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Missesha thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
The agression was extremely evident when she beat Kundan black and blue for misbehaving with Nimboli.

The girl was not physically tortured day and night. She was shown to be chirpy and notorious at most times. At times the girl was not given food or made to work hard like most beendnis are expected to do. Even Dsa did that with Anandi. 

In those cases M would attend to the girl later as she was always not in a position to cross Harki.
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Anyways, even in her own desire to put Anandi down, Mangala managed to show a very good mirror to Anandi yesterday.

Atleast someone pointed out Anandi's flaws to her.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: hisusmita


Anandi is weak only when it comes to her loved ones. Be it Shiv, be it DS, be it Nandini , Shivam.

Being patient and calm , tolerating something for bigger things is not weakness. Its actually strength which very few people have

It becomes selfishness when other people continously pay the price of one's silence or so called strength. 

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Posted: 8 years ago
The truth is Anandi has been not able to reach out to her daughter because of the obstacle called Mangala.The truth is Anandi had been unable to see this obstacle in her path to her daughter.
She has been fighting only the known adversaries and the damage done by them to her daughter.

She has not seen the unnoticeable block because the obstacle has disguised itself as a bridge😛

Now she has seen the obstacle for itself.


She has not wasted her time she told Mangal in very clear terms that her daughter remains her daughter. She will not let go of her daughter and at the same time she will not do anything that may upset her daughter.

She has made it clear to Mangala that if she is part of her daughter's life because it is she who decided to let her be a part of her daughter's life and she has full legal rights to get the child from her custody and she is not doing it out of her consideraton for her daughter as well as respect for that woman's love for her daughter.

Where did I say Anandi was unwise? Anandi's choices suited her very well in life.

She has chosen to let go of the husband who didn't want her instead of fighting for what can never be hers and wasting her life in that fight becoming bitter she moved away made something out of her life.She was called a door mat for chosing not to fight for this husband of hers.
But her decision to move away had done a lot good for her and she ended up with most beautiful memories of love and two beautiful children who stand for that love she got in life.

The choice was hers to fight tooth and nail or move away and she chose to move away.

It was her choice to forgive a man and leave all the hurts behind because it gave her a chance at a happier future.


There was a shining example of one beautiful woman who is supposedly very intelligent and ambitious but ended up as a bitter lonely woman who became clingy just to hang on to someone who lost interest in her😛

One has to decide who is wiser going by the decisions made.

As for intelligence. Anandi is an intelligent girl who did well in academics and  has shown capabilities to make it in the world in her chosen field.It is another matter that CVs have not shown much of this Anandi.Just because they have not shown much of this Anandi that doesn't take away her capabilities.

Was Mangala ever ethical? She shows one face to the world - the virtuous widow long suffering woman who follows rituals stringently.This is how she presents herself to the world because being seen as a virtuous woman is important to her.
For small pleasures like mehendi and wanting to be splashed in holy colours she fooled the entire community with her Devi act😛

Somebody who resorts to unethical means just to satisfy their desires how can they be expected to stick to ethics when the fight is about their self interests?









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Posted: 8 years ago
Balika Vadhu is Anandi's journey and the makers knows their story even if we write pages. According to the makers Anandi took bullet and saved Jagya . They told that thru Sumitra also.

So who cares what people says.

Creatives knows their story. So I will go by them only
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha

It becomes selfishness when other people continously pay the price of one's silence or so called strength. 



It depends on how you look at it.


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Posted: 8 years ago
It is sad that examples of Anandi's goodness / intelligence are only drawn from that section of  history when Anandi's actions were not questioned but rather praised. And we are repeatedly being given those examples only to highlight her goodness. 

Wonder why no examples of Anandi's goddess / intelligence and capabilities are cited post the time she became Mrs. SRS.
Is it because there was no goodness displayed by her or is it because her goodness came at a cost / destruction?

I am not interested in reading Anandi's praises from history. I already know that and didn't question her back then.

If there are examples of her wiseness in current / recent tracks then lets discuss otherwise it's not so wrong to point out Anandi's weaknesses, her dumbness and selfishness. 
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha

Was a nice episode.

Difference between M and Anandi is that, M can accept her mistakes and Anandi doesn't even see through.

After listening to N's story, M realised somewhere her plans landed N into danger. Although she only expected N to create ruckus forcing A to bring her to Jhalra, M felt sorry that N had to go through so much just because of her (M) decision.

On the other hand, Anandi is still busy blaming M. Not an iota of regret that how her daughter is forced to live a "torned-life" because of Anandi's decisions back then and even now.

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Dsa's words of wisdom and story telling was right, but why not drill some sense into her chidakli who is actually the trouble causer.

Very easy to point out and show power on someone who is on the weaker edge. Why not show this aggressiveness to the one who needs it?

Today finally, DSa, J and A tried to put M down using legal powers, but M's tight virtual slap to Anandi made a wider echo

M's words to A, "that a mother is someone who can understand her daughter"  was awesome. Anandi's face was worth watching.

Mangala may be so wrong in her methods and intentions, but she still proves to better than Anandi as far as Nimboli is concerned.

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Anyways, the track forward seems to be predictable. N will go to Jhalra. There she will slowly start missing A and her goodness making M further insecure. On the other hand K and Akhiraj, will make everyone's life horrible. Mangala will lose her marbles and fail to protect N. Anandi will come as a shining warrior to protect her kiddo. 

