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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey there all the lovely people!!!
Me is back!!! DO WATCH the episode... it's KanUm paradise today. Don't know what to write


It's said that friendship is necessary not love in a marriage. Love is just that attraction which joins two people together but it's friendship that bounds them together, through thick and thin, happiness or sadness, two people work together in unison for each other, not in the same manner but towards the same goal.

Massi leaves with the final word that it doesn't matter Kanak trusts her or not but she sure as hell doesn't trust Kanak... everyone is left behind gawking at her retreating figure, some smirking some pondering and some clueless. Uma says to Kanak that winning over Massi should be her first priority and she nods back - these two have formed an unsaid alliance.
Finally the day comes when Uma and Kanak walk into their room at the end of the day. Kanak is laughing at a memory and Uma looks on curiously. She explains that she and Vansh used to prank call random people. It's so much fun. -- during this conversation Kanak has taken off her duppata - the veil is no longer required between them, she is at ease in their little world, their room. A duppata has a story to it, it's the crown jewel of 'sharm n lihaz and lajja' today that duppata was removed, that Kanak is as bare as she can be in front of him. And he initially turns his eyes away and then gets used to the idea.
Kanak says that she wants to proceed step by step first they should be friends, then lovers and eventually husband and wife. Uma staying true to his character says that Shivji and Parvati are the ideal husband and wife, and nowhere is it mentioned that they were friends. Kanak says that the way stairs are made to reach the terrace, she is making steps to reach the ultimate level in their relationship. --Uma is unable to understand the concept of friendship because he has no concept of a girl being friends with a guy, according to him a girl and boy can never be friends, as talking to strangers is not allowed in their house. As Vansh calls and pretends to be a salesperson, saras stopped suman from receiving as Uma is at home - suman asks that doesn't she feel curious to talk to strangers, as she read a lot of romantic novels but never applied. Saras says that reading is different but all this is 'chichorapun' and she is not interested. This whole scene sets up the idea Uma has regarding a girl and boy not being even allowed to talk. Friendship is a very far fetched thought.

Kanak today didn't impose her thoughts and wants on him, she just said it that this is the way she want them to proceed, understanding each other and moving step by step. Kanak's lamp catches fire and Uma takes it outside and Kanak brings water to douse it, she puts out the fire and drenches Uma. He stands there with blank expressions and Kanak although wanting to laugh, averts her eyes. He walks up to her and says friends don't turn their gaze but lovers do. He kinda challenges her that let's see whether she would make him her friend first or he would make her his lover.
Uma's only hold over Kanak is the physical proximity, his intense gaze that makes her uncomfortable, nervous and butterflies in her stomach a feeling she hasn't processed to be of love.
Uma watches her in the saree, she turns and it falls down. He helps her to pin it, and she is left staring at him, he leaves saying a friend helped. They had a lovely moment at night and in the morning. They are together yet both of them are not actually there. It's not that they have ulterior motives it's just their ways are yet to be connected.


Thank you for reading a nonsense post.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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As always great analysis Blue... Very true that Uma has no concept of friendship between a guy and a girl esp when they are husband and wife...He is a typical Indian husband who just wants to rush into husband and wife relationship...I loved the way Kanak said that she doesn't what to treat her marriage on kartavayas...She wants to enjoy the relationship...Progress into it gradually...I also loved the way he teases her...But I think he will realize that with time about importance of friendship in Husband-wife relationship...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great analysis.
Love that kanum are getting closer , it was vide t that Uma does not want to wait any more time with the friendship nonsense
Doubt Uma and Kanak can ever b friends, that will take very long time
Uma was very harsh in precap
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Posted: 8 years ago
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1. Guess Bhabho is antaryami of Kanak's feelings these days.

2. Maasi should be arrested and carted to jail ASAP!

3. Uma seems ever ready to be Kanak's husband 🤣 But, he is clueless about love and friendship. For him marriage is kartavya...Kanak will have a tough journey ahead removing his blindfold. Precap is trailer of that.

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4. Though he has travelled and read Uma seemingly has no friends. Nobody to share problems or joys with. Kanak if nothing else gives him lighter moments. Hopefully with time he will come to share what is in his heart and mind with her as well. These things, however, take time.

5. Familiarity and informality. Kanak broke some formal barriers btwn them by taking off her duppatta (its a comfort and trust move).

6. By throwing the dupatta on him...Kanak engaged Uma in play. Somewhere within Uma is a little boy similar to Shiv. That stifled little boy now has a playmate. I think he will become her friend and she will become his premi. Both will win because he needs a friend and guide. She needs love.

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sachgirl

As always great analysis Blue... Very true that Uma has no concept of friendship between a guy and a girl esp when they are husband and wife...He is a typical Indian husband who just wants to rush into husband and wife relationship...I loved the way Kanak said that she doesn't what to treat her marriage on kartavayas...She wants to enjoy the relationship...Progress into it gradually...I also loved the way he teases her...But I think he will realize that with time about importance of friendship in Husband-wife relationship...



Hey there Girl
Thank you 😊

Uma is typical or not I can't say that, but his idea that they already are husband wife why have formality of being friends dating and taking time, he has skipped the process and is at the final level, and that's enough for him. But kanak did get under his skin by him teasing her being friends while closing distance between them.

Life is life, happy days rainy days. It's upto oneself how they come to terms with it. Hans kar bhi jeena hai Aur roo kar bhi. So why not make the best of it and be happy about it.. Kanak too doesn't want to take their life as a responsibility/duty but life they can enjoy have their moments.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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After long time nice to have few Kanum scenes

Let's enjoy it
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As usual perfect analysis of relations..
I loved the start of their beautiful relationship...

Kanaks acceptance of Uma was evident.. She giggled and shared prank with Uma.. The same way she could have discussed with Vansh.. So how comfortable she is with Uma!!
N den taking out dupatta was so symbolic.. Acceptance of her own bed room her own Uma..

Kanak is melting and Uma is also bending.. The fellow who questioned why friends.. Teased her the other morning that he is helping as friend..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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nice post blue...
after so many emotional epis ..some lighter ones...ofcourse romantic ones 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ


1. Guess Bhabho is antaryami of Kanak's feelings these days.

2. Maasi should be arrested and carted to jail ASAP!

3. Uma seems ever ready to be Kanak's husband 🤣But, he is clueless aboutlove and friendship. For him marriage is kartavya...Kanak will have a tough journey ahead removing his blindfold. Precap is trailer of that.




Hey there Anjana

Bhabho knows way tooo much about Kanak than the brothers who actually lived with her. In a few days Bhabhos age/experience has more weight to know that Kanak has seeds of love in her eyes for Uma.

Massi is going to play and play bad.

Uma's only advantage right now is the nervous butterflies he creates by their physical proximity. What he doesn't realize is that rather than the 'Duty' there is much more to being husband and wife. He is the medieval historical romance hero that gets married only for the heir and somewhere down the road gets feelings. His limited existence in that shell, despite being well read (be it the vedas only) having conservative thinking, all this is thought provoking.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: blueflames



Hey there Girl
Thank you 😊

Uma is typical or not I can't say that, but his idea that they already are husband wife why have formality of being friends dating and taking time, he has skipped the process and is at the final level, and that's enough for him. But kanak did get under his skin by him teasing her being friends while closing distance between them.

Life is life, happy days rainy days. It's upto oneself how they come to terms with it. Hans kar bhi jeena hai Aur roo kar bhi. So why not make the best of it and be happy about it.. Kanak too doesn't want to take their life as a responsibility/duty but life they can enjoy have their moments.


Very true...And it should be like that...Live and Let live...

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