At the end of the day Raman is ALL ALONE - Page 6

Originally posted by: -Hima-

@black - Ok.. did I miss something? When did Ishita try to change Raman? She has said to him that he should NOT CHANGE.. she likes RAVAN kumar! So, when did this forceful changing happen?

Now, I want to stay away from Mani because he is a very premature character who was suddenly introduced and he said some stuff to Raman that he was not a good husband and Raman misunderstood that his words were actually Ishita's.. that is a misunderstanding. I never saw anything which said Ishita wanted Raman to change to her liking!

She expected him to be civil with her and trust her but that is only natural.. any wife would want that.. that has nothing to do with Ishita trying to forcefully change Raman.

I don't want to sound like I am taking Ishita's side here because I have issues with her but what you have pointed out is not something I cannot connect with. I find faults in both and thats what makes them realistic.. no one is perfect and these two characters only prove that. But they are perfect for each other because when it comes to things that really matter, their understanding is far more mature than under normal circumstances. They have always stood for each other and one is NOT superior.

whose words were " you think only for your self, you do only for your self, you never cared for me, you never liked anything in me " , and yeah she before said that she liked ravan kumar but she said recently that she tolerated all taunts . that makes different that her choice is now changed. she does not see what thing of her made raman to do shaq on her. just like mani, some one is needed to show her mirror too where she is going wrong just like raman 's taunts and rudeness were pointed out , her behavior with mani that made raman not to believe her .

problem is her flaws are not glorified or pointed out by ANYONE in show.

Originally posted by: AraBearxx

The knee reason I am not in support of this supposedly to be confession. Both of them have tragic pasts and you simply cannot expect them to forget that within 9 months of marriage. Almost all relationships are messy, the magic in their relationship is the realistic feel to it, you can connect to, you can connect to the show. Having a confession so early without sorting their last is a death call.

Bang on. I always wanted to know Ishita's side of story. Lots to explore there. But the way Ishita behaves make me think her relationship with Subbu was a mere teenage crush that lasted long. She somehow realized and accepted that fact. Otherwise,She wouldn't have so willingly agreed to marry Prateek back in December.

the thing is both arent compatible...both are very different...and their expectations from their partners (atleast Ishita's expectations are very different)

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

whose words were " you think only for your self, you do only for your self, you never cared for me, you never liked anything in me " , and yeah she before said that she liked ravan kumar but she said recently that she tolerated all taunts . that makes different that her choice is now changed. she does not see what thing of her made raman to do shaq on her. just like mani, some one is needed to show her mirror too where she is going wrong just like raman 's taunts and rudeness were pointed out , her behavior with mani that made raman not to believe her .

problem is her flaws are not glorified or pointed out by ANYONE in show.

Isn't it funny how her words from one outburst are being dragged to this extent.?
It really is amusing.. How about all the words that have been said before by Raman.? Have those ever been questioned.? How many times has he called her Ruhi KI Maa and the next moment he has threatened to throw her out of the house.? If that's his anger, whats the big deal about her anger.

Does the bold part mean that she always has to take his crude taunts.? To a limit they are fine but what about him calling her garbage.? So just because she likes Raavan Kumar more, she is supposed to take such taunts.?
What is wrong if for once she voices on how hurt she has been on some of his comments.. I don't understand how that shows her choices have changed.

Its really sad that outbursts like these are being dragged to such extents. Looks like only Raman is copy righted to get angry and talk anything he wishes, if the other does..this is what it ends up in.

WOW.!

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Isn't it funny how her words from one outburst are being dragged to this extent.?
It really is amusing.. How about all the words that have been said before by Raman.? Have those ever been questioned.? How many times has he called her Ruhi KI Maa and the next moment he has threatened to throw her out of the house.? If that's his anger, whats the big deal about her anger.

Does the bold part mean that she always has to take his crude taunts.? To a limit they are fine but what about him calling her garbage.? So just because she likes Raavan Kumar more, she is supposed to take such taunts.?
What is wrong if for once she voices on how hurt she has been on some of his comments.. I don't understand how that shows her choices have changed.

