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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: blueflames



It is his faith and he is imposing that faith on her. He thinks he know it all as he got the signals. He just choose her and it's done. Only his choice matters because he got the signals. His wifi is 5g with God.


Bold: this part made me laugh so hard 😆😆😆

You're right, he thinks that God had sent him all the right signals, he is the chosen one so why bother with what "the common people" people think or believe? He knows God is always right, so he is right because he is doing God's will which is always right! Hard to debate with people who close themselves in such a circle of thoughts and arguments.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: blueflames



I love how this discussion is shaping up.

Coming to egotistical part - isn't refusing to take a rejection and pressuring a person a little bit egotistical. It is his faith and he is imposing that faith on her. He thinks he know it all as he got the signals. He just choose her and it's done. Only his choice matters because he got the signals. His wifi is 5g with God.

As for yes no yes no confusion. It's absolute long shot. You grab a girl and say you are the one. Get hitched. Not even giving a freaking thought about her family her background. Her relationship n marriage is a mile away he didn't consider her approval or disapproval. Just picked her up and got married.

I love your 'what he has married into'. It actually serves him right. He should be the one to clear up everything.

Kuch bhi in the name of creative liberty.


@Blue : 😆😆 He and God seem to have a special dedicated line for these signals.

I think deep down he fell in love with this girl and wanted to leave no stone unturned in marrying her (or so what my heart wants to believe after thinking long for the whole day 😆). We can argue how can this be called love? well thats why the journey has just started and its a long way for them to understand that the other person is right. Right now his behavior is because of blindfaith. I personally wouldve called it ego if he wouldnt even try to reason with her. Which he did and tried as much as he thought he had time for(patha nahin kaunsi ghaadi choot rahi thi to get married in such a hurry 😆)and was worth it. Anyways its going to be fun watching him and her under the same roof. It will be even more fun when she runs away from his house and he will have to go after her to get her back home.

I dont think he will get a free pass in this marriage. He will suffer more than what Kanak has to go through. He will have to convince two hellbent people(Kanak and Bhabho) about his love and make them trust him. Which is a longgg way. Suits him😈 He can then open special chat line with God and figure out how to come out of the mess😆



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Posted: 8 years ago
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^^
Or it could be wayyy better than that Anu😈 It seems Kanak is going to change her mind and pretends to agree to the shaadi when she realises that 'moochad' is Uma's henchman. Plan being, play along for a while, get hands on shop deeds and scraper! She has six months.

If the cvs have any sense they'll show after a while, kanak walking out, uma and the whole idiot village coming to know about her being previously engaged, her 'to be' in laws backing her that the forced shaadi has no relevance or standing legally or morally. Then have kanak throw in uma's face the fact that if payal's engagement is set in stone and therefore she HAD to marry the 4 years gone younger brother pic, then how can kanak's marriage to uma be valid?! Her engagement and therefore yet to come marriage to mayank is the true marriage. Oh and have Ved truly be his mother's beta and arrest the whole god damned village, starting with the dumb priest for aiding and abetting a crime.

Uma shanskaari can then for the next so many episodes, go around alternatively looking heartbroken, drowning in dharma sankat, offering water oblations to the sun, doing a100 surya namaskars every episode, opening the Ramayana at random pages without looking to see what god wants him to do next...all topless😈
And the Ramayana random page should tell him... whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, either he accepts his marriage is void or payal's. If one of the pages tells him to remove the dark conract lens, that would be good too!😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Panthera

^^

Or it could be wayyy better than that Anu😈 It seems Kanak is going to change her mind and pretends to agree to the shaadi when she realises that 'moochad' is Uma's henchman. Plan being, play along for a while, get hands on shop deeds and scraper! She has six months.

If the cvs have any sense they'll show after a while, kanak walking out, uma and the whole idiot village coming to know about her being previously engaged, her 'to be' in laws backing her that the forced shaadi has no relevance or standing legally or morally. Then have kanak throw in uma's face the fact that if payal's engagement is set in stone and therefore she HAD to marry the 4 years gone younger brother pic, then how can kanak's marriage to uma be valid?! Her engagement and therefore yet to come marriage to mayank is the true marriage. Oh and have Ved truly be his mother's beta and arrest the whole god damned village, starting with the dumb priest for aiding and abetting a crime.

Uma shanskaari can then for the next so many episodes, go around alternatively looking heartbroken, drowning in dharma sankat, offering water oblations to the sun, doing a100 surya namaskars every episode, opening the Ramayana at random pages without looking to see what god wants him to do next...all topless😈
And the Ramayana random page should tell him... whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, either he accepts his marriage is void or payal's. If one of the pages tells him to remove the dark conract lens, that would be good too!😆


@Bold :🤣🤣🤣🤣

Well i totally get your frustration. Seriously she should and will walk out, i don't see how else this story can move forward.

