Sometimes I feel Uma dnt understand meaning of true love - Page 2

Originally posted by: weirdlynormal

I dont know the intracies of love. But love can happen due to any reason beauty, swag, wealth and in umas case signals.

Falling in "love" for beauty, swag, wealth or signals...is not really love. You can call it attraction, infatuation, fandom, greediness, but not love...not until all these superficial things are gone and the person is still there for you. As for signals...Kanak herself pointed out that there are no guarantees in that. Today Uma gets a signal to love someone...and tomorrow to leave her...what would he do? Would he stay with Kanak regardless of the signals? If yes...then okay, we can call it love.

Like in arrange marriages ppl start loving because they know noe its their spouse. Same way for uma he thinks they are made for each other. If it was only dharam then he would not have taken her back aftet kerala escape, alcohol incident.

Yes Uma, once married, wanted to accept and love his wife.

But as for him forgiving her...do we only forgive people that we love? No right? I don't know about all religions...but I am familiar with most of the major ones...and I believe there is a pathway for repentance (prayashchit) in all of them. Forgiveness is not contingent on love...rather it is usually granted based on how sincere we feel the person asking forgiveness is. Once again it was his dharam that led him to forgive Kanak. He wanted to give their marriage a chance, because he doesn't want his bhakti, his understanding of Shiv's signs to be incorrect.

Once love happens you got attached thqt reason should be lost.

Now u should just love and stand by taht person

E.g. in umas case he didnt leave kanak as soon as payal told him. He wanted to still check on kanak. If only his dharam mattered he would have left a cheater then and there.

To be fair...Payal is not a trustworthy person. So, I think rather than taking her word blindly...Uma decided to test Kanak. And if found her to be of bad character he would have acted as judge and jury and burned her alive!

That is not love in my definition...that's vigilante justice. 😲

I think its love. As i believe love is care. If somebody cares for me without getting anything out of it its love.

Originally posted by: Fatima_Q

I think Uma does care for Kanak, but true love means putting someone else's needs before your own...accepting a person for who they are...with their faults as well as good points. It means being their support in good times and bad. And it means giving them the wings they need to fly so they can achieve their dreams.

Perhaps it is like Deebz said...Uma's character is so austere and rigid it is hard for me to feel his love...😆 ...Although in Kerala he did try to court Kanak with a song on the beach...that was actually cute...😆

I mean I can't peek inside his heart and see what is really going on...but one thing is for sure...he just doesn't understand Kanak...and she just doesn't love him. And I'm glad. He needs to earn this love.

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

So now seeing so many new ids with (50-100 posts)in the forum created only to bash uma

Anyways coming to the topic

Its better ppl watch the serial properly frm starting before saying wrong stuff

When did Uma stopped her from eating that chaat

He even asked her to take mint leaves so smell of onion wont come frm her mouth

But the overconfident and rude kanak rejected it

When maasi caught her he asked to leave it but she was adamant to punish as rules are equal for everyone

Still he gave her a small punishment which she did leave it in middle

Neither Masi or Uma forced her to complete it

Rules in the house are same for everyone

Even maasi punished uma bcz of kanaks cheap trick

Which she did to spoil his reputation in front of his family

He always helped her in many stuff

Gave her privacy,let her keep her secrets

Originally posted by: Deebz

I don't know if it is the acting or the character that looks excessively rigid. I am not feeling Uma's love for Kanak.. In Kerala, I saw some tenderness but not after that. Kanak was also playing games for a while. He talks of being in love but right now I feel like he does it as a rule of dharma.