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Posted: 8 years ago
@shalu - Thanks so much for sharing the contents of the original letters. They are so so beautiful and clearly seem to have brought them so much more closer. Loving how Fatma is pouring her heart out to Kerim. Also love how these letters are being seen by Kerim as a lifeline and make him so happy

@Lannister - Agree with you on how Fatmagul seems to be so much in love with Kerim. She may not have said those three words aloud as yet but her actions have been speaking louder than any words ever cld. And it's not just these letters, many of her past actions for quite some time have been clearly showing the extent to which she has fallen in love with him. No one can really doubt it any longer.

Reg yesterday's epi, someone said that after Asu came fwd with the truth, FG said Kerim will be released Aaj as in today... well, that's not correct at all as what she had actually said was Kerim cld now be released soon. She most certainly did not say he will be released 'today' imo. And her thinking so was perfectly logical from legal perspective too as with Asu's testimony its likely that Kerim wld get released on bail while the trial continues due to a clear benefit of doubt being created in his favor with no less than a witness coming fwd with a testimony indicating his innocence. Hence, wrong to say that she was being illogical etc imo. Even Kadir/Omer have been indicating the same.

As regards her saying that Asu might have been convinced by Musti to not back off.. again, while Mustafa had actually ended up testifying in her favor when it really mattered the most and that is in court, she had reasons to think Asu might not be too keen on testifying in favor of Kerim coz that woman had just given a false testimony against her and also it was not Asu but Mustafa who had called her saying Asu had told him abt Kerim being innocent etc. Let's be fair, given this backdrop, it was quite natural for her to think what she did. She cldnt have known Asu Musti's pvt tussle on this issue or how it was Asu who had actually been wanting to tell the truth

Edited by Kiyaa - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sghosh1

C'mon guys chill 😆. After all, what I said was the truth. It IS the truth that she is present here 24/7 posting away all day or anytime of the day or eagerly waiting for anyone to post so that she cld respond to it asap 😛. Why take offence at the truth lol.


And @defflepard if u are suggesting that you manage to keep posting here from your workplace all day long, girl it reflects serious integrity issues as an employee 😲. Waisay most organisations of repute block entertainment sites to keep errant employees in check for these very same reasons 😆

Peace 😃


@sghosh: what are you saying chill for?😕 You are commenting on a fellow member's work integrity which is totally uncalled for and which you have absolutely no right at all do so.

Freedom of speech of everybody is respected here, but that does not mean you can just about comment anything about a fellow member. This is very much a serious matter. If you guys do not know the forum rules, then I suggest you go through the below link which has been put up by the India Forums site owner Vijay. I guess that much time you will be having to spare.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Regarding Sr Ilgaz, even if one cld understand his leaving coz his wife didn't love him or in his words ' hadn't even looked into his eyes once in 11 years, forget abt looking at him with love', there cld absolutely be no justification for his not returning for his son after his wife died. I mean, at least to me, that was just inexcusable. Curious to see how he'll try to justify that. My heart broke for scared lonely little Kerim anxiously waiting for his dad to come back for him. Poor kid! What must he have felt at being abandoned like that :((

And his dad saying he was going back the next day to Meriyam... what was that?? I mean his son refuses to meet him and rightly so and he just decides to pack his bags and go back leaving him at a time when he is languishing in jail?? Really??? And then he talks abt forgiveness and all that jazzz ://
Edited by Kiyaa - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
A few months back when a handful of ppl here kept badly bashing Fatmagul for being harsh with Kerim at the beginning of their relationship and not reciprocating his romantic overtures etc (completely unmindful of her very justifiable reasons for the same at that time), some ppl (including me) had made some posts here elaborating why her stance towards him at that time was justified. These posts explained in detail that she reacted to him that way because at that time she did not know him as a person at all. She only saw him either as someone who had raped her or as a bad person who was present there on the fateful night but deliberately did not do anything to save her and then also took money to marry her so that she cld be shut up etc. That...from her perspective she was justified in not trusting him right away given all that had happened to her and his perceived involvement in the same. And this was proved right too as since then we have seen how Fatmagul's attitude towards Kerim changed as she gradually got to know him better as a person. Over time, as she realised what a wonderful human being he really is and how much he actually cares for her and loves her, disregarding his inaction that day to save her, she not only started trusting him but also fell in love with him and became fiercely protective of him too.

