Have you faced any harrasment?#MeToo

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Have you faced any harrasment?#MeToo

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DirtyMartini

@Grumpydwarf24

Sparkler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: Mrs.troll

Grumpydwarf disagrees.
She says it has to be physical touch only in order for anyone to claim sexual harrassment.
Sexual advances over PM dont count as SH and this is coming g from a staunch feminist as her.

I dont know who to believe now.

Umm you showed me emoticons... You never mentioned sexually explicit messages !

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@Terenaina

Trailblazer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#82

I have when I was 12 years old in school. I wish that didn't happen to me when I was a kid and it happened to me when I was an adult now because I would've slapped him and wish I could've called my brother to beat him up because my brother is a police officer. I regret not reacting because all I did was tell my female cousin and she just threaten him. Wish I can go back and tell my brother about it.

I think it's worst when it happens to normal girls because we didn't sign up to be looked at. Industry girls signed up to be glam and item girls, to romance these guys. But harassment is harassment at the end of the day. It needs to be filed.

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adventurousman

@adventurousman

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#83

No one cares about men being molested. I shared my story on this thread but none responded to it. Sisters were busy giving each other hugs and sympathazing with each other. I know many guys who have been raped and molested by their parents, yes moms too but no one will respond to that as it doesn't fit the script Cry LOL lage raho

What we've now is feminazis and on the other we've men who hate women "revenge of the nerds with this attitude nothing will change.

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astha36

@astha36

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Posted: 7 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: adventurousman
No one cares about men being molested. I shared my story on this thread but none responded to it. Sisters were busy giving each other hugs and sympathazing with each other. I know many guys who have been raped and molested by their parents, yes moms too but no one will respond to that as it doesn't fit the script Cry LOL lage raho

What we've now is feminazis and on the other we've men who hate women "revenge of the nerds with this attitude nothing will change.

Sorry about not responding to your post. I'm sorry for men, women and everyone who gets harassed. Probably why everyone here is just talking about women is because that is what we relate to, I suppose. Not to say that other genders can't be harassed. I'm sorry about what happened to you. Thanks for sharing it here, it means a lot. Hopefully, more men can speak up about their #MeToo stories and not feel left out or feel unjustly vilified.

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707793

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Posted: 7 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: snatch
yes. this bit@##$ literally ruined my life. i was happy with my girl friend. we were serious. i was faithful to her. this another girl from our office name starts with A, she accused me of hitting on her. at midnight around 12 she send me a sext message. i ignored that and later what i came to know is that she has accused me of trying to hit on her regularly. me and my girl friend broke off later mainly due to this useless girl. i hate that bi@@# and i wish all the worst to her. honestly my blood gets boiled whenever i think of her. now she is settled in hyderabad. my girl friend also got married. i am also married.
i cant forget those days. it was absolute harassment, the pain i went through ..

this is very common in the workplace 😡 ladka ladki ke liye rumors spread karega ladki ladke ke liye

I have faced the fake allegation at work ... but she forgets we have CCTV camera surveillance at the office ..uske baad no talk with girl agar wahan CCTV camera surveillance nahi hai to ...

Ek baar ek kamine ko lift di aur wo sach main kamina nikla 🤢 next stop pe utaar diya chaman ko ..uski wajah se kaafi sare needy logo ko bhi lift nahi di phir kabhi

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spain

@spain

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Posted: 7 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: adventurousman
No one cares about men being molested. I shared my story on this thread but none responded to it. Sisters were busy giving each other hugs and sympathazing with each other. I know many guys who have been raped and molested by their parents, yes moms too but no one will respond to that as it doesn't fit the script Cry LOL lage raho

What we've now is feminazis and on the other we've men who hate women "revenge of the nerds with this attitude nothing will change.

I care about what happened to you.

I am so so sorry that you had to endure all that in your mind till now.

I am a woman and a mother and I find such trauma is simply unforgivable and unforgettable.

The fact that some women can misuse their privilege and trust in society is absolutely disgusting...

that I'm left speechless and nauseated.

There are still good women and men around...

but then, it's so hard to tell them apart from the creepy ones these days.

My full support to the men who have faced such trauma too.

I hope you find the strength to keep positive, have faith and move forward.

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Posted: 7 years ago

#87

I have. It scarred me. When I started living on my own I started going to pride walks while I was trying to understand my sexuality. But I stopped after this one incident where a creepy uncle who is well known in pride circle to fight for lbtq rights tried to assault and molest me after the walk ended and we were isolated. He knew I couldn't do anything. My parents don't know I am gay and this was before 377 verdict so if I had gone to police that day they would've harassed me more. To this day I don't go to walks anymore. Many famous rights activists are predators who sexually exploit men who are sorta young, naive with no support system

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subha

@subha_rath2004

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#88

I am posting here after many years because I felt the need to. Something happened many many years ago when I was 9 years old. I had stomach pain. My mother took me to this paediatrician (doctor)...he initially asked me where it is paining. I told lower abdomen. i was wearing top n skirt n my mother was standing next to me. He started pressing my stomach. slowly he went down. he lifted my skirt and pressed stomach. I was all ok till then.

After than he put his fingers inside my lower undergarment. I didnt know what was going on because i didnt have any idea n my mother was next to me. ...she was also not aware that something can happen infront of her. that doctor kept asking me how r u feeling now...he was trying to do something thr...I felt so disgusted then. it happened may be for one minute.

I came back n cried for many days. I couldnt share it anybody then. Later on during my btech I shared it with my friends. My mother didnt have any idea about that. Few days back I told her about this n she felt so sad.

This incident affected me that time ...after that for many years it was Ok...i was OK with it...I had moved on...but during my maternity leave for 6 months, it recurred...I am like using all slangs for that B*****, M****, A*******...my body my mind gets so agitated when i think of that person. I went into depression for this...I searched him on internet. I remembered his name. he is still a paediatrician and two of my friends are going to that doctor for their girl kids ..I warned them saying dont go as i have heard bad stories about him. But she is not believing as he is close to them. How to explain to them that he is such a ...

Edited by subha_rath2004 - 7 years ago

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Anu

@YeahMe

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

#89

Yes,every women at some point in thier life do face harassment.

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Twenty1st

@Twenty1st

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

#90

I have read so many #MeToo moments on this thread, and I feel absolutely horrified and sickened by your recounts. I am so so so sorry that you had to go through that. This isn't right and something needs to be done. But what caught my attention was that most of it happened when you were kids, an age of innocence.

Therefore there needs to a movement in children education too, children should know what is right and what is wrong. Maybe embedded into the education system. I won't say UK is safe, no place is safe from such low-life's like that. But awareness education needs to be facilitated. Up here we had special lessons on: grooming (online grooming and child grooming), sexual abuse, child abuse, physical harm, mental disorders, radicalisation, bullying, FGM; you name it we have had it all. This I feel allows the child to judge the appropriateness of ones behaviour. Once the child realises what is happening is wrong, further actions can be taken i.e. telling a parent, a teacher etc.

Disgusting vile creatures should not be able to rob a child off her/his childhood and education is the best way to go forward. This is what I felt, and I hope and pray the Indian Government really nationalises such a movement; one that protects, guides and safeguards its children, woman and men.

Fortunately I haven't faced any such behaviour, however there was a old man in our neighbourhood (Dada age) but since everyone knew of his pervertness mothers hid their kids. I remember my eldest sister jumping out of the window (standing outside in the dark over a snail) and we all hiding under the table until Dad politely told him to leave.