Have you faced any harrasment?#MeToo - Page 11

being drunk is supposed to be their own problem and doesn't get anyone the free pass to do whatever. they should drink only until they can handle or have a sense of humanity that even if drunk they don't harass anyone.

Yes, I was 12 years old travelling back from school in bus. A man got in from another stop, he had bunch of newspapers in his hands he sat beside me opened one of the papers (to cover his actions of what he was about to do) and put his hand under my school uniform. I was stunned. I blocked his hand to go up any further. I had no idea what he was doing at that time but it just felt dirty and wrong. He tried to fight me in the backseat, pinched my thigh I still didn't budge. I don't know why didn't I scream or made a noise. Two stops later he wrapped his paper that he was using to hide and got down. I didn't speak about it with my parents for 1 week. But it was eating me up. After alot of probing from my mother on why I was so quiet I narrated her the entire incident.

I remember first incident happened with me when I was in class 3 , There was this guy in school. He was in class 10 or 12 , don't remember much.but he was known to my brother who studied in same school.He was sitting once on stairs ..I was sitting one step above him with my friends.. then I felt his hand feeling my legs.. I felt uncomfortable and moved a little thinking that it might be by mistake but his hand followed my legs. I was so young back then but still I complained to my brother and mom at home...my brother just stayed away from the guy as he was younger too.. then there have been instances where I have been touched inappropriately in public places.. latest incident happened with me at place of worship.. I was in a queue in Golden Temple. I don't know how people don't even behave properly in such places but i felt a guy taking advantage of a mob and touching me or literally falling over me..His private parts were touching my a** , at first I thought may be it's just due to large mob..I tried moving away..but this guy kept his hold on me...my friend with me tried to put her over me to get out of the situation.. though she went thru it herself in a bit to save me ..

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Originally posted by: TadaptiMachli

inn sub frustrated kameeno ki Lulliyaan kaat deni chahiyen 😡

Originally posted by: Thug-Leader

I have two incidents, one is not me too rather I think I was wrong and another was a gay driver groping me.

My incident isn't #metoo, rather I think I am the guilty party of not understanding a woman, but that day I learned not to get involved with drunk lady.

We were returning from a picnic and we were sitting in a car, it was quite dark road, my friend(female friend) was trying to set me with her friend, so we were all drunk and my friend told me to take care of the girl as she was too drunk, hesitatingly I did sit near the girl, and since she was having spitting heavily, I gave her my hanky, soon she was sitting to closely with me, and was taking my hands in her hand, I ended up kissing her in the cheek and she also started rubbing my hand, but as soon as we reached the town, when lights were shown, she just pushed me saying she has a boyfriend, I said okay. Than I tried to sit a bit away from her, but than again she let my hands wrap her around the shoulders, and than we were discussing things until I said Dilwale was a crap movie, and she put my arm away saying don't say anything against Shah Rukh. And started pulling my hair and we were all joking and all. It was all fine, I went home.

After 6-7 months I came to know that the girl when she reached my female friends home, my friends' mom started teasing her about me, and than she told them I took her advantage.

I never got to clarify with the girl, as went to Kolkata.

While I know I didn't force her, and once she stopped complimenting me and said ''She has a boyfriend'', I stopped but still what happened earlier has made feel guilty. We were under the influence of alcohol, so may be it was not her consent but the consent of alcohol.

While my best friend, who is the elder daughter of the aunt and elder sister of my friend who was trying to set me with the girl, had said me this girl had also done similar thing in Kolkata when she was drunk and kissed with the guy and later on accused him of forcing her, still I am not sure whether my friend said it a genuine encounter or just to relieve me. The girl has now married her boyfriend, so I am feeling even more anxious on why she said that to them.

Another was when I was in taxi, in Shillong taxi drivers make us double sit in the front sit, so I was near the driver around the gear stick. That guy was trying to feel my penis over the pants while trying to pretend to change gears, at first I thought it was a mistake, but later he carried on, and I just caught his hand and told him this is not gear. When I reached my stop, I just stormed away, without paying him. I was irresponsible though as I didn't report it, although I was just 17 at that time.

Originally posted by: whit3dove

If women try to seduce men. Is she a harraser?

I don't know seriously. I can only talk about myself, and I don't mind being seduced. Yeah if the girl isn't attractive enough, I may back out and say ''sorry but I am not interested''. But will I feel harassed? I think no. And there is a reason for that. Me unlike women in general will not be looked down upon. IMO if sexual inter course didn't had social barriers and stigma related to it, all these harassments and molestation cases rate will fall down.

There was one tuition teacher. We were 4-5 girls and 3-4 boys. The teacher used to put hands in my back, like feeling me. It was just so awkward. He used to do this to other people too, girls and boys both. No one was complaining. So I thought it was my mistake. He was probably being sweet and caring. But I always got scared whenever he came near. So, I used to seat in corner where he couldn't reach while teaching.

My friend who is a guy wanted me to share his story here..