Anyways, my point in bringing this up now is that when such posts were made, there was an immediate backlash to them from some members here including @DefLeppard. After that for a long time I cldnt visit this forum due to some professional/personal life compulsions but when I did return a couple of weeks back and went thru the previous threads I was completely shocked. To my utter surprise, while those few members who had made sympathetic posts showing understanding for FG's psyche and mindset (given the horrific incident she had been thru), had not responded to the backlash at all and had chosen to either leave or go quiet, @DefLeppard continued to target them maliciously behind their backs for months on end. Looks like she just cldnt take her views being challenged openly like that and continued to carry a never ending grudge against them. Which is why from that time on she has been 'unceasingly' making fun of them calling them 'sanskaaris' (conveniently and deliberately misinterpreting and misrepresenting their views), taking cheap shots at them and insulting them implying they are dumb etc in almost every single post of hers since months. If that was not enough she has also been gloating abt how those ppl had been chased away from here. Wow!! Can't believe anyone can be so vengeful over something as innocuous as a difference of opinion. It's shocking and disgraceful.

Still I didn't say anything on this for weeks but cldnt stop myself from reacting to it today when I saw someone saying freedom of expression doesn't mean one can make fun of fellow members etc and showed the IF rule book to the person who had supposedly (and ironically) made fun of something related to @DefLeppard. Cldnt help but laugh at this hypocrisy lol. Wonder why this was not said to Ms. @DefLeppard when she vengefully kept targeting certain members here in almost every single post of hers for months. Why didn't anyone ever tell her that her continued cheap potshots at some fellow members here were quite distasteful and had gone on for far too long and that she needed to stop this resentful, nasty onslaught. Looks like she can unabashedly make fun of ppl and insult them at will in the garb of wit and humor but no one can say anything to her. Wow! If that's not hypocrisy and double standards, don't know what is

And @DefLeppard - Who gave you the right to constantly make fun of a group of fellow members here in your posts? Who do you think you are to do so? What makes you think you can have fun at the expense of others? You can call yourself anything you want but you have no business making fun of other members here, calling them names or constantly taunting them. It is extremely petty, shameful and vindictive to keep targeting a group of ppl for months on end just because they once posted views that happened to challenge yours. Being witty and humorous is fine but it's NOT FINE to insult ppl or make fun of them in the garb of wit and humor! There is a diff between genuine humor and cheap offensive bad taste humor that you have been using to insult and put down some members here. The way u have been taking veiled or direct potshots at ppl thru your remarks laced with venomous sarcasm is just NOT DONE. Granted, u have been smart enough to not use cuss words against ppl knowing the same could get you reported but that doesn't make your unprovoked nasty taunts at ppl in the garb of humor right. You may be used to sycophancy or ppl not having the courage to call you out on your distasteful comments against fellow members or maybe they aren't bothered just coz it doesn't concern them... whatever it may be... but that doesn't mean you have the licence to carry on doing so. Remember, everyone will not agree with you all the time... that there will be times when your views will get challenged or differing views will be presented but that doesn't mean you can go on an endless insulting spree of such ppl. It's juvenile to do so besides being unacceptable. Debate ppl out respectfully based on logic if you can or ignore them instead of childishly cracking insulting jokes at them/making fun of them. Learn to put matters to rest in a dignified way as all those ppl did instead of carrying petty grudges with you forever and launching a never ending vendetta against ppl thru your constant veiled or direct attacks at them cloaked in cheesy offensive bad taste humor
Edited by MysticalDawn - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Dummy's Guide to Accounting

Another filler episode?
*inner voice - every paisa adds to your millions*

Accumulated depreciation - All witness purchased have depreciated.
Risat is upset with Munir. Munir is upset with Risat.Has the time come for accounts to be written-off? LOL

Arm's length transaction - Yasar and Musti face-off. LOL Musti played reverse psychology very well.

