Why can't we be happy with Sona's happiness? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

True that. Sona being the doormat that she is, can dance around happily being a doormat finding happiness in being manhandled and lied and bullied, I could care less anymore 😆 All I have to do is choosing a better story and character to follow (may be like Devasena from Bahubali 2) who has her dignity and pride in place irrespective of the 'lau' crap 😆 There are lots of shows (in fact some youth shows as well) which focus on the importance of self-respect and honour than this show where the woman is expected to go extra length to 'not' create a scenario where the poor poor guy has to choose between mommy and her and thus being the saviour of the entire family. Utter regressive for my taste :D . So have already detached myself from this 😆 Only reading updates and that too only cuz of Bose family 😉

Originally posted by: grace4317

As Ashwathy has pointed out in one of her post, Kuch Rang Pyar ke aise bhi hai., chaahe vo rang curiosity ka ho ya indifference ka ho..how much ever you want to detach yourself from KRPKAB, you are not being able to do it. That's why for whatever reason, you are still reading the written updates...And that's the beauty of KRPKAB...😊

Originally posted by: JShukla

Grace- I really appreciate your sweet posts and your focus on creating a lively atmosphere in the forum.
Its true that I started watching for a love story and really liked the initial gentle manly Dev and his winsome ways. Even when he was being mean to Sona by taking away her job etc, there was certain amount of class in him.
Now I do not watch it and only read Tia's updates just for her running commentary (her 'ME' comments)
If I ever watch it, I see it like one would see crime patrol 😉 😆 Just what kind of toxic love a woman must avoid. Just how many times should she fall before she stops traversing the same path and what happens to those who continue to make same mistakes again and again.
I am happy for Sona. the first time I felt sorry for her. But now I am looking forward to her torture at the hands of Dev and his mommy. It'll help me validate my theorem 😃

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

@Grace - I beg to differ that Sona shouldnt have trusted Vicky over Dev for the ouster notice -

1. Sona had seen Dev manipulating Rithwik and her (in the beginning) for his mother's sake. She has seen Dev snatching Ranveer's job and bringing a family on the street when things didnt go his way. She had disbelief at Ranveer's bhabhi's words back then, but when she was proven wrong time and again, how to hold back the trust everytime ? Sonakshi is a not a person who would put a paper signature more than a human behaviour. But it was Dev's series of past actions which compelled her to believe in Vicky's words. Track record you see.

I agree that Dev's past actions had compelled Sona to believe Vicky. But, my point was that, Sona had seen past actions of Vicky also and infact, noone in the Dixit/Bose family, didn't know Vicky more better than Sona. And when she had to weigh between Dev & Vicky, how did Dev's scales weigh more, especially when there were good deeds also in Dev's credit?


2. Even till today Dev himself has no idea that he hadn't done it. He himself is unsure and very much thinks and he can go to any length when things come to his mother. So if Dev himself believes that he did it, why not Sona ?

That's why Dev on during his confession said, You make me a better person. Means he believed that Sona had that power to strip him off all his buri aadatein. And that's why he was angry that she left him.

And if we think that Dev knows it's Vicky and still Dev made him the CEO and offered him the whole company if he can bring Sona down, then must say Dev's priorities are quite clear. And I wont trust a guy like that.

Not sure of whether Dev knows it is Vicky who did all the kaand. But evenif he would have known about it, he would have brushed it off, maybe because it was at that time they came to know of Elena's pregnancy...And then later Golu came into his life...So it maybe that, for these 2 persons, Dev would have forgiven Vicky for what he did. And to top it, since Dev believed that he has lost Sona forever as she didn't believe him, then for whom he has to bring the truth out.

And I am not a person who believes in what I see on the surface. I go deep into it, recollect all his past interactions with me and try to see why a person behaves the way he is. And that makes me choose a Dev-like guy over Vicky...😊

Originally posted by: IFfreak

Grace- I really liked your thread and your awesome replies and your calmness is shining through.

if you ask me, I'd choose neither. Vicky or Dev.

Dev may not know what all Vicky did during that night. But he did not try to find out anything either.

No matter how educated a woman and her family is. Being on streets with 3 senior citizens as a primary care provider can be difficult. Even on that day upon coming to know that Dev himself(well it was Vicky who did it but Dev didn't know)has ousted a family to streets, Dev did not rectify or look for Sonakshi. Instead he chose to drink at farmhouse. Why? If I were Sona, I'd be right in assuming he doesn't care. And from what I understood, Bose family well being was not much of his concern. Even after slapping his father in law, he said lame sorries immediately and then was focussed on getting Sonakshi back in life. So if Sona had not left with her father, Dev will be least bothered about slapping him.

Even in season 2 he has caused a lot of grief to Sonakshi through his bitter words, actions, behaviour - in public and in private.

Well, we all liked Dev at some point and now dislike him immensely. I am ready to accept him with only extreme transformation. and the makers should be bold enough to show that Dev's behaviour is not acceptable and such people's spouses are right when they leave them after a point.