Why can't we be happy with Sona's happiness?

Silence gives us a new way of looking at everything. We need this silence to touch souls. The important things is not what we say but what God says to us and what He says through us." - Mother Teresa

Why I have taken this beautiful quote is because, that is what Sona is experiencing now. Silence after a storm. All these 7 years, she had a storm blowing in her inner beings, which she was able to hide to herself with the thought that it was Dev who left her and abandoned her...She could very well hide this storm which consisted of her disappointment of not being able to fulfill her promises to Dev, her guilt of keeping Soha away from Dev, her concern on how Dev would be living without her etc etc, under this facade, till the moment when Elena told her that Dev used to be away from home, from his mother for several days and would not come back even on Golu's insistence. That moment Sona's misunderstandings, facade everything came tumbling down. Till that moment she wanted to help Dev & Ishwari in Khatri's matter, just like she would help any other person whom she new. If Dev would not have questioned her that day and if Elena hadn't conveyed the summary of Dev's 7years, Sona would just have helped the Dixits in the Khatri matter and next day would have minded her own business. But, the moment she came to know that how she, her absence and the punishment she gave him by taking away her love from Dev has made the once soft-spoken, loving & caring person into a ruthless person who didn't even care for his mother, it was more than what she could bear. (Afterall, she also is a mother and could feel how exactly Ishwari's life would have been without Dev all these 7years). That moment Sona understood how she herself have abused her love which once she had taken pride in (I didn't mean Dev. I meant that feeling of love. If you rewind back to Neha's divorce episode, on their first coffee date after marriage we can see Sona arguing with Dev that Neha & Ranveer loved each other and that was more than enough to stick on). That's why at the farmhouse she says to Dev, ''Maine tume pyar kiya, chaahe kuch bhi ho jaaye tume nahin chodne ka vaada kiya; firbhi tume chodke gaya''. It was not because she became weak seeing Dev's state that she changed. Rather the reality that her love could turn the man whom she once loved into a ruthless person is something which she couldn't accept. So, Sona, being the person who always believed in doing the right things, is now on the path of setting things right. And as she is walking through that path, she herself is getting her happiness back; she is glowing because she is happy that she is becoming a reason for the happiness of the person she loved/loves. She is enjoying the peace that is filling her mind, as she is getting the long lost satisfaction of being by his side when he needed her support. And in this phase instead of being with her in her happiness, we are cribbing for what has happened 7years back. Seriously...are our hearts so shrinked that we are not being able to be happy with Sona? Just think about it.

I am with you Sona, because you also deserve to be happy dear. All these 7years you have lived for your loved ones. Now also you have chosen the happiness of your dear ones instead of seeking revenge on those who tarnished your's & your family's self-respect. It's your choice and by doing so, you are not being a doormat; you are just setting your position high. And this time your efforts are not going to be in vain. This time I am sure Dev will make it sure that you will not suffer because of him or his family.

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Thank you dear for those warm compliments...😊.Yes, my take is that a person with a well-developed brain has the capacity & wisdom to think what is good for themselves. To add to it, the advice they get from their elders and the wisdom they gain from their past experiences should help them. And based on this, if they take a decision to move the way they want, then who are we to question it. Moreover, before giving them the time to see the result of their decision, we start jumping with our guns. This is not fair. And seeing Sona being called a doormat repeatedly, I couldn't control myself. Hence, wrote that bit on doormat...😉. Happy to hear that u liked it.

Shruti...thanks for commenting here. Btw, I didn't say Dev will go against Ishwari and support Sona...Instead, Sona will not let such a situation happen again where Dev will have to choose between her & Ishwari and by saying that he will not let Sona suffer, i meant he may free Sona from his love and allow her to live her life. (Remember the pen promo). What happens after that we have to wait & see.

Wont say I'm not happy for Sona's happiness. I'm happy for her if she is happy this way.

Only thing is I dont agree to her approach on Ishwari. My personal opinion of Ishwari is not anything nearby "good". I'm only displeased with what Sonakshi's character did-- displaying care to the extent of devotion for Ishwari. I would have preferred her taking a milder "care" route.

This is what my issue is...😆..Im happy for their reunion n trust me Devakshi will be the end of me... but but so much happiness n loveydovey as if nothing has happened between them is hard to digest...i would have preferred if this was taken step by step at a time especially when their was a bitter separation...