M will lose. Her mistakes will be highlighted and N will happily embrace A as her mother without question. 






@bold, what's the point everytime doing the mistakes deliberately and saying to God, its my mistake and again doing the same thing. She did that before running, she did this incase of fake mother, she did this yesterday.

No point doing the drama and again doing the same mistake.

@red, when maker's dont think it is Anandi's mistake, when the story is the decision she took to save someone and in that process lost her baby , an accident, not  Anandi's mistake , why think that A will tell that?

@blue, same thing I am also telling, except Kundan's case M never shown this aggressiveness when the girl was tortured? Now dont say she was not tortured, Enough have been shown, We used to complain why they are showing so much of harshness. burning hands, beating black and blue, tying on tree top at midnight. starving day and night. working like a bonded labourer. Now just because she saw A is getting weak because of her daughter she is showing her true colours? BH peeps are tolerating her because of their love/weakness for N, not in fear of M

@green, exactly, when M is claiming herself as N's mother how can she didnt figure out that N could take such step? A said she didnt know that N can do such thing. But what about the wannabe mother who raised her for 11 years?

She is harming N just to possess her.

J, DS and A didnt put M down. They showed her the right place , not intentionally but just because she started screaming, stomping, jumping.

M may be wrong in her methods? you have doubt? good for you

The track has to be like this. Love is different. If you try to possess someone you will loose him.

But I am sure A will never let M go away from N's life

Edited by hisusmita - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
The people who are with Anandi do not blame her simply because they have realised that she was trying to the right thing by them and on hind sight they all realised that they should have paid attention to what she had been saying all.
Sanchi Saga she had been trying to protect the interests and happiness of so many people around her. 
If at all she has done anything wrong there it was her delay in sharing her thoughts on the issue with Shiv.

But then she was newly married and despite this being her second marriage she never really had a husband in true sense until she married Shiv. So she really didn't know until then how one can share every thought with one's spouse.
After Shiv got angry with her for not sharing her thoughts and saw the consequences she never hesitated in sharing her thoughts since then.Who says she doesn't learn from her mistakes? 

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Posted: 8 years ago
I have a different take.


For me and as per makers Anandi is the central character.  So it is all about how she leads her life and how she makes her decisions.  As a viewer,  I will always appreciate or question Anandi. 

Mangala is a side character. Someday she wil exit and be forgotten. But Anandi is here to stay. 

And yet Anandi's journey is hopeless and far fetched from being realistic or useful to others who may be in her position.

As for M, she is primarily a supporting character but has stood out strong enough that she makes people to praise some of her qualities and  question Anandi's actions 

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Besides this, CVs obsession to make Anandi right at the cost of other characters makes it irritating. Be it M or Gauri or many others

I think I dislike Anandi more just because makers try to deliberately show her goodness without making her introspect ever.




Edited by Missesha - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Anandi is the central character and  after she became Mrs SRS the story focused on brand new 
Mrs SRS trying to embrace her husband's family as her own and their problems as her own problems.

She was nayee naveli dulhan in the real sense despite living with the title of dumped child bride for many years before that 

Through out Sanchi's track along with Sanchi Anandi also grew in experience while dealing with Sanchi.
The Sanchi that Anandi encountered is way different from the Sanchi known to Shekhar family members.The rudeness snobbish ness and the way Sanchi handled her life were dismissed off by the family as bachpana.
Should she trust her husband who saw little sister as doll or should she go by her perception?

Every one faces learning curves.She spent a lot of time trying to figure out Sanchi and by the time she figured out whether Sanchi is putting up an act Jagya already broke the engagement.

When she saw Sanchi's choice of friends the moment she realised how they are no good she shared that information with Shiv because by then she realised that family members are clueless when it came to handling Sanchi.
They were trying to handle rotten friends problem when disaster struck Sanchi.

After that from the way she handled Sanchi's rehabilitation and boosted her morale to take on Saurabh it is not just Sanchi who grew but Anandi too.
We did see how she empowered Sanchi by enlisting her as a volunteer in Bhaili which was actually the turning point in the way Sanchi saw life.

Mrs SRS's one major probject was Sanchi. Empowerment of Sanchi who was depleted of moral strength as well as morale was the major track of Mrs SRS.
Bhaili empowered women like Chanda as well as Sanchi who believed that she was the biggest sinner and that's why that she got such horrible punishment.
She boosted Sanchi's morale and help her gain courage by making her help other unfortunate women whom Sanchi used to scoff at once upon a time.

Same Bhaili she used to try and build self esteem of Anop.But Anop saw the benefits very late in life. 

Anandi Shivraj Shekhar does have achievements to her credit too even if the stage was family drama.

If Shivam is leading a secure and content life till recently it is because his mother gave him the sense of security to him by keeping him away from her troubles and by not letting her despair at not being able to find her daughter affect her son.She means the world to her son because she is a good mother. 

Anyone in her position would have tried to keep Sarita and her daughter at a distance because the very presence of these people will remind them of what they lost. 

As for Anandi she introspects but she doesn't sit and mull over it because introspection should result in course correction.
When ever as per the CVs she was shown to be in the wrong she tried to rectify the mistakes.

If Anandi is not shown introspeecting over her daughter's kidnap it is because as  per the CVs she had not done anything wrong what happened was unfortunate.