Jugat's Hypocrisy and Shallow Introspection

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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's G's special day, but I have a JUGIA rant😡😡 BP says he was lost in G's love and is just as much as fault. J accepted that, but WAT FISH. JUG IS WAY MORE CULPABLE than G. Yes. He is partner in crime with G. But, he has is own set of Crimes that he has not given an iota of thought to as yet...lets rewind shall we? Btw lets not forget he was an ADULT not a Dhoodpeeta Baachha when he left Jaitsar for MBBS.

- He is the one that cheated and verbally berated A during his whole MBBS;
- I for one still remember how he erased Anandi's identity -altering it to durr ki rishtedaar Nandini
- He likewise lied about his parents to his "new" friends
- He ditched the hospital in Jaitsar, his family, and Jaitsar itself for MS;
- He LIED TO THE COURT (this one I take personally 🤣)
- He bribed court staff with his daddu's nishani gifted to him by DS;
- He let G be rude and humiliate his family during their 1st stay in Jaitsar;
- He had slept with G in front of Anandi;
- He beat an innocent veggie vendor;
- He got into a verbal fight with dean;
- He got into an altercation with senior Dr.

So, even if we eliminate the G made him do it excuse...J has done plenty to date all on his own.

TO ME HIS REALIZATION IS AS EMPTY AS THE EARTHENPOT HE CALLED ANANDI UNTIL HE REMEMBERS AND REPENTS THESE MOMENTS

Lastly, G treated his family no worse than he himself...So, why b shocked? Guess it hurts to be the cheated one and not the dhokebaaz.😆😆 G was a better wife to him than he was a husband to A. At least G didn't kill his dad or mock his aatma😛

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I so agree Anjana... when will he get his comeuppance? I love LOVED what Gauri went through today. But what about Jagya? I want his downfall to be just as satisfying. He has to be brought to justice by karma... but HOW? Ohhh, the possibilities are killing me ☢️ What could be a thappad for him? Everyone has already dissed him. Even Anandi slapped him. Its his ego that has to be destroyed... hmmm🤔
Edited by Shaista33 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Anjana. Thank god someone said it and said it so very well. Awesome.

This guy needs to really suffer...more than anyone else in this whole mess. Whats a thappad for him? He is immune to it. Am still waiting for one Thappad. Not Thappad...a nice punch from Shiv while Jaggu bhai is irritating Anandi and Anandi siding with Shiv and asking Shiv to help her get rid of this slime ball. That would be something! I would love to see those muscles in action, shirtless perhaps ;)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shaista - I dont think G got proper dose of humiliation... not yet. She deserves more "justice". The guests will be sympathetic towards her...they need to know she is Jugya's MISTRESS and broke up his marraige...J didn't sufficiently Mukhota Utarrao as she deserves today.

AnSh ki Sagai and subsequent Marriage will definitely be LIVE THAPPAD for him. Some part of me really truly hopes AnSh romance blossoms under his eyes. Singhs don't let him back into the Haveli and continue to side with and support AnSh. Till now he felt his family, Anandi, and Jaitsar were unworthy of him. I want to see him find himself unworthy of his family, Anandi, and Jaitsar. Wholesale REJECTION OF HIS VERY BEING is what he DESERVES.

The opposite of hate is not love and its not hate. Its COLD INDIFFERENCE. Jugat needs to realize his IRRELEVANCE to his family, to Anandi, and Jaitsar. And feel their INDIFFERENCE to his Presence/Absence/Existence.

Oh boy can't believe I had so much Anti-Jug angst store in me😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anjana, Kudos girl.

I hate hate men who berate their wives and make her feel useless. Thats the worst form of mental abuse and this slimeball pighead dung eater Jagya did just that. Like you said, he deserves a wholesale rejection of his very existence.

