Calling Spade a Spade-why is that wrong? - Page 3

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thank you for your comments and I see where you are coming from. I do not see this as plunging into a war purely because we all have our views and ideas and we like to express them. They may not be the same as every other person here but that doesnt mean we either have to say only good things about the show...tomorrow something happens then i may love it and will say that too but today I didnt like it so i mentioned it...The point of the matter is views and ideas are discussed whether you agree or not is secondary, there will never be a time when every single person on this forum will agree on anything and that is fine too but to say its war just because two people dont agree on same thing is but presumptious in my view.

Originally posted by: arch_nat1112

This is exactly what I feel too. In fact posted about it just sometime back
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/2915514/hmm-cheat-maybe-flawed-yes

Originally posted by: meera30

Hey! Sorry I don't think I intended to say that this thread was part of the "war" I just commented here because I don't like the "Khushi" bashing today just as I don't like the "Arnav" bashing on other days.

Again, war may have been a strong term. I can take that back. But the idea i wanted to put across is just that its not Khushi vs. Arnav - today or ever!

Plus, I am also just stating my opnion, I also criticize the show very frequently and it is almost always directed at the CVs. You should have seen my rants against the entire track about Khushi sleeping out by the pool. I could have killed a CV for that, me thinks! 😆

Ok I will shut up now!

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thank you but here I will agree to disagree purely because I do think everyone has opinion and it can be discussed ...that doesnt mean everything has to be nice and happy...views may differ but that is one persons prespective...

Originally posted by: arch_nat1112

Sorry, I think I got that wrong, my mistake. I was talking about the rest of the post - where Meera is talking about how Arnav is mean and Khushi is immature, and that's who they are. My post's actually about how they are both flawed, and that's what the serial is about.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

I had decided not to watch this show until it brings back some resemblance to normalcy, but after reading so so so many posts on how once again khushi should not have said what she did and oh so hurt ASR was, I had to go back and watch the show and realised that with regards to the MU we are still at status quo and honestly looks like I am the only one who thought the chemistry of the leads doesn't make any sense when both of them have such HUGE issue in their contractual marriage.

In my opinion khushi is absolutely right in saying he is a cheater because the definition of cheating is to deceive to fool and that's what ASR is been doing with her heart and herself since 14^th Feb. It is okay for him to humiliate her in front of his staff and call her classless, then tell the staff not to order food from her business and also to make her do public sit ups in front of the cop and be called cute and die as soon as he smirks. It is okay to tell her he is doing it for his family and nothing more and not to get ideas in her head but when she said he cheated and he looks hurt it's not good???Why the double standards????

The bets were off the day ASR called her classless in front of his staff'this is the girl who has don't nothing wrong and always tried to find some reason in his behaviour. She was forcefully married, kicked out and made to sleep near the pool, has been told times and times again that she means nothing to him and yes so he stares at her and grabs her that doesn't mean anything because overall the affect is lost.

The CV's have ruined the most important thing: the characters of the cast'.honestly in my mind this whole fancy dress thing was another stupidest thing to do'when you have such huge issue in your marriage and the you care about fancy dress???Why does no one want to solve the stupid MU????from 14^th feb all I see is games games and more games and its getting boring to say the least'.oh yeah and in between shirtless Barun'.didn't care for that either.

Frankly speaking khushi should have said much worse but she is nicer than me, but it's a start he needs to start thinking that if a girl was so much in love with his jija would she really care what he thinks???Would she care whether he acts for the family or her???Would she be so upset when he doesn't answer her???see these are the things Arnav should worry about not that she said to the organiser that he is a cheat which he is'..but no as usual we will have dumb asr and chirpy khushi to look at. Tomorrow there will be comedy, some rabba ve's and eye lock sessions and all is well in IPKKND land'disappoints me but that is the truth.

This is my opinion, not sure who agrees but calling spade a spade is not wrong.

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Vibha Very Very succintly written👏

Oh the Horrors she actually called ASR a cheat How could she Tsk Tsk him being such a gentleman and all-again many here in IF cannot see beyond or beside the male character which is such a shame. I find it ludicrous how some of the posts have gone into such a whiny self pity mode almost as if their own husband/boyfriend/fiance/ toy boy was being attacked.. on second thoughts I dont think I am far from the truth there🤣

The more I see the way the serial is shaping up or should I say sagging out the less inclined I am to even bother whether the MU ever gets cleared. His schizophrenic bipolar attacks are more frequent than ever as is her denial of problems and life- she gives new meaning to that song Come and get happy and both of them seem to suffering from early senile dementia. They conveniently forget which mood attack they are supposed to be coming out from or going into

I feel so much like a fish that has been baited hooked and now left to live a life in a goldfish bowl going round and round wondering when will my misery end.

Once again lovely post!

Originally posted by: Doc_Manaal

guess what she is nicer than me also 😆 jokes apart I really loved the way she retaliated in the precap.. Infact she should use her acid tongue with ASR always, coz he and his oversized ego dont deserve her sweet tongue..I was upset with her character when she was being a doormat and moping Bahu for a couple of days post marriage..
completely loving this fiesty KHUSHI.. U go girl and give a tit for tat..
and Vibha I love u for making the post..