Good morning girls !!!😃
I see that all of you are going strong. My two cents worth:
Kya farak padtha hain agar it was infatuation/true love/jazbaath/kheer/baba 😡or whatever else! The fact of the matter is, the end result was the same. He CHEATED MAULI, HE HAD PHYSICAL INTIMACY WHILE MARRIED, HE GRIEVED THE IMPENDING BIRTH OF HIS CHILD, HE WILLED FOR IT TO BE A SHAM, HE SHATTERED MAULI, HE ABANDONED MAULI, HIS CHILD AND HIS PARENT AND A DISABLED ELDERLY GRANDMOTHER😡💔😭 That is the ground reality. Now, all he could do is respectfully apologize for all the things above, he doesn't need to justify his sacha pyar or wajah for it or if he needs to clarify it was all an infatuation. After that, it is all upto Mauli. He didn't need to do any charity work in Mauli or Mishti's life either. If Mauli in a drunk state told him she is having difficult time moving on, does that automatically mean that she needs to be thrust into Ishaan's life? Kunal has no right to do this to her , however lame his excuse was ( father fulfilling abandoned daughter's wish ).
OK, let us leave aside Mauli- he is infatuated/ sacha loved / obsessed / kheerified/ bathed in jazbaath, so he abandoned Mauli. It seemed like when he returned back from wherever he was, he didn't expect Mauli to be living with his mother and GM. So, why did he abandon two dependent women, without even looking back for 6 years. Covert/blank calls don't factor in as care and concern. Do they? They don't pay their bills. It is not shown as if Malhotra family had unlimited funds to live off of. So for 6 years, he didn't even try to make sure they are OK, how they are living etc. If his new fragile and delicate wife didn't die, would he have returned to take care of them? Him and his fragile wife were bothered by the society, so much so, that she needed to be protected, coddled and so he eloped to somewhere far away? Would that same society have taken care of his mother and GM? HE NEVER CARED FOR THEM EITHER AND HE NEVER APOLOGIZED for them for leaving them. He was welcomed with open arms by them, because they are a parent and grand parent and moreover they didn't have to face any hardships for 6 years in their life style or upkeep because Mauli was there to look after them. He reunited with them as if he was the son who went away abroad on legitimate business and returned after 6 years. THAT IS IT😡😡 Where is the apology for abandoning them and palming them off on his ex-wife?😡
He said that " he was sahi in his place". Whatever 😲. But he is still guilty for the way he treated Mauli and his unborn child. Let us just assume, he didn't know about his unborn child, doesn't a sensible and responsible father still feel guilty of letting child grow fatherless? It is not as easy as saying " you didn't tell me". HE DIDN'T APOLOGIZE TO MISHTI and she could care less as she doesn't even feel any warmth or affection of a father from Kunal. She gets her fatherly love, attention, care and concern from her real father, Ishaan. But still, isn't it his responsibility to apologize to his daughter? Where did he redeem himself?
Doesn't matter whether he cared for Mauli, loved/ sacha pyared / jazbaathed/ infatuated with the other woman, but he still owes an apology to Mauli for not believing there was a pregnancy, for wishing that pregnancy didn't exist, for pushing Mauli to lie/misspeak in anger, for all the humiliation. HE DIDN'T APOLOGIZE TO MAULI,😡 he put the blame squarely on her that IF she didn't lie, then they would have been together. What a pathetic, coward ? Never accepting what he did, and blaming her for his debacles. He ranted that Mauli didn't give him time to come out of his ' infatuation/sacha pyar". But did he give himself time? He went from throwing divorce papers in her face to shaadi mandap and much awaited bed scene yet again😡🤢👎🏼. Where is the redemption?
He is absolutely right, he is undeserving of Mauli. Even if he has an inkling of getting back with her , I prefer that he comes clean with all his indiscretions, how him and mistress flirted, played behind Mauli's back during the numerous celebrations they had, how they slept together during her brother's wedding, how they hid him in her bathroom when Mauli went to seek comfort from that very same friend/mistress about the state of her marriage. Because, these are the truths that matter for Mauli to make a decision. Not some " truth" about Cupid Kunal who floated some souvenirs on behalf of Ishaan🤔. If after knowing all of this, Mauli sitll has finer feelings for him, tab dekhenge! 🤢
Let us just say, yes, he was infatuated with the fragile, divine wife and just couldn't come back because of a pregnancy. But wasn't it his plan to bring up Mishti with Mauli and him separately in the first place? So why did he not apply the same with fragile wife? Because, she is sooo fragile, that she won't be able to handle Pari by herself? What if the wife is not dead, then he would simply go on cherishing the fragility despite " not being in love"? Now because, the wife is dead, he ventured into the real world?
I don't think we have any logical answers to any of Kunal's indiscretions, other than saying that he is a weak, spineless, irresponsible, COWARD, who can't and won't admit his wrong doing and apologize from his heart. The least he could do is apologize to not just Mauli but to Mishti, dida and Radhika for what he put them through. He doesn't need to give them reasons or explain himself why he did what he did. NOBODY CARES ANYMORE. 😡😡 They need a closure by his acknowledgment of wrong doing. That is it.
Not sure if any of which I said makes sense. But I am carrying a lot of baggage on behalf of Mauli🤢Sorry my friend, Mumoos, looks like we all hijacked your space again
Edited by mili9 - 5 years ago
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