I walked out of one such marriage. My ex was gay and instead of accepting that he berated me for being unattractive, fat, useless, intellectually not his equal. I almost barfed at him when he said that because am none of those. The day he said that I knew something was wrong with the Psycho, snooped in his email, found his gay pics with his boyfriend, mailed it to his parents and close relatives in India, wrote a letter to him and got the hell out of there and filed a divorce. Such men are real losers.

Sorry for the rant Anjana. Some old wounds itch sometimes and rants like this help appease it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lavy - good for u. 🤗

I watched BV off -and-on but, enuff to remember the 1001 ways this ass MIStreated Anandi b4 and after disclosure of his affair with G. He couldn't even be bothered to go visit the ILL WIFE who took a bullet for him. FOR SHAME.

"Mein wapas aa raha hu.."... Y? Who is MISSING U? 🤣🤣🤣 GTH
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anjana no one discounts the fact the J has umpteen number of misdeeds and he has been getting what he deserves for that. He lost his family, his career and is reduced to a popper. Yes he has not got enough I totally agree. Coz the enough would be when he realizes every single taunt, every single abuse, every single insult and every single way he has betrayed and cheated his family and A. If he realizes that and truly repents not with a motive to be happily accepted by his family since he has no one to look upto now, but with a motive of being genuinely sorry and shattered for how he has treated them through the years, I would consider him redeemed. But that will need a lot and a lot of hard work from his end

Although I say this but today was the first time G got the first smack for her bad actions and how I hope the whole truth was revealed in front of her friends. Yes J who himself is not a saint yelled and slapped her but I don't think this slap would have made so much of an effect on her if it was given by anyone else other than J. She needed to be shown the mirror and caught in her scheming by J himself. That's the only person who could shatter her and give her the best taste of her own poison. Many people have in the past broken ties with G but that has done nothing to improve her or reduce her ego in any way. This jolt from J was needed, coz he is more of a prize that she wanted to make her own in the cheap game that she was playing all this while.

I don't want to call J a hypocrite TODAY, completely coz he did take equal responsibility for this mess rather than blame the whole thing on G. Lets see if his introspection is going to continue or if he wants to get back to his family and how and with what intention he plans to do it. But today, it was G's day, the very first time she got a reply for her actions and lets not take that feeling away by counting J's actions and making her look any less responsible for their present state.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Anita - I adore your always thoughtful and insightful posts. I agree today was G's day and she got dose 1 of all that she deserves.

My rant is for Jugat cuz as a viewer I was more invested in him just like the Singhs and Anandi. Apno ka dhoka zyaada dard dehta hai...And I didn't see J taking sufficient ownership of his own mistakes.

The fact that he is abandoning another woman even if she is the "other" woman bothers me as well. This guy treats rishtas like their r tissues. He ruined A's life and is re-ruining G's. G may well deserve it, but that's another issue.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Anjana: You are very right. Gauri has not really seen the light yet and nor have her true colors been revealed to her friends. That needs to happen. The way she used to rant at Anandi and claim that no one saw her challak side, I want that side of Gauri's to be depicted cause she's the manipulative one. Otherwise, she'll always play the victim card and blame Jag (then in turn get sympathies from all).
And yes, COLD INDIFFERENCE is what needs to be shown by Anandi. On some level, he does hold her views in high regard and that's why I felt he degraded her... cause he felt inadquate in front of her goodness and love. He never compared. And even now Anandi gives him those gaga looks... I want that to stop and him to realize that there is love there in them for SHIV. I want him to see the love showered upon Shiv from everyone for helping the village and standing with the Singhs... as you said, something Jagya didn't do.
Edited by Shaista33 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Lavy- I am sorry you went through that sweetie 🤗 My friend went through the same thing. He used to dress up in her clothes, berate her for not bringing enough dowry, and not touch her much. Unfortunately, during the divorce drama, she forgot she was here on a visa and got kicked out of the US. She lost everything. He did such a number on her self-esteem that it took years to undo. Although she is a changed person now, not for the better, I hate what he did to her.
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