simple SROriginally posted by: Seriousreader
As the layers come off Bala's character...I seem to like him less and less..
What is he evolving into...
Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Prat
He loves his family, he adores Vandu, hes not a crook, hes not a gambler he doesnt cheat on her, he doesnt have a roving eye, he is a committed sincere man, that struggles to make ends meet.
He cares for the Iyers (I know many will jump on me and say whats the big deal, Vandu cares for his parents etc) There are many Balas that make their wives care for their parents and NOT AT ALL appreciate their wife's parents visiting them even for a week.
He doesnt ask Vandu to "go get money from your parents, your mother is earning too, I want trade in stocks" (there are many Balas that do that if mother in law is working)
There are many Balas that got their wife's tubes tied after the first one, because they cannot afford a second one
Bala is not like that at all
He loves II
He admits to Vandu occasionally he is helpless in the case of his parents
He has to have some failings no?
Go ahead and hate him for what he fails at
Originally posted by: kalviswes
Nisha-thanks for the awesome updates!!! You paint such beautiful scenes with your words...I am speechless most of the time. As my family will tell you that is a very hard task to make me speechless!!! 😆
Gosh-SoSy is taking such interesting twists. I can totally relate to the situation with II and Ranjan. With my first sister--my b-i-l's family is very similar to Bala and Appa's situation...very rosham etc. They were very upset with anything and everything that was given and they still are. My second sister's family is much more easy going-partly bec they are also comfortably off. Unfortunately the problem with the second is that giving to the grand kids often becomes a competition ---not sure why??😕
simple SR
The story is about II and dude right...we see things in their perspective and get naturally attached to themIf it was bala's story we would hear his versionThis is the same bala who supported II in the marriage with dude and went against his FILSame bala who spent the last penny on ice cream for his pregnant wifeSame bala who takes care of tiny things like turning a fan on for his sweaty wife and sonSane bala who when realises his mistake shows no ego in saying sorry to a girl almost half his age (II)Same bala who takes care of his parents in their old age and desnt so it for the sake of itA man has his flaws and the world wants flaless everythingSkin see lekar friend tak sab kutchWe easily notice somebody's flaws but forget to appreciate thier good natureBecasue that way we can't hate them...of we don't dislike bala how will we side II with full power?And we want II to win always don't we?Hey asma...its a brilliant gesture by uEnvee and preeti... Koi gal nahi...:)
Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Kala
I know of many families where the sisters get jealous of each other for what the parents gift each of them, at seemandham, prasavam and baby's Bday, many even fight over what their parents have left for them
after they pass on...
I know of many families where the brothers' wives and daughters(SILs) fight over who got what
Many Iyer families love their daughters more, many love their DILs, its a constant vishwa yudh only. Its very shocking to me how can siblings that grew up in the same house and shared the same room, same salwar kameez and kolhapuris, and earrings fight like dogs after marriage and kids
But its very very common
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