Two opinions

The newspaper arrives and how Kavya snatches the newspaper as if she gotta get first rank in the university exams. Kavya reads the ratings and they have to be bad. Of course because the critic analysed Kavya's behavior. It's a saying "Jo dikhta hai, woh bikta hai" Mansi saw the annoyance of Kavya and she judged her annoyance and gave the ratings. Kavya again blames Anupama for getting two stars. 

But koi Kavya jaisa attendant hota to mein bhi kharab review deti. One star for Anupama and other for Leela. Vanraj got angry on Kavya for spoiling the business. When Kavya is the attendant, mein to negative mein stars du. It's a method to attend people. I wanted that Mansi should have also seen that how Kavya attended other customers. 

The customers should feel special when they are served. That is what Anupama did. And Kavya left her eyes open, Badtameezi. Iske saath kar di. Woh to ek blogger hai. That blogger mentions about the cafe which proves to be a reasonable word. The damage was healed by Anupama. When some other person praised Anupama, pakhi toshu ke chehre dekhne layak the. But why only cafe's progress is shown? Till when Anupama will be shown in cafe? Customer speaking about the divorce was OTT. That was not needed at all. No blogger does that. 

I am not here to agree with Kavyaa, but CVs are showing Anupama to the centre of the cafe. Vanraj is nowhere to solve his problem. Kavya now uses a different trick to instigate Vanraj. She knows how much his ego is and used a proper card to instigate him. Vanraj is so much egoistic and he is bending every now and then. 

Anupama knows that Vanraj's ego is much more to him. He didn't ask for any help to Anupama this time. Though he expected her to help but he didn't ask for help. That was his ego. But Bhai ke karnaame aise hai ki, jitni baar jhuke woh kam hai. And he changed his colours in his cafe. He begged to Anupama to help, but now he is back to his akadu mode. 

Toshu is excited to stay in the penthouse. But Kinjal has an alternate way to stay in the penthouse. Toshu and his behavior. Because of Anupama he is with Kinjal. And now see he is saying meri world mein sirf tum honi chahiye

You know what jab bhi mai Vanraj ke baare mai sochti hu wo kabhi bhi mujhe disappoint nahi karta 😈🤢 kavya instigate nahi karti tab bhi ye yahi karta 🤬🤬ahesanfaramosh 😡😡 

I like vanraj akdu mode bcoz vanraj personality is like " Jo badal garajate hai woh Baraste nahi" Even during shivaratri time .

But I don't understand why Toshu and Pakhi make faces. Can anyone pls clarify

So Toshu is even ready to move out without Kinjal. Makes me believe he is just greedy to stay at a pent house.

Kavya tried hard to impress Mansi Jain because she saw benefit over there and ignored the blogger because for her she was a normal customer. Whereas Anupamaa's behaviour with that blogger was irrespective if she will be benefited from it or not, because for her she was just a customer. Kavya is clearly type of person who will be good to you jab tak uska kaam nikal raha hai tumse, otherwise her attitude on Eiffel tower, as she is president of India.

The blogger would have given bad review and could have mentioned how kavya answered her, but she didn't include that experience in her blog, because Anupamaa's conduct covered up Kavya's behaviour. Blogger also mentioned about Vanraj's singing. But still Kavya told Vanraj that tumhara zikar bhi nahi tha and Vanraj believed it. Now Kavya maharani wants Vanraj ka purana ghamand back. Madam ko pata nahi what she is inviting for herself. Uska purana ghamand aa gaya tab bhi Anu ko time nahi lagega Shah family se jaane main and she knows how to handle Vanraj now, its Kavya who has to stay with Vanraj the whole life and pamper his ego then.

Mansi Jain ke review main bhi Vanraj ka zikar nahi tha, still he was fine with ot, bcoz woh negative review tha. Jaise Mansi Jain review doya on the basis what she experienced through Kavya, waise hi Kiara, the blogger ne review diya what she experienced through Anupamaa. While giving negative review, Mansi jain ony mentioned about Kavya waise hi by giving positive review, kiara mainly mentioned about Anu.

Kavya tried to impress Mansi by talking about the recipes being her GM recipes and explaining them. Madam bhul gayi woh food critic hai, uska khaane ke baare main kavya se zyada knowledge hai, ek minute main pakad legi ki Kavya fenk rahi hai badi badi and knowledge kuch nahi hai usko khaane ke baare main. Ye hi hota hai jab dusro ka credit khud lene jao toh.

Ravanraj wants to pay rent to Anupamaa for the space, main toh bolti hun Anu ko Royalty bhi charge karni chahiye vanraj se for using her recipes for his cafe. And agar itna hi attitude hai toh apne menu se Anu ke recipes hi kyun nahi nikal deta. Daal de Kavya ki recipes, if she has any. Attitude tabhi dikhao jab woh attitude dikhane ki hesiyat ho.