Appraisal report -
Has Musti's conscience woken up? He looked genuine for redemption.
Dummy Alert - Musti needs a cut...not in his appraisal...but his hair. LOL

Accounting cycle -
Maryem &FG prepares her transaction summary.
*inner voice -never understood this*
Dummy : sings Nothing else matters...*For slog readers- its P&L*

Absorption Costing-
Maryem has to back fill all the 15 years story to Kerim. Like Kiyaa mentions...sorry to hear that 2 adults spoilt a childhood.Maryem has an uphill task, same quailty but has to be cost effective too!!

Amortization -
Deg F..puts his story forth...of a lifetime. Hmm.
*inner voice - so similar to the movie Woh saat din*
Dummy - Nah...it was like do aanken, barah saal. ROFL
Looks he invested systematically in his wife.
*inner voice- did they SIP the lemonade?* winks

Adjustment Entries-
Ok...the Urn was piece of pride and show cased. A remote shake from M&M...got it into pieces. :(
Desi dil...wanted FG to dig into Kerim's tool box to find some more love notes or his trinkets.
Kadir as Mr.FeviQuick reminds me of my daddy!Chutki mein chipkaye!

Dummy Moment : Excellent narration.
Kadir living in the memories of his dead wife...get a reality check?
Maryem is on her way to mend the broken relationship of Deg F and Deg K. It might not be the same again,
but definitely a piece of show case?

Abnormal Spoilage -
By definition Scrap or waste that should have been avoided
*inner voice- who?*
Dummy : Smart readers can understand.*winks*

Accounting Equation -
In Season 1 this never existed. Then it stared with some vague barter system.*mutual trade*
In Season 2 we see Assets = Liabilities + Owner's Equity. LOL
@Aashi...this is for you! :)

Every letter exchanged showed this equation.
@Shalu, Lannister, Kiyaa & others have detailed this very well. Thanks for translation.

The biggest improvement seen is FG able to share all the minute details of her routine.
And Kerim's letter writing skills have definitely improved. This looks more like a HR than a CEO!! ROFL

Like someone mentioned here...Erdo & Kerim to contest for the dish washing position. HR says reqs are open.!!

To be continued...
Every accounting practice will have a tax too.

Edited by DefLeppard - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Dummy's Guide to Taxes

Service tax - Musti warns Yasar of his services to Yesarans. ROFL

Wealth tax - Risat claiming he didnt do anything.*Lallantaap moment*

Professional tax - Munir gets the hook from Semsi in the melee.

Advance tax - Leman & Semsi...shocked to hear this notice after paying the tax before July 31st.

Interest tax - Erdo totally engrossed in the fight...amongst senior citizens.

Capital Gains tax - Musti index crashed.

Fringe Benefit tax - Perihaan & Helmiye think remote chances of their sons' involvement!! LMAO

Entry tax - Deg F needs a re-entry into his son's life. Ah!

Dividend Distribution tax- All earnings from Cafe has been disbursed.

Entertainment tax - MQ & her antics *like paying 100% tax for a flop movie in a multiplex* Ugrrhh

Gift tax : Kadir wants to give repaired vase to Maryem!*blush*

Toll tax : Kerim worried on the jail mates

Swacch Yesaran Cess : Risat to pay up for all the mess by their laadlas

Witness Kalyan Cess : Munir pays to buy witness.*inner voice- isnt the sale over?*

Education Cess : FG finished high school.

Finally
Value added tax - which we all crib about, but have to pay. Those few minutes of Kerim/Engin and his acting.
*inner voice - isnt it replaced by GST?*
Dummy - Yeah... GST - Gul Sends Token *kill me*

Dummy checking her accounts.. 1800-WALL-ST.
Dollar price ...check
Oil price...check
Bullion ...check
MyCompanyStockPrice...check
Whatt!! All green.

An employee No.1 of a certain S-company is also green.

