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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful analysis as usual, I love how you always give a new perspective to a situation. Maya is mentally unstable but she is highly functional(and intelligent.) She said so many things that i have related to, they are like important life lessons😃
I'm glad arjun and vandana made up, but I wish it was a gradual process because it seemed too rushed. Really good acting by both actors but just too sickly sweet and all of a sudden.

Maya is horribly unfair to her mother, but she loves her too. the problem is that she has an obsessive need to cage people in due to the fear of losing them. although, it seems like she struggles to channel her love in the right way as well.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Glorious acting from JW as usual, especially in the parts after Arjun leaves and the scene in the morning when she is seen by Arjun on the terrace rocking back and forth- the latter one another indication of her damaged psyche.

Good on the CV's to show that duffer can put two and two together 😆- he straightaway questioned if he man he had hit in the hotel was Ashwin.

Jhanvi doesn't bother to check the whereabouts of her daughter if she's away for the whole night?

Arjun leaving halfway has allowed the CVs to keep Maya's chapter open.

I sometimes wonder if Maya had something (albeit inadvertently) to do with the death of Arjun's father.

Today seems the day Ashwin will come to Arjun's house judging by that video on Twitter
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree to most of you that the process should have been gradual, not at a go. I also would have loved to see the slow realization.
But then if you look back there was no scope for that. Arjun used the harshest words for Vandana and Vandana packing her bags was right. Because after what he said especially the line you were waiting for my mother to die was literally way too harsh.

Arjun is also damaged, but not to the extend Maya is. He also doesnt know how to handle relations. Because he went abruptly from Maya without telling her why he is going, swift action is his trademark.
He acts , thinks later whether it was right or wrong. He lives in the moment.

Coming to Maya. For me Maya only revealed part of her story. She might have revealed everything if Arjun had not left her like that. But his leaving her mid way she will not open up the rest now for sure. Fearing he might go away if he hears the rest.

I feel Maya has alter ego. She was not a child that had psycho problems by birth. But the situations finally would have created an alter ego in her to protect herself and her mother from her father. When alter ego comes Maya is strong, frightening else a frightened girl. Not sure to what extend Maya realizes the manipulation she is doing. Because she always justifies herself. And I feel she does have an alter ego which she doesnt know that exists in her. Ashwin might be aware of it and that alter ego would have done something. Usually in such people multiple alter ego exists. One their self, other not harmful but a pleasing one or you can say tolerable one. Her CEO state is that tolerable one which she might be aware of. A third vindictive alter ego will exist in her that can be harmful to her and others. I dont think anyone will come close to that alter ego that soon

Jhanvi her problem is the problem of the woman of that generation. Sudharo husband mission. Belief ek din Ravan Ram ban jaayega 😆😆. Sati savithri pativratha. So she will cajole her kid, tell her husband not to repeat. He will repeat and she will continue cajoling and advicing. if Jhanvi had it in her to walk out on Ashwin when she knew Ashwin was after money Maya would have been spared. But in allowing Maya to walk through the torture for her so called illusion of pure and perfect love , Jhanvi is more responsible than Ashwin on creation of such a damaged person.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I think your post succeded in making the picture clearer then the screen play writer.When I saw the episode ,there was something unconvincing. ..like how arjun changed after listening to Maya s story ...I mean they are abusive stories which flash on tv almost every day.

The problem was with picturisation.When ever Maya was telling about ashwin abusing. ..they did Maya flashback scene...side by side they should have shown arjun s flashback scenes like how he misbehaved with vandana but still she cared him like a real mom.So the impact was missing .

I agree with saurabhkiradha that step by step realisation would look more better.


Plus 1 , flash back would have been perfect to relate if they hv less episodes . I understood the scene better after reading the post . Seriously cvs are loosing grip on their creatvity.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree shruthi jhanvi is more responsible than ashwin .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It could be multiple personality and there were some hints. I think the CEO and and "arjun's Maya" is the same person, then there is another alter ego-more violent which arises whenever she is threatened. I noticed jhanvi or arjun saved her whenver she was being terorrized by ashwin, had a couple more minutes passed, the alter ego would arise to save the vulnerable maya. the alter ego exists with in her, ashwin, jhanvi and maya knows it but its perhaps very rare. Some hints were already given but I wonder if cv's will actually there. as much as I love this show, it is clear that the writers are playing it safe with maya's character. they have worked really hard to make us sympathize with her, if that alter ego is very destructive, the audience may lose connect with her. In addition, multiple personality disorder is very complicated which may even warrant an addmission into a mental health facility. I don't want that for maya, I want her to win in life and for arjun to accept a damaged girl.

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