Many of these were so difficult to read and I empathize with all of you as I too have my share of stories as do most women. besides the usual there are some that stick out:
1. My music teacher when I was 7 kept trying to touch me across the chest, well well the b**tard ( excuse my language...not) ended up with cancer while he was teaching me and died shortly after so I guess I never said anything but if he didn't I think I would have told someone eventually
2. My bus driver in school at times when he used to pass by in the bus counting the kids tried to touch me across the chest and later my friends who were on the same bus, confirmed the same. His sons were the conductors and were quite okay looking and one of my friends fell for his eldest son despite my many warnings.
Well in the end she lost her virginity to him after he told her he was in love with her and he treated her like trash right after and told her he only spoke to her for sex so to f*** off from the house. Never forgot how heartbroken she was! Within a year of that he died in a car crash and his dad was BROKEN, call it karmic retribution, I dunno.
3. University - went out clubbing with a roomate and she liked a guy. This guy had his best friend with him ( let's call him Sam) who was pretty cute. We leave the club, they say they will drop us home, so they joined our taxi. Guess what? They were our neighbours (UGH) and my friend invited them in. Well Sam kept coming on to me I had to physically push him away and he was strong AF. He tried to intimidate me many times in the end I got furious and told him its time to go and he kept protesting.
My roommate went on to date the guy who she met in the club, I told her Sam is a crazy assaulter which she told this guy. Sam got so furious he came to my house one night drunk started banging on the front door and yelling to let him in so he can 'apologize' , I wasn't home but my other roommates told me.
The funniest or saddest part is he studied criminology
4. University again - I was in lab 2 days a week and in my group was a guy named Ash. We regularly went for lunch as a group to discuss assignments etc. Well this guy told me he liked me, I politely declined and I was very nice about it. He started imagining an alternate reality where I liked him and kept insisting I did. TBH we barely spoke, so it came out of nowhere.
Well he turns up drunk and started banging on my dorm door as he forced a mutual friend to bring him along. That mutual friend had no idea this guy was crazy. Weeks later he had a breakdown in lab class and had to be institutionalized. I did feel bad then that maybe it was mental health issues.
He apologized to me after that and I forgave him. Sorry that was the biggest mistake as he went down the same path again and this time told me how he had written songs about him killing me. I once went to a restaurant to pick up food and he was just standing next to me and tried to follow me home. Imagine I have left the country for 3 years now and to THIS day he messages me from different accounts on FB from time to time 🤢
Anupamaa
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