Green -is life, energy, freshness, all jobs done...all accounts/taxes balanced etc
Green is - jealousy etc

The choice is yours to choose the "mera wala green"!:-)

Edited by DefLeppard - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Kiyaa

Regarding Sr Ilgaz, even if one cld understand his leaving coz his wife didn't love him or in his words ' hadn't even looked into his eyes once in 11 years, forget abt looking at him with love', there cld absolutely be no justification for his not returning for his son after his wife died. I mean, at least to me, that was just inexcusable. Curious to see how he'll try to justify that. My heart broke for scared lonely little Kerim anxiously waiting for his dad to come back for him. Poor kid! What must he have felt at being abandoned like that :((


And his dad saying he was going back the next day to Meriyam... what was that?? I mean his son refuses to meet him and rightly so and he just decides to pack his bags and go back leaving him at a time when he is languishing in jail?? Really??? And then he talks abt forgiveness and all that jazzz ://


@bold agree with u. May be not right away but atleast within a year or two he should ve come back. I think maker did this to give us Kerim's story now...may be they wanted to balance out betwn Female Lead n Male Lead pain n past...
I also wonder about Kerim's mom behaviour... after so many years of marriage she couldnt forget her first love...even not after having a child...the joy of child too couldnt takeaway her sadness

@red mine too...what he must ve gone thru...being only 6 yrs old without mom n dad...thankfully he had Maryem...

@blue that was error in translation...he did not say that he will go away 2morrow.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: MysticalDawn

Still I didn't say anything on this for weeks but cldnt stop myself from reacting to it today when I saw someone saying freedom of expression doesn't mean one can make fun of fellow members etc and showed the IF rule book to the person who had supposedly (and ironically) made fun of something related to @DefLeppard. Cldnt help but laugh at this hypocrisy lol. Wonder why this was not said to Ms. @DefLeppard when she vengefully kept targeting certain members here in almost every single post of hers for months. Why didn't anyone ever tell her that her continued cheap potshots at some fellow members here were quite distasteful and had gone on for far too long and that she needed to stop this resentful, nasty onslaught. Looks like she can unabashedly make fun of ppl and insult them at will in the garb of wit and humor but no one can say anything to her. Wow! If that's not hypocrisy and double standards, don't know what is



Please do not twist my words...check my post properly and then comment...If you'll had a problem with DefLeppard's posts, you'll should've reported them or taken up the issue then and there...why did you wait for months and months 😕

As for me bringing up the rule book now, I felt enough is enough. Just a couple of weeks back MohabbatGirl was targetted by somebody in another thread. And I have reported those too FYI. And just recently SaraFatma. Making harsh personal comments is just not done. Please maintain the decorum of the forum and dont go all preachy. Is that too much to ask?


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79


@blue that was error in translation...he did not say that he will go away 2morrow.


Yeah Kiyaa that was error in translation. He actually says that he will be coming to Istanbul tomorrow 😛 (seriously what a faux pas 👎🏼)


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Posted: 8 years ago
It's actually you who needs to practice what you are preaching lady. I have no issues with your reporting certain comments that you thought were offensive to some of your friends. My point was, the same standards should be applied when one of those very friends too makes offensive, insulting comments against fellow members here. It's unfair to express outrage or preach civility only to ppl who are not one's friends while turning a blind eye when a similar offence is committed by a friend, is all I said to you. Other than this, I have no beef with you really,

My main issue was with the acidic/caustic/derogatory remarks being made by the concerned person mentioned above in the name of humor against a group of ppl here in almost every single post of hers. And this has been continuing till this very date. I agree with your saying 'enough is enough' with regards to such behaviour... but by 'anyone' regardless of who they are or who they think themselves to be. Maintaining the decorum of the forum is the responsibility of each and every single member here. Nobody should think they have some kind of privilege to insult/make fun of anyone here. Period. As regards to why this was not commented upon earlier, kindly read my earlier post carefully again and you will get the reason for the same. Moreover, the timing shld not matter in this case as those insults are not a thing of the past and have been continuing in the present too.
Edited by MysticalDawn - 8 years ago

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