When Oil meets Fire!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: atulya1

Hey😊I never said you've been trying to glorify that act..my apologies if you felt bad..

It's cool. 😊

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

I am looking forward to see how are they going to fix the wrong that was done...

Yes that's when the whole track starts. How do each of them adapt to each other's life.

Originally posted by: DEE2803

I cant wait for Kanak to knock some sense in this man , I mean there is no harm to be a devotee of god but like this ,not thinking of anyones feelings and doing what only you think is right is absolutely hideous ...I did not like the way he forced her in this marriage .

Exactly. The day he realizes that he started on the wrong foot. And really really hope kanak doesn't let him off easy.

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Today's episode revealed Uma's scary side, he tried his, sam,bhed etc and then resorted to force when Kanak wouldn't buy his reasoning.

poor Kanak just got woke upto a nightmare

I'm curious to see how they'll take this forward.

He is a man determined and possessed. He has never seen or heard about refusal.
It is this clash of reasoning and personalities is what raises the curiosity bar.
They have been giving Shiv Parvati story again n again. That Shivji was dharm k pake wheresas Parvati jee was innocent and had come from a palace, a princess maybe. How they fell in love and lived and adapted is what CVs might be trying to adapt.

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Loved the first part and hated the second. It was painful is an understatement.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">
It was not right on Uma's part to do what he did today and what he will do tomorrow. He has every right to believe in destiny, and God. He has every right to believe that she is the girl for him and he is her soulmate. He has every right to ask her to marry him, and thats it. Thats where it should've stopped, specially when she told him clearly that she doesn't believe in it and she cannot marry someone just like that. How hard is it for him to understand? He was shown as someone who can understand people and guide them the right way, but he lost his way today.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">If he believed in God so much as he claims he does, why couldn't he wait for the girl to come to him happily? If she is meant for him, wouldn't Kanak have a change of heart and come to him when God decides so? Why was it so important for Uma to get married that very day? Wouldn't the next year's Shivratri day as auspicious as the current one? Does he think that if he lets her go now, she will never come back? But isnt it completely against what he is shown to believe in? He asked her that they met in Kerala, Pushkar and Ladno, then why didnt he think that she can come back next year(if God desires) to the same place and get married to him ?</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Well its a big blunder on Uma's part. He shouldn't have done it, but now that he did, it will be interesting to see how he takes this relation forward.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Absolutely hated the spectators of this forced shaadi. For them Uma is God, for them Uma is someone every girl would desire etc, but that doesnt mean it should be the same for others. The girl was crying for help, she is in an unknown place, admist total strangers and in the name of blind belief is being forced into a lifelong relationship, and no one has a voice to go against it? And instead they were dancing in Joy and throwing flowers with smiles. How pathetic.</font>

You my dear, have an amazing point. It's actually spot on.

Uma Shankar might believe that she is the ONE - yes and that raises the question why wasn't some other day as auspicious as this. He just kick started a conundrum which will affect everyone's life.

He might be righteous and whatever. But forcing a girl into marriage is a big no no.
A Godly man shouldn't be egotistic. He was the one to support her, not force her.

I am really curious how content he looked in the precap. Does he feel that now he owns her and she would be returned to him found wherever.

Originally posted by: blueflames

You my dear, have an amazing point. It's actually spot on.

Uma Shankar might believe that she is the ONE - yes and that raises the question why wasn't some other day as auspicious as this. He just kick started a conundrum which will affect everyone's life.

He might be righteous and whatever. But forcing a girl into marriage is a big no no.
A Godly man shouldn't be egotistic. He was the one to support her, not force her.

I am really curious how content he looked in the precap. Does he feel that now he owns her and she would be returned to him found wherever.

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

I am looking forward to see how are they going to fix the wrong that was done...

I Agree. The Way They Got Married Is Very Wrong. Poor Kanak. I Feel Bad For Her.

Shankar Just Forced Her To Get Married...
Didn't That.

