Signs of a Married Woman

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm pretty sure you have all noticed that Tara does not wear a mangalsutra or use sindoor, the two main signs of a married woman for most Hindus (besides a ring). Its not just Tara, but also Nimmo and Meethi as well. I find that really surprising since most serials, if not all, place a huge importance on both when it comes to marriage. I can't think of any show right now that shows a married women without at least one of the married symbols. Maybe it's because they are considered high-society and modern, therefore these traditional symbols do not apply? Or maybe they are just trying to represent the average married Indian woman, since in real life, some women do not wear them on a daily basis. For example, most Punjabi women do not wear these symbols, and the ones that do are actually the young wives who have been influenced by TV serials. Same goes for the city-dwellers. Some of these women tend to only wear them on a special occasion, but many don't even do that.

So what do you guys think? Why do the women of EBI not wear these symbols? Are any of you bothered by it, or is it refreshing to see something different?

As for me, I don't mind it all, as all the women in my family (even friends) have never used them. Rarely, I'll see an aunt here or there at a party wearing them, but never on a daily basis. I think for most Indian women, it's more of a personal preference.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree...and it works...nothing is traditional here apart from Mrityunjay Singh Shekhawat!

Even the outfit word by the women are not traditional. Especially Nirmala who is all modern and does not expect her DILs to do so..

Unlike other serials the MILs are overly done...and the DIls are expected even to cover their heads all the time.
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Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Agree...and it works...nothing is traditional here apart from Mrityunjay Singh Shekhawat!

Even the outfit word by the women are not traditional. Especially Nirmala who is all modern and does not expect her DILs to do so..

Unlike other serials the MILs are overly done...and the DIls are expected even to cover their heads all the time.


Right!!! These women also don't wear extravagant saris and expensive jewelry 24/7, AND they even wear a nightdress! Can you imagine that?! Just like normal, average women. That's what I love about this serial, not that it's not traditional, but that they make an effort to be realistic and normal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since am not Indian but I too have notice this thing
Women in this show doesnt wear any symbols of begin married..
But EBI is a different show and thats what i love about this show
Not typical saries, mangalsutar and I have seen too in real life they few who does
and for me its seems funny even in nights they sleep with heavy saries.
sorry if i said anything agianst😳

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think its nice to see a change. In other serials when they say they are modern they r still heavy jewellery and saree clad it's nice to see a mil who is not wearing saree or heavy jewelleries on day basis. Sometimes I feel suffocating seeing them wear all heavy make up and going to sleep. EBI is trying to make things normal as much as possible. But having said that I wud love to see Tara wear mangasutra and sindoor for once maybe for karva chauth.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well in real life many women are not obliged to wear these things... but newly wed girls do wear chura, sindoor, etc for few months & after that they are allowed to remove bulky stuff... this kind of dress code is applicable only to tv serials... humesha aise saji rehti hain jaise koi festival ho... 😡🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it is a matter of personal preference. In today's time, where do you see women using sindoor and mangalsutras on a daily basis? Of course, they'd probably use it in the initial few months of their marriage, and then once that's weaned off, maybe for traditional functions and religious ceremonies. Times have changed and I am glad that shows these days are showing that women are not following the supposed traditional societal norms of using the mangalsutra and sindoor in the shows.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is nice to see a change from the norm on the other serials. The family have been portray as ultra modern high society people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is actually refreshing to see them not wearing any sindoor or mangalsutra!!!!!😊 😊

They have shown them to be very high society and it is more realistic than other shows in which even after being very rich all of them are always in the kitchen!!!!
Here Tara and Meethi are only in the kitchen if they are making tea or making something special or Jayraj or Rudra Pratap!!!!!Other than that they never go to the kitchen on a regular basis what with their army of servants!!!!!
I am happy that none of them are in heavy sarees and jewellery all the time!!!!
I was afraid that they would make Tara wear mangalsutra and sindoor as she is the heroine and that would have looked weird as neither Nirmala nor Meethi wears them!!!!!
So I am happy things are the way they are!!!!!!And Tara did wear her mangalsutra for a few days till her reception!!!!!
As for Karwa Chauth, that is not going to happen for another year as a few weeks ago it was Diwali in the show!!!!
But one thing I would like is for Tara to shift to a sleeveless satin night gown from that cotton salwer she wears at night!!!!!😛 😊 😊(For references you guys can watch the episode of Tero Meri Love Stories starring Viraf and Shilpa!!!!Refer to the refrigerator scene in it!!!!)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its nice to see them clothes that are more comfy, wearing mangalsutra and sindoor is personal preference (I see that with Gujaratis)

Personally I associate the word "modern" with progressive thoughts and progressive ideas and not with clothes because clothes are assoc with places or countries,

most of the clothes in the show are Indian, but some are western...I think we forget to differentiate between modern and western (there is a big diff)
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