3/06 A simple conversation is greatest adventure!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey there all the lovely people.
I didn't want to do a post today, couldn't think what to write... please watch the episode ... it's way too good to be written in words. The gestures the words the performance can't be described. But here is my petty attempt.


Hearty conversations makes one vulnerable, and vulnerability brings out honesty which in turn attracts the soul.
US and Kanak are finally alone in their room, US asks Kanak to get ready as the mahurat is not to be missed. Kanak misunderstands him and thinks he is talking about SR and says she is not ready. US walks towards her talking, Kanak backs and oil falls on the floor, they both slip and are unable to stand. Their fingers entwined, feet on feet they struggle to stand, Kanak realizes her discomfort and tries to free her hand, US let's go and Kanak brings it closer to herself awkwardly. The moment US tries to stand he is about to fall down and Kanak holds his hand and stables him.. they twist around and fall on the bed --- this whole scene is their journey in the show. How they both are pushed together in life, Kanak is uncomfortable, US is ready to give space and the moment he lets go of Kanak he is going to lose composure and Kanak is going to help him get back on his feet. And together they would fall in love.

Kanak is lying on top of US, he is smiling and she says I don't love you. US freezes. Kanak dreams that he suffocates her with a pillow for betraying him. She comes out of her reverie and moves giving way to US to leave.

US stands on the terrace, Kanak walks in.. the moment she comes near him, he steps aside, creating a distance. He says that you took enough time to make an excuse for what you said inside. Kanak replies that she swears by the moon, US stops her and says not to lie by the name of moon God, it's a sin.. she says she is not lying. She confronts him by explaining her situation to him, that she was just picked up married forcefully, without her consent or approval. Yes she ran away because she was scared, but she returned because a man who could force her to marry in front of the whole town, could find her sooner or later... hence the marriage down with all rites and rituals can't be negated, so she returned but she has no feeling for him. He might be her husband, but he is still a stranger, this family and place is unfamiliar and She is all alone there. She says she is doubtful of this marriage, that it won't last because it's dependent on sanket, and likes. Kanak questions US what if he gets signs that she is not the right person for him, what will she do then? What would her future hold. How will she face her family, whom she told nothing about him, as she herself doesn't know anything. US tries to assure her that nothing would happen, but she says it's all words, this marriage is one sided and based on pasand and not love. Love can't change but pasand can.

The episode was long anticipated, the actual conversation between the couple, especially from Kanak's side. Who remains in a constant dilemma and fear of anticipating the next thing that's going to happen. She poured her heart out, her fear of future, her fear of being near him, in the family, in the unfamiliar place. She truthfully said that even if she accepted the marriage and returned, she couldn't love him.
Brilliant performance by Rhea and Avinesh. Commendable acting and execution of scene and even the direction and aura was aesthetically pleasing. A wonderful experience.

Thank you

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Deebz thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice update.Liked your analogy of their journey with the slip and fall. Very glad Kanak came clean about her feelings. Time to bring him out of delusions. Yet to watch the episode.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now this is why I'm watching the show...the scenes between these 2.
I am so glad that Kanak blurted out the truth...it was the only way to go. And what she said was honest and reasonable. I couldn't help think that everything she said also applied to poor Payal.

I'm sure one of the 3 things she's going to ask for is the papers to Bhabo's sweet shop. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Then twisted fall was also an indication that whenever one will slip the other will be there to catch...both are eachothers strenght or will grow to be come that...
How much I loved this long awaited conversation...it leaves me with a bad taste...cause Kanak isn't genuine interested in making this relationship work..she has only shop and bhabo in mind...her hidden agenda...

I seriously hope she won't ask for the papers...but then again it will be better to get the paper and the shop out off the way...


Edited by shali - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Blue ,this summary was fabulous and it compliments this amazing episode beautifully.
Loved how u described the oil scene and compared it to their journey , I never thought of
it in that way.I think for me what was most incredible that Kanak went after him after
telling him she didn't love him. That meant to me that subconsciously he matters to her
although she imagined her herself thinking,' Kanak u spoilt ur work or sumthing similar'.
When he walked away she didnt think off excuses to cover up ,she went to him and spoke abt
How it effects her cos she know he was upset and it did matter to her that she could have
Hurt him although she has yet to realize it.

Its wonderful that she is opening up about her pain , her feelings , he needs to look at it
From her prospective and realize what he has done.


