Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios
Posting here for the first time and kind of new here 😊Ur post pretty much sums up everything about IPKKND EJ.I m not an indian and yet have watched n loved the show 😳Had never thought IPK would be back but here it is and I am loving every bit of it.Barun as ASR has managed to make us all fall in love with the man who was ruthless and desirable and now we see him in a different shade, a man who has lived the demons and is now living his loving present with his soul mate.Looking forward to this mini series 😳
hi indu,
@pink. exacly and some more exactly.
one of my favourite angry indi writing was on asr... why create him if all you need to do is change him?
why love him and ooh and aah when you just want him to be someone else.
one thing about this man was his honesty. his innate staight forwardness.
wonder if we ever ask ourselves why we adored him. or for that matter khushi? wonder if we can come up with the real answer and stick to it.
and what is this erroneous notion of love "changing" people? why do women cherish it so? patriarchy? or just a diet of too much syrupy so called romance.
ipk was a rare love story because it dared to present the nature of love minus sugar coating. love and romance as it can be. and that's what hit me hard, making me think (when i could that is, which was not that often 😆) this will have a fabulous impact on all those who watch. i want my girl to watch it some day.
there was reality in its unbridled absolute romance, nafrat mohabbat gussa sanka fights faraq and all. and it, like its protagonist asr, never tried to please anyone... it was what it was.
yes, the hero did rip the heroine's dori in epi 2. on valentine's day, he did drag her to a temple and forced her to give in to his demands... and she didn't from day one ever cow down... she gave it to him.
her moving moving soliloquy... about that feeling that rose in the middle of nafrat. oh what a feeling that. ipk nurtured it and cherished it and said clearly love is a beautiful thing, way outside the trappings we give love.
when he said i love you to her nicely, brokenly... over the phone... many in the forum roared and said, that ain't asr's confession... nahiiin...
it was only after i love you dammit that there was elation. and dammit became more powerful than what the. because somewhere we
asr always had the ability to love wondrously, but was walled in, damaged. she too was damaged in her own way but coping differently, with laughter and relationships...
something just fell into place when they met... then connected... viscerally.
as we did with the show.
that gut wrenching connection is priceless.
and i don't need artificial sweetness added to the man the woman the pyaar the home the hp... nothing to make it work.
@ blue. 😆 😆 have you read jamba's frustrated take?
Hi Indi! Thanks for voicing out my thoughts! !why create him if all you need to do is change him?Exactly! They didn't need to change him!why love him and ooh and aah when you just want him to be someone else.one thing about this man was his honesty. his innate staight forwardness.
So much missing that ASR who used to have the last word
The thing is that with his straight forwardness he seemed true because he was not hiding behind lies and fooling people and himself
And what is this erroneous notion of love "changing" people? why do women cherish it so? patriarchy? or just a diet of too much syrupy so called romance.👏 loving someone is as far as I am concerned accepting them with all their imperfections, if you try to change them wholly it means that you didn't love them from the startipk was a rare love story because it dared to present the nature of love minus sugar coating. love and romance as it can be.there was reality in its unbridled absolute romance, nafrat mohabbat gussa sanka fights faraq and all. and it, like its protagonist asr, never tried to please anyone... it was what it was.
yes, the hero did rip the heroine's dori in epi 2. on valentine's day, he did drag her to a temple and forced her to give in to his demands... and she didn't from day one ever cow down... she gave it to him.
her moving moving soliloquy... about that feeling that rose in the middle of nafrat. oh what a feeling that. ipk nurtured it and cherished it and said clearly love is a beautiful thing, way outside the trappings we give love.
That's also what attracted me most it was not an usual love story like the girl giving in and the guy taking all.when he said i love you to her nicely, brokenly... over the phone... many in the forum roared and said, that ain't asr's confession... nahiiin...
it was only after i love you dammit that there was elation. and dammit became more powerful than what the.
Even if I loved that confession it seemed fake and somehow forced with somewhat a fear for his life and the second one was so powerful with ASR in all his glory, accepting his past and giving way to love in his life and KhushiAnd she also was not sure about his 1st confessionAnd he at that moment gave name to their relationship
asr always had the ability to love wondrously, but was walled in, damaged. she too was damaged in her own way but coping differently, with laughter and relationships...
something just fell into place when they met... then connected... viscerally.
as we did with the show.
that gut wrenching connection is priceless.
and i don't need artificial sweetness added to the man the woman the pyaar the home the hp... nothing to make it work.
👏 True! It seemed like they got a chance to be happy and liveArnav was lonely because he didn't let people come close and also afraid i think to lose again but Khushi, the happy, vibrant, brilliant girl from lucknow was lived by everyone but I always felt like she was lonely even in a crowdThat sadness and black part of their life connected themThat's why they became so much famous and we got so much attached to them!Hell i even crave to find someone like Arnav coz behind that angry facade he cared damn it! And that subtil way of showing emotions and feelings was mesmerisingNo need to be a sweet husband or lover with sugar coated words and as you said "artificial sweetness" coz anyway Arnav has diabetesBut that does not mean that I didn't love the episode and watched it 10 times!
Originally posted by: archana.mh17
Hello! Indi, this is the same Indrani from FB whose posts I fangirl over, right? I read your take on all things IPK-EJ & commented there. Thought I'll just drop by the thread & say, I love the way you write, dammit! And, it usually resonates so completely with what I feel about the episode. So, yes. Thank you for contributing towards keeping IPK's magic alive & kicking.
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