Its really sad that outbursts like these are being dragged to such extents. Looks like only Raman is copy righted to get angry and talk anything he wishes, if the other does..this is what it ends up in.

WOW.!

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Isn't it funny how her words from one outburst are being dragged to this extent.?
It really is amusing.. How about all the words that have been said before by Raman.? Have those ever been questioned.? How many times has he called her Ruhi KI Maa and the next moment he has threatened to throw her out of the house.? If that's his anger, whats the big deal about her anger.

Does the bold part mean that she always has to take his crude taunts.? To a limit they are fine but what about him calling her garbage.? So just because she likes Raavan Kumar more, she is supposed to take such taunts.?
What is wrong if for once she voices on how hurt she has been on some of his comments.. I don't understand how that shows her choices have changed.

Its really sad that outbursts like these are being dragged to such extents. Looks like only Raman is copy righted to get angry and talk anything he wishes, if the other does..this is what it ends up in.

WOW.!

Anu, you don't know that being angry and rude is Raman's style, his copyright? I remember someone saying that in a post few days back. Lolz...now bad things are also copyrighted and feelings too are copyrighted...most funny thing😲.
I sometimes get surprised seeing married people certifying Raman's rude behavior towards his wife, but Ishita isn't supposed to show anger na! That's Raman's thing only in the whole society of the show😆. I previously said that anger doesn't have any logic. For Raman, that is accepted, for Ishita no. We want her to be angry, but when she is, we want her to be always sweet.

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Isn't it funny how her words from one outburst are being dragged to this extent.?
It really is amusing.. How about all the words that have been said before by Raman.? Have those ever been questioned.? How many times has he called her Ruhi KI Maa and the next moment he has threatened to throw her out of the house.? If that's his anger, whats the big deal about her anger.

Does the bold part mean that she always has to take his crude taunts.? To a limit they are fine but what about him calling her garbage.? So just because she likes Raavan Kumar more, she is supposed to take such taunts.?
What is wrong if for once she voices on how hurt she has been on some of his comments.. I don't understand how that shows her choices have changed.

Its really sad that outbursts like these are being dragged to such extents. Looks like only Raman is copy righted to get angry and talk anything he wishes, if the other does..this is what it ends up in.

WOW.!

But Raman has never told her selfish, self-centered. Ishita is constantly ranting this now. When Raman put off her phone thinking she would get good sleep, how was her behavior after that? When Raman tried to clarify his action, Ishita again called him selfish, self-centered. She's deliberately doing this for some time, it's not just random outburst of emotion. Either she's having a retrograde amnesia or she's fed up with Raman. She wouldn't repeatedly label him as "Selfish and self-centered" otherwise.

Originally posted by: anjs

nobody wants him to taunt her, but she herself...just few days before, in the hospital, she was requesting him to scold her, curse her, so tht she knows that he is alright, that demand, that expression, showed that she adores his taunts, n his sarcastic comments...

and now suddenly she is raising an issue over it...esp when he is genuinely trying to help her, n impress her...his one anger burst bt that gift, made her do an about turn...

I toh dint find that scene that way. I saw sarcasm and a bit sorrow in her face. Cos, Raman's day is not complete without shouting or taunting her. She was wanting him to get out of shock and we know that Raman being normal is shouting. She, as a wife wanted her husband to be normal. No way, she wanted to hear taunts.

heheh, what i feel raman should have answered yes i am selfish. i thought about my wife 😆

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

But Raman has never told her selfish, self-centered. Ishita is constantly ranting this now. When Raman put off her phone thinking she would get good sleep, how was her behavior after that? When Raman tried to clarify his action, Ishita again called him selfish, self-centered. She's deliberately doing this for some time, it's not just random outburst of emotion. Either she's having a retrograde amnesia or she's fed up with Raman. She wouldn't repeatedly label him as "Selfish and self-centered" otherwise.