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Hi renee.bee!
Thank you so much for leaving this absolutely amazing comment on my FF. It's such a great experience to read different perspectives and understand different mindsets.
Here's my answer about Khushi:
I'm molding her off me 😆
So, I don't know if I've mentioned this before, but before IPK started I was in a really debilitating relationship (and I've gotten the concept for Serendipity from the same). When the guy dumped me, it was almost like shattering to begin all over again. And when I had to pick up the broken pieces, I realized that there were parts of me that I wanted to retain and parts I didn't mind sacrificing.
I used to think sex before marriage was a huge crime. I don't think that anymore.
I used to think women who wore short clothes were "s**ts". I don't think that anymore.
I used to avoid pork like the plague. I tried a little bit of bacon and I loved it.
I used to think alcohol was for men and low class women. I think beer is fantastic!
So the way I'm changing Khushi is actually molded off the way I've matured as well.
And I wouldn't overthink the meat part too much. When you move to the United States, surviving as a vegetarian becomes exceptionally difficult. I guess (like me) Khushi decides to be religious without following a doctrine.
Khushi's opened up her palate, but the essential morals that are the same. She's kind. She's giving. She's loving and spiritual. Don't give up on Khushi just yet! 😊 And please, don't think Tarang has something to do with the change! 😆 He's letting her conduct her own train, and just joining in for the ride 😳
Originally posted by: renee.bee
This story is so fabulous.
Its stortline makes it interesting.However why is Arnav stooping low.I m sorry bt its seems in an effort to potray Tarang as a great loving husband Arnav is looking like some side kick n no different frm snake going after a married woman.Honestly if Tarang thinks khushi changed coz of Arnav n his brutality. Khushi changed coz thts wht she always wanted to be.He meant khushi wanted to drink alcohol n eat meat which was so against hers beliefs then he has managed to show khushi has a hypocrite and fake.Seriously the khushi who preached la n had beliefs in god dint eat non veg or drink wanted to do all tht was which wasnt khushi then Tarang proved khushi as a liar who lied abt being religious n strong beliefs which got changed coz Arnav treated her like shit.Tho it termed Arnav as a lunatic as much as Arnav behaved with khushi or called her names he dint try to change her or her beliefs.So I agree with Arnav people dont change just like tht.Yes if khushi wanted to be modern its ok why did she hve to eat non veg which doesn't hve any connection to religion bt beliefs she changed tht for Arnav seems ridiculous.Honestly why is Arnav even wanting khushi she's no longer the girl she was bt a polished fake version of tht girl who has changed herself when an opportunity presented itself. She pretended to be an innocent n cultured girl all the time till she came to US or rather to Tarang is whatTarangs contention is. He means khushi cudnt be herself wear modern clothes drink eat non veg n be bold which she always wanted n she got the freedom to be tht only after he came in her lifeTarang can have her. The more I read this I feel there is no Arshi here. Where is this heading. Arnav n Khushi are not the same they both are beyond recognition. ASR has an ego he wudnt bend before anyone leave alone go shamelessly uninvited where he's nt needed. If he was ASR he wud fight Tarang or Khushi not manipulate kids. Please dont butcher his character so much n make him look like snake.Sorry i feel i m bashing khushi bt she changed her look n become smart bt changing the core beliefs like eating non veg may seem ok bt it doesnt sit well tht person wud change everything bt no do something so against their beliefs n faith. ( I m a veg n I wudnt eat non veg just to fit in or coz life had been harsh on me even if i do get upset for whts hppnd n I m not even so rooted in traditions n beliefs like khushis character was yet it seems blasphemous for me to even think abt it so how n wht made khushi change tht is what I cant get )Isnt that Arnav on d show had said when she agreed to drink wine to please him n he said he wudnt wanted her to do anything against her beliefs.So if khushi has changed its coz she was trying to please Tarang n tht shows she has lost her individuality n Tarang dint even know how strong her beliefs were n he dint stop her.If she dint do it for Tarang bt prove herself to be so modern thn she was hypocrite. Why dint Tarang respect her for who she was n made her change so much tht she's lost her real self if she was real at all.The old khushi wudnt give in and succumb to pressure even infront of ASR no matter how tough it was. Tht quality of khushi of being self confident n her individuality has lost n if Arnav is too be blamed for then it also means khushi thinks by doing things she wudnt do she's proving herself strong then she's so wrong.I Guess she doesn't believe in DM if she did she wudnt defy all her beliefs on path of so called self discovery.If I hurt you I m sorry bt we all feel so strongly bt arshi n here tho I m liking khushi rebuilding her life being independent bt she's losing her essence n Arnav being shown so negative of late is not giving any hope of Arshi reunion n if this is going to continue where Arnav goes frm bad to worse it makes it even more difficult to see Arnav in such bad light.Finally the last line was really funny n Arnav cringed if she's his daughter he better know how to behave like a father.When will Arnav redeem himself or even if khushi accepts him which is impossible what happens to the 2 cutie pies. I read a comment tht they are Arnav bt how it dont say so its had me wondering how on earth the 2nd one is Arnav's.Omg too long a comment I got carried away. I dont like women changing themselves to please others.
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