Anupamaa clearly knew that it would hurt Vanraj's ego and exactly that happened. Hope now Anu remembers her own words that next time vanraj asks for help, she keeps in mind his attitude and his way of speaking.

Why do I feel ye, property tax wala notice is Rakhi dave ka kaam, because how can this notice never came untill now.

There's 👏 nothing 👏 wrong 👏 with 👏 Toshu 👏 wanting 👏 to 👏 live 👏 separately 👏

There's 👏 nothing 👏 wrong 👏 with 👏 Toshu 👏 wanting 👏 to 👏 live 👏 in 👏 a 👏 house 👏 bought 👏 by 👏 Rakhi 👏

His behaviour is hellish. But the sexist double standard against him is BS lol

TRP  of anupama decreasse slighltly  last Week it wasim 3.9 this Week it is 3.8 

Aur dikhao  anupama ki vanraj ki help karte hue aur anupama ka keto burger banate hue 

Aur yeh jaise  cvs bus khaali cafe pur focus kar rahe hain toh TRP to girni hi thi 

Abhi to bus 1 point  se TRP giri hai but agar cvs ne  anupama ki business pe kaayde se focus nahin kiya aur bus vanraj ki cafe ko hi high light karte  aur anupama apne kaam pe dhyan na dekar bus ex chester husband ki madad kar ti rahi rahe to TRP aur giregi

Anupama ki TRP badly drop when cvs try to unite anupama and vanraj during resort. Vieweres badly reject the idea. Itna cvs ko nahin samajh aaya that no one want to see anupama aur vanraj ki dosti  aur woh bhi us person se dosti jisne anupama ko cheating kiya yeh koi nahin dekhna chahtabut phir bhi cvs wahi mistake kar rahe hain

Anupama aur vanraj ki dosti se connect nahin kar paate rahe haiin 

Sab shows ki trp decrease hui hai.

Because of India Srilanka series going on and Khatron ke khiladi started, jiska timing is 9.30 to 11.30. So saturday ki trps affect hoti hai, hisse overall TRP pe farak padta hai. Bcoz TRPs are average of each day TRP including saturday.

Its not specific to Anupamaa, sabki TRPs kam hui hai.

The problem is not with Paritosh wanting a nuclear family. Infact, its sane and logical. I cannot comprehend why Anupamaa begins crying at the thought of him leaving when she was gonna move out herself, had HasLee not stopped her.

But the problem with him is his self-entitlement. He seems to forget the fact that the penthouse is on Kinjal's name and is being given by Kinjal's mother. He is giving Kinjal ultimatums as if he owns the penthouse and that him leaving is all that is needed to convince Kinjal.

He also foolishly thinks that PariJal are together because of him and him alone. We have seen countless number of times that Anupamaa was a stronger reason for Kinjal to want to be with the Shahs than Paritosh himself. She already was judging him for misbehaving with Anupamaa and had a take-it-or-leave-it attitude about their relationship before they got married.

So why would Kinjal want to leave Anupamaa who pampers her so much, for a nuclear family with a chauvinist husband who is a replica of his father and has tried to dominate her decisions so many times, including her career when she replaced Vanraj at his office.

She is independent now and should just establish boundaries with Rakhi and Paritosh that if Paritosh continues his antics, she will divorce him but continue to live with Anupamaa, like she is living with HasLee.

With no relationship to Kinjal, Paritosh will lose his job and the penthouse as Rakhi will have no reason to pamper him anymore. That should conk some sense into him.

In Sreemoyee, Aniruddh (Paritosh) supported June (Kayva) all the time and only sided with Sreemoyee when June was jailed. He also stayed married to Kinjal (Ankita) and literally begged her not to divorce him numerous times, until her mother sponsored his migration abroad, and then in a few months sent her divorce papers because he possibly got together with someone else there. Ankita moved on, but we didn't get to see him actually pay for his sins.

This could have been a creative decision as the actor may have quit the show, but it was really not satisfying for a viewer, to not see him pay.

Nahi siecially in star plus ki khuch show ki TRP constant hai

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The problem is not with Paritosh wanting a nuclear family. Infact, its sane and logical. I cannot comprehend why Anupamaa begins crying at the thought of him leaving when she was gonna move out herself, had HasLee not stopped her.

But the problem with him is his self-entitlement. He seems to forget the fact that the penthouse is on Kinjal's name and is being given by Kinjal's mother. He is giving Kinjal ultimatums as if he owns the penthouse and that him leaving is all that is needed to convince Kinjal.

