everyone. She reacts , she fights for justice, she does the right thing.

So am guessing this is for that.

More over they had to show how evil this madhav is and when the evilness reaches it's peak the God himself comes down in form of smone and destroy him.

Am really hoping it's malhar that does it.

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