Distorted Feminism

- Is feminism not doing housework? They have shown Kanak having issues with pick up the plate for herself and Uma. Now she has issues with doing his laundry. Is her issue doing the chore or his chores? Didn't Sandhya cook and do Suraj's chores? I remember her doing laundry and cooking and sewing under the guidance of Bhabho. So, are Kanak's objections here meant to put her in the wrong? Or is this the "naya soch" that Kanak's supposed to represent? What are the CV's trying to say? 😕

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I never could grasp the true definition of feminism, so for me it's a bit conflicted and confused a term. I never use it. But apart from that it's a wonderful post. .

-- Kanak having issues with picking up plates, doing laundry gives more of a spoilt brat vibes. If making faces at chores or seeing them as a burden is naya soch, then I would rather promote the older soch, which made person capable of doing stuff themselves. Being independent is to be able to manage chores by oneself, be it washing clothes or changing a tire.

- agree that woman needs the freedom to be able to walk out freely, Ladno is no nobody daddy's jaidad that woman needs protection and they can't walk out alone.

- agree that men needs to put in equal effort at domestic chores, and US does help her clean up but all this goes unnoticed as of now.

- it's hard to be human in this world, and peoples make Gods of themselves. No to feet touching that also every day.

- husband and wife need to be side by side, neither one ahead or behind. They need to be together, shoulder to shoulder, be it against each other or for each other. The balance which they create is necessary, that neither lags behind..

TSMSP has a lot of potential of exploring the clash of new and old soch, how they mingle and fight, and both of them learning from each other... neither one is outright wrong or right, but both have areas of improvement.m, a lot more can be learned and applied and appreciated.

Till now wht we have seen ..Kanak as a spoilt teenage type who lived in hostel ..a free bird..jo chaho karo..no restrictions n no body to correct u ..whenever she came home no body told her to do things u knw..it was a very short span so brothers n meenakshi...ki let her do things whtever she wants..in vacations generally family dnt bother to correct especially whn u dnt hv parents..So basically till now K is I m rite kinda person n vd Uma her ego clashes n obvious after forced marriage n shop misunderstandings so shez doing all this drama
Regarding Uma hez also only Male member in family n so worshipped..
now both met ..Cvs r trying to show how two totally different persons ..Kanak totally independent girl n Uma a Dharm follower vd thr flaws meet n change for each other...this z Nayi Soch I feel...Combination of modernisation vd old dharm practices like Yoga which is must for today genre

It's funny that Kanak claims to be the torch bearer of aaj ki aurat; however, she was ready to marry a guy of her Bhabho's choice right after collage without thinking of making a career or establishing self identity as an independent aaj ki aurat.

The basics of feminism is that its her choice. The girl has the choice if she wants to do it or not. She should be the only one to decide what she wants to do. In Uma's household, there is no such concept as choice. Instead Uma constantly keeps telling Kanak that it is her duty to do these things for her husband. It's not a choice. Uma is capable of doing everything for himself but he believes he doesn't have to and only his wife should. She has no other choice.