He also foolishly thinks that PariJal are together because of him and him alone. We have seen countless number of times that Anupamaa was a stronger reason for Kinjal to want to be with the Shahs than Paritosh himself. She already was judging him for misbehaving with Anupamaa and had a take-it-or-leave-it attitude about their relationship before they got married.

So why would Kinjal want to leave Anupamaa who pampers her so much, for a nuclear family with a chauvinist husband who is a replica of his father and has tried to dominate her decisions so many times, including her career when she replaced Vanraj at his office.

She is independent now and should just establish boundaries with Rakhi and Paritosh that if Paritosh continues his antics, she will divorce him but continue to live with Anupamaa, like she is living with HasLee.

With no relationship to Kinjal, Paritosh will lose his job and the penthouse as Rakhi will have no reason to pamper him anymore. That should conk some sense into him.

In Sreemoyee, Aniruddh (Paritosh) supported June (Kayva) all the time and only sided with Sreemoyee when June was jailed. He also stayed married to Kinjal (Ankita) and literally begged her not to divorce him numerous times, until her mother sponsored his migration abroad, and then in a few months sent her divorce papers because he possibly got together with someone else there. Ankita moved on, but we didn't get to see him actually pay for his sins.

This could have been a creative decision as the actor may have quit the show, but it was really not satisfying for a viewer, to not see him pay.

Totally agree with what you said, it is not about gender bias, it is about that it is Rakhi who is at other end.

@blue - Anu getting upset is very normal reaction. Atleast she is not trying to impose her decision on Kinjal and toshu and she have accepted ot and also made the family member understand that it is fine to stay seperate.

Toshu's decision is not wrong. But the way he put accross his decision is wrong. These are my views about his decision-

1) If he was actually not happy with the situation in the house and he really wanted to live seperately, why didn't he even for once discuss it with Kinjal and only got into action after Rakhi offered the pent house to live? If he really was not happy he should have decided to shift irrespective of penthouse being offered.

2) No one from the Shah family has tried to influence Kinjal or Toshu's decision. They have left the decision on them. It's because of Kinjal that they are not able to move to pent house then on what basis he is giving attitude to his family members?

3) Today he told Kinjal, that if in 2 days she doesn't decide to move to penthouse, he will alone move there, so is it just his greed to live in penthouse? 

4) According to me taking pent house from In laws is not wrong. But suppose after 2 days also, kinjal is adamant that she doesn't want to move out so when Toshu will tell Rakhi that he is alone moving to penthouse, will Rakhi actually allow him? According to me no, because, he is getting pent house because he is Kinjal's husband not because he deserves it. I can confidently say that in case there are some issues between toshu and rakhi in office in future, she won't take a minute to tell him ki usko job bhi usne di and rehne ko ghar bhi usne diya warna woh sab kuch deserve nahi karta. Taking flat from such MIL is an issue, who can at any moment degrade you. If it was someone else other than Rakhi, who is more understanding and less control freak, than it is a wise decision to take the pent house and not spend on rent.

5) Toshu is not trying to understand Kinjal's reason why she doesn't wanna move out, usne apna reason sabko bata diya. But shouldn't he try to understand why Kinjal doesn't want to move out? Probably Kinjal has always stayed alone may be bcoz rakhi and pramod were always busy with work, her grandparents didn't stay with them, she doesn't have any sibling. This is the first time she is experiencing having family, though a dysfunctional, but everyone does give her all the love, respect, freedom and value her opinions there.

6) Atleast Kinjal's decision is her own, no one has tried to influence it from the Shah's, neither tried to brainwash her. But that's not the case with Toshu, he is totally influenced by Rakhi and took and on top of it the greed to stay in a pent house.

7) The reason for them not moving out yet is nothing to do with sanskaar or anything, its just because kinjal and toshu are not able to come to conclusion. And everyone in family have accepted that its better to stay away and be connected rather than stay together and be unhappy. So no one from Shah's are also giving them any sanskaar ka gyaan. The issue is Toshu's approach rather than her decision. 

8) He is also trying to control Kinjal the way Vanraj did. Rakhi should have an issue with that more rather than trying to destroy the Shah's, because none of them are stopping kinjal to move out. Also even if Rakhi destroys Shah's does she really think Kinjal will leave them in such situation and go stay happily seperately. I don't think so. Atleast in Toshu and Kinjal's seperation case, Shah's are behaving sensibly and maturely. Its Rakhi who behaving like a control freak and maniac by trying to destroy Shah's which I don't know how will it help Kinjal to change her decision, infact it has higher chances of her being more firm on staying back, knowing kinjal can never become selfish like Toshu.