Yes it was so funny how he got down in the middle of nowhere to read Ramayan 😆. Anyways now someone please open a page of Ramayan and throw a verse at Uma's face and tell him that Ravan was the villain not hero in the story (for trying to force Sita). Specially his pyaari Maasi shouldve told him when equating his love with Ram-Sita and Shiv-parvathi, that no matter what, they never forced themselves on their better halves or forcefully get married. Oh well, Uma seems to remember things that suit him and chuck off things that are not aligned with his mentality 😆

Stupid villagers, they all deserve to be thrown in jail for seeing the mockery of marriage and inturn celebrating it as festival 👎🏼

I wish Ved seriously does something to prove that he is his maa's beta afterall. I seriously felt like shaking him when he said that he will have to wait for Girl's family to push charges. Now when it came to his love, he is traveling all the way to Ladno to see a married girl .

You know if Uma who everyone treat as God, is like this, imagine what wonderous wonder would be Payal's husband 😆😆.

Edited by Anu-Reddy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with the posts in this thread.
Uma has every right to believe Kanak is his soulmate, he has every right to attempt to woo her, but what he did today was wrong.

I was glad to see a female lead stand strong and not get deterred by the idea of a good boy that will keep her like a princess. I also loved Kanak's realistic view; who marries someone just like that? Even if God has been giving them signs.

I was disappointed to see such a god-loving man such as Uma stoop to this level to be with his 'soulmate'. What does he really know about her? What is she like? What are her dreams and aspirations? Maybe she is already spoken for or has her heart set one someone else? Maybe she has a quirk that Uma absolutely can't live with?

It will be interesting to see how this is dealt with. I hope the makers are sensible with this and we don't see Kanak in Uma's house expected to be the good wife and good bahu, and then have her judged when she isn't these things, because these are things she most certainly did now sign up for.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

Loved the first part and hated the second. It was painful is an understatement.

It was not right on Uma's part to do what he did today and what he will do tomorrow. He has every right to believe in destiny, and God. He has every right to believe that she is the girl for him and he is her soulmate. He has every right to ask her to marry him, and thats it. Thats where it should've stopped, specially when she told him clearly that she doesn't believe in it and she cannot marry someone just like that. How hard is it for him to understand? He was shown as someone who can understand people and guide them the right way, but he lost his way today.

If he believed in God so much as he claims he does, why couldn't he wait for the girl to come to him happily? If she is meant for him, wouldn't Kanak have a change of heart and come to him when God decides so? Why was it so important for Uma to get married that very day? Wouldn't the next year's Shivratri day as auspicious as the current one? Does he think that if he lets her go now, she will never come back? But isnt it completely against what he is shown to believe in? He asked her that they met in Kerala, Pushkar and Ladno, then why didnt he think that she can come back next year(if God desires) to the same place and get married to him ?

Well its a big blunder on Uma's part. He shouldn't have done it, but now that he did, it will be interesting to see how he takes this relation forward.

Absolutely hated the spectators of this forced shaadi. For them Uma is God, for them Uma is someone every girl would desire etc, but that doesnt mean it should be the same for others. The girl was crying for help, she is in an unknown place, admist total strangers and in the name of blind belief is being forced into a lifelong relationship, and no one has a voice to go against it? And instead they were dancing in Joy and throwing flowers with smiles. How pathetic.



I hate to defend the Caveman eerm Godman! But, you know I like to irritate you😛 Hiya Anu 😆

Onto my point. Y today? Cuz God said so! He married them already today with Sindoor n Mala... so Uma is just finishing the job with mangalsutra n pheras within time alotted by Pandit. God decided date n time. All other rasams done. The man is just being prompt and following through on divine determination on the destined date and time 🤣

What had me stumped is how does she know she is single and able to mingle... I mean marry?😕 But, the answer to my idiocy is God can't be wrong!🤣 Darn this UmaShankar - we can't defeat his Godness!

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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hi panthera...ur take is hilarious 😃... really enjoyed ur alternate storyline,,,,,avi is looking gaunt here, wud have liked some cheeks (pun not intended😊)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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After reading d replies on dis post..I was like..Y d hell was I sleeping at night..Being a part of dis hilarious discussion wud hv been a much better option😆

@panthera..I luvd your imaginary story..Dis is all I want..Kanak getting back d shop..Walking out of d forced marriage..n Payal being free of dat senseless gauna of her..Ved becoming dabangg n arresting d entire village🤣

Dat Ramayana part was too good n on point too..Ramayan k do chapter padh liye hote to pata hota ki Ram Ji ne sita ji ko force nhi kiya tha..Agyaani prani!!🤢
Speech dene bol do Uma ko to bas🥱
Edited by Anjali33 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ


I hate to defend the Caveman eerm Godman! But, you know I like to irritate you😛 Hiya Anu 😆

Onto my point. Y today? Cuz God said so! He married them already today with Sindoor n Mala... so Uma is just finishing the job with mangalsutra n pheras within time alotted by Pandit. God decided date n time. All other rasams done. The man is just being prompt and following through on divine determination on the destined date and time 🤣

What had me stumped is how does she know she is single and able to mingle... I mean marry?😕 But, the answer to my idiocy is God can't be wrong!🤣 Darn this UmaShankar - we can't defeat his Godness!


Anjana 🤗 come join the bandwagon 😆 . Yeah only you can defend this caveman(thanks for the name, I am going to use it 😆). Is Uma finishing the job or is God finishing Uma ?? 😆😆 . He was such a despo, just saw the girl and within an hour got married to her too 😆


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