Payal is a sad soul , my heart aches for her. Can somebody explain why a maid acts like
The madam of the house with the two daughter in laws? There's a bit of rebellion from
Payal together when she got up from the bed n moved the pillows back to where she wanted
It to be. Will she do the same with her situation in life ? Get back her life on her terms. This is the start of an understanding between kanak and Uma?

One of the best episodes even though there were no Rathis



Edited by taniks - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you Blue. Yes its hard to capture the content in words, but you have done a valiant job.
The Symbolic Dance: the slip, slide, catch and fall...it was symbolic of their past present and future. Whenever one slips the other will risk it all to protect. He will be her shield and she his. The last time they did this dance it was manipulated by Kanak. Not so today. Its slowly becoming genuine.

Kanak verbalized her plight and dented US' right! She showed him the mirror of wrong and in doing so made her own position strong. The subsequent manipulation by Kanak thereafter was, however, wrong. The truth of women's vulnerability in a forced relation got degraded by her artifice. But, then again one could make that case that had he not forced her into this marriage they would not be in this mess.

Not sure what her three wishes will be but, glad they made some relational and plot progress.

The parallels between our heroine, Payal and Palomi was interesting. None are suffering from material lack, but all have been wronged by US. the keeper of "dharam"...yet only the chosen "one" is breaking his bharaam.
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I enjoyed today's episode too...this show she have been in the night slot not afternoon...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@AnjanaYYZ , I agree with everything in ur comment but I am bit confused.
Do you really think that Palomi plight was caused by Uma? To me he only
Sees her as an employee , he doesn't even touch her cos she a stranger not his
Own ( I mean he doesn't even regard her as part of his family). Her situation is that
Of her own making , I agree the heart cant be commanded to love but she can stop
herself from getting hurt further by removing herself from that house or respecting
his decision and chose which is Kanak . Now its her foolishness that is at work esp.as he has
proven that he wants Kanak and accepts her as his chosen life partner no matter what.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anjana...palomi is only given "shelter"...US never gave her a look but yes before Kanak he trusted her...and now he choose her above palomi...but that is natural...cause she is his wife...palomi will always be second...he didn't wrong her...Palomi heartache is due to her own desire and dreams...
Yes payal has been wronged by US...but that's his dharm...now we have to wait and see how He changes and will turn this around...but for this to happen we have to wait a long time...

Massi came over threatening Kanak...well she is right...she is fighting for the happiness off her US...she doesn't trust Kanak...and Kanak is lying to everyone...kanak needs to know that her actions will have consequences...especially when it means get hurt US pride and dignity...Kanak can't use the forced marriage as an excuse...cause this time she choose to come back...
Edited by shali - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: taniks

@AnjanaYYZ , I agree with everything in ur comment but I am bit confused.

Do you really think that Palomi plight was caused by Uma? To me he only
Sees her as an employee , he doesn't even touch her cos she a stranger not his
Own ( I mean he doesn't even regard her as part of his family). Her situation is that
Of her own making , I agree the heart cant be commanded to love but she can stop
herself from getting hurt further by removing herself from that house or respecting
his decision and chose which is Kanak . Now its her foolishness that is at work esp.as he has
proven that he wants Kanak and accepts her as his chosen life partner no matter what.


US is least culpable with regard to Palomi, but I don't think he is completely innocent. Most men & women know when some has a major crush/loves them. So, why did he let her hope? I think it's easy too say he didn't know. Am not so sure. if Maasi was cognizant of Palomi's feelings I find it hard to swallow that US didn't have any inkling. She is the only "parayii" woman is living in his household. Most men would be cautious and careful about interactions with this individual. If he clear from the start (pre-Kanak) that he was not interested in Palomi then I don't think she would have harboured all these hopes. Even now she is of marriageable age - an adult. Why has he not reflected on her future? Surely if his her pseudo guardian then he needs to do so.

As for preferring Kanak's truth to Palomi's.- there was a better way to have handled the situation. A more respectful way without making it a contest. Again if someone is in your "care" then be careful. Don't ill treat them or disrespect them.

That said - I reiterate he is least culpable about Palomi's plight. And I didn't appreciate Palomi's thinking that she is worse off then Payal. Palomi needs to grow up and move beyond her obsession for a man who is not interested in her and has made that clear.
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 8 years ago

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