Originally posted by Seriousreader
Originally posted by swathi1990
Part of the reason of R&B speeding things up was Appa only. Appa did not allow him to meet/talk to her and he was worried that Appa would get her married to some Iyer. Soo many restrictions which he was not used to and to overcome all these he had to get married to her. Sam didnt want to delay because she was selfish in many ways... She wanted her brother to be happy- (afraid that with the delay he might change his mind from the idea of marriage.) and also wanted someone who could be compassionate and tc of her father . When she saw both in II she didnt want to leave this. As for II is concerned, all these things were laid before her by her APPA very clearly. But she was sooo gone in this relationship that she ONLY wanted this. Even now she is not sure of the future of the relationship, but she married him with all those doubts..
On the face of it...yes ...it appears that R&B married in a hurry since he could not get at her any other way! But, isn't there more to his feelings than meets the eye?
When I meant restrictions it included everything, not just sex. He wanted her to be with himself - he wanted to listen to her always, spend more time with her , listen to her singing. Whereas it was always hindered by her family --- He hated that. He didn't want her to leave him. In a sense she was filling the void caused by savvy for him and he was possesive just like he was with his ma where he wasn't willing to share savvy even with his sisters...