Nobody intends to blame Avni for Saesha's deed today...but this doesn't change the fact that Avni has been extremely sweet with her.
We can't guarantee that Saesha wouldn't be like this had Avni been strict with her, she might still have been the same nakchadhi girl. But this doesn't change the fact that Avni's extra love for her has spoilt her to an extent at least.
Yes, kids are influenced by the society n their friends circle n other happenings in their lives. But that's where parents come into picture that they first try to lovingly explain things to the kids, then scold them n try to be strict with their actions. That's how a child is raised. Mishti as a kid was never a girl like her biological parents...she was not even close to that. What would have changed her to this extent? Must be her social circles. Y she was not stopped from being in such circle? Because Avni wanted to give her all the happiness in life that she couldn't get. In the process to bring her out of her shell, she gave her all the love as a kid n all the freedom to explore herself, but she didn't realise that there has to be a check on this freedom. Had Avni not gotten emotional unnecessarily when Saesha accused her of anything n rather would have scolded her n asked her to know some manners, she wouldn't be a brat like this. Avni has her past baggage n she feels guilty that her fears are being a hurdle in Saesha's otherwise happy life, that's very much justified. But in spite of having that guilt, she should have known to be strict with what's right n what's wrong.
Avni has raised all other kids too...but she has pampered Saesha specially. The other kids were loved, but not pampered like her. So they respect Avni n hence are in their limits.
Avni is not at all to be blamed for Saesha making out with a man at the age of 18...but she is surely to be blamed for letting her be her own way always n not being strict at all. In spite of her being strict, if Saesha would have been like this, then it would have been zero fault of Avni.
I have dearly followed yhm too...n the Ishimaa who is always praised for being the ideal mother n is considered as epitome of motherhood by all the viewers, I have always found the same fault in her as well...that over-sweetness with the kids is not good, kids are bound to do their manmaani in that case. U needn't be strict n shouting on the kids forever but if u don't even at least make them realise their mistakes, no one can stop the kid from causing this barbaadi to themselves.
My thoughts only, sorry if this offends anyone
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