Originally posted by: Tinaa11
I keep reading how mych problematic the movie is even from those who hadnt watched it yet. I have watched the movie and I couldn't find anything so terrible that these people still keep talking about. I though Kabir to be a monster but he turned out to be a mad lover. I feel controversy surrounding the movie is just so unnecessary.
I think what really triggered people is the intense love Preeti and Kabir had for each other that they are not willing to break their relationship over a few slaps. These people m telling ya ..more than anything else it's the fact that they have never been loved so madly by someone like Kabir is what's driving them nuts. I mean why would anyone expect Preeti to put ego above love and walk away from the love of her life over a mild slap? Why? Coz these losers can't have what Preeti has and they are simply jealous. Trashing Kabir and preeti's love feels soothing to their heartburn.
I am not someone who takes it lying down but i understand the emotions Preeti and Kabir has or each other. I connect with preeti on personal level which is why it's hurtful to see them being ridiculed continuously. People fight and make up and that's how normal humans behave with each other. Sab Apne Ghar Mei pit- te Hai ...parents se ya Phir siblings se Kabhi kabhi friends se bhi. It's harsh if everyone is expected to break off from each other over small quarrels. It's one thing to pretend to be a wok feminist on social media and another to deal with relations in real life. People need to forgive and forget each other's mistakes and make most out of what life has to offer instead of sulking over petty issues for the rest of their lives.
small quarrels? kabir gave preeti an ultimatum, that if she doesn't go to his house in 6 hours he will end things with her, he injected himself with morphine and lost consciousness for 2 days, in that time preeti had no other option but to get married, she had no one to turn to for help coz kabir was not there for her
a true love wud have stuck by preeti's side, he wud have told preeti that its all going to be ok and he will stand by her and they will eventually convince her parents, but he didn't do that, he let his ego and anger take over, he didn't care about preeti's feelings in that moment, his ego was bruised and thats all he cared about, he insulted her by saying she is only known as kabir's girl and nothing else and then he slaps her, wat was her mistake? it was her parents that refused the relationship, she didn't do anything wrong but still kabir put out all of his anger on her
preeti had to marry someone else, she was pregnant and was alone for months without kabir, that isn't a small quarrel, that is a big problem in their relationship
i definitely do not want a love like that, where the guy can't control his anger and gets triggered so easily, kabir was the one that said he wud end things with preeti if she doesn't make a decision in 6 hours but then when he finds out she is getting married he screams at her to be with him and walk out of her wedding, he didn't even care that he missed his brothers wedding when he was unconscious. Kabir only cares about his own feelings and ego, and that is selfish, it doesnt work in a real relationship
Edited by zara321 - 4 years ago
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