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

Loved the first part and hated the second. It was painful is an understatement.

It was not right on Uma's part to do what he did today and what he will do tomorrow. He has every right to believe in destiny, and God. He has every right to believe that she is the girl for him and he is her soulmate. He has every right to ask her to marry him, and thats it. Thats where it should've stopped, specially when she told him clearly that she doesn't believe in it and she cannot marry someone just like that. How hard is it for him to understand? He was shown as someone who can understand people and guide them the right way, but he lost his way today.

If he believed in God so much as he claims he does, why couldn't he wait for the girl to come to him happily? If she is meant for him, wouldn't Kanak have a change of heart and come to him when God decides so? Why was it so important for Uma to get married that very day? Wouldn't the next year's Shivratri day as auspicious as the current one? Does he think that if he lets her go now, she will never come back? But isnt it completely against what he is shown to believe in? He asked her that they met in Kerala, Pushkar and Ladno, then why didnt he think that she can come back next year(if God desires) to the same place and get married to him ?

Well its a big blunder on Uma's part. He shouldn't have done it, but now that he did, it will be interesting to see how he takes this relation forward.

Absolutely hated the spectators of this forced shaadi. For them Uma is God, for them Uma is someone every girl would desire etc, but that doesnt mean it should be the same for others. The girl was crying for help, she is in an unknown place, admist total strangers and in the name of blind belief is being forced into a lifelong relationship, and no one has a voice to go against it? And instead they were dancing in Joy and throwing flowers with smiles. How pathetic.

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">@Red: Well i wouldnt call him egoistic yet, he might be, but didn't see that yet, so will wait that to be shown. He seems to believe in god way more than normal people or to be precise he actually believes in God truly, so for him he is right because God can't be wrong.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">@Bold : Ya that look was telling. He was like "where the hell will you go now? you are bound to me forever" and thats exactly what i have issue with. He shouldnt have done that, hopefully they will show a proper reason for his madness. From what they showed last week, when payal's parents refused after saying "yes" for the alliance, he cited that they were the one's that came for the alliance, said "yes" and now are saying "no" which is against dharm.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">So similarly he thinks Kanak said "yes" for the marriage and is saying "no" now? Thats a long shot reason, but she clearly mentioned she misunderstood, so cant see why he had to force her into it. He is the same guy who didnt go after her, even when she sent him a letter with her number in there. Its weird that he resorted to force as if no other day is good for marriage. Why couldnt he think that she might be married? she might be engaged? she might be in some other relationship? that she has a family who have their opinions? I mean will he agree to such an alliance for his sister? If his sister goes on a vacation and their someone forces marriage upon her, will he agree to it? Well in that case shouldn't he consult Kanak's family too?</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Anyways, thats why i say its a blunder on his part. He is not this type of guy to force someone into a shaadi. But he seems so cold and unmoved by the whole fiasco, and his look in the precap was cold as ice. This guy didnt know what he married into😆, he will have an uphill task to first please Kanak and then Kanak's crazy love, Bhabho😆Well that might be God's way of justice😛</font>

I love how this discussion is shaping up.

Coming to egotistical part - isn't refusing to take a rejection and pressuring a person a little bit egotistical. It is his faith and he is imposing that faith on her. He thinks he know it all as he got the signals. He just choose her and it's done. Only his choice matters because he got the signals. His wifi is 5g with God.

As for yes no yes no confusion. It's absolute long shot. You grab a girl and say you are the one. Get hitched. Not even giving a freaking thought about her family her background. Her relationship n marriage is a mile away he didn't consider her approval or disapproval. Just picked her up and got married.

I love your 'what he has married into'. It actually serves him right. He should be the one to clear up everything.

Kuch bhi in the name of creative liberty.

Originally posted by: Panthera

THIS! This!

Same stinking pig poo stroryline/excuse to get the leads living under the same roof...some sort of majboori ki shaadi, or forced marriage, 31/2 pheras ..same old shite😡