Calling Spade a Spade-why is that wrong?

I had decided not to watch this show until it brings back some resemblance to normalcy, but after reading so so so many posts on how once again khushi should not have said what she did and oh so hurt ASR was, I had to go back and watch the show and realised that with regards to the MU we are still at status quo and honestly looks like I am the only one who thought the chemistry of the leads doesn't make any sense when both of them have such HUGE issue in their contractual marriage.

In my opinion khushi is absolutely right in saying he is a cheater because the definition of cheating is to deceive to fool and that's what ASR is been doing with her heart and herself since 14^th Feb. It is okay for him to humiliate her in front of his staff and call her classless, then tell the staff not to order food from her business and also to make her do public sit ups in front of the cop and be called cute and die as soon as he smirks. It is okay to tell her he is doing it for his family and nothing more and not to get ideas in her head but when she said he cheated and he looks hurt it's not good???Why the double standards????

The bets were off the day ASR called her classless in front of his staff…this is the girl who has don't nothing wrong and always tried to find some reason in his behaviour. She was forcefully married, kicked out and made to sleep near the pool, has been told times and times again that she means nothing to him and yes so he stares at her and grabs her that doesn't mean anything because overall the affect is lost.

The CV's have ruined the most important thing: the characters of the cast….honestly in my mind this whole fancy dress thing was another stupidest thing to do…when you have such huge issue in your marriage and the you care about fancy dress???Why does no one want to solve the stupid MU????from 14^th feb all I see is games games and more games and its getting boring to say the least….oh yeah and in between shirtless Barun….didn't care for that either.

Frankly speaking khushi should have said much worse but she is nicer than me, but it's a start he needs to start thinking that if a girl was so much in love with his jija would she really care what he thinks???Would she care whether he acts for the family or her???Would she be so upset when he doesn't answer her???see these are the things Arnav should worry about not that she said to the organiser that he is a cheat which he is…..but no as usual we will have dumb asr and chirpy khushi to look at. Tomorrow there will be comedy, some rabba ve's and eye lock sessions and all is well in IPKKND land…disappoints me but that is the truth.

This is my opinion, not sure who agrees but calling spade a spade is not wrong.

I am first I am first.

I disagree with your post till an extent

fancy dress wasnt stupid and they havent ruined their characters its just how you choose to see it

ASR is still same

Khushi is still same

Asr did it for nani and Khushi enjys such things and how can they solve it when Khushi doesnt know about it? and Arnav has misunderstood her and this epi today is a step towards the truth actually!

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

I had decided not to watch this show until it brings back some resemblance to normalcy, but after reading so so so many posts on how once again khushi should not have said what she did and oh so hurt ASR was, I had to go back and watch the show and realised that with regards to the MU we are still at status quo and honestly looks like I am the only one who thought the chemistry of the leads doesn't make any sense when both of them have such HUGE issue in their contractual marriage.

In my opinion khushi is absolutely right in saying he is a cheater because the definition of cheating is to deceive to fool and that's what ASR is been doing with her heart and herself since 14^th Feb. It is okay for him to humiliate her in front of his staff and call her classless, then tell the staff not to order food from her business and also to make her do public sit ups in front of the cop and be called cute and die as soon as he smirks. It is okay to tell her he is doing it for his family and nothing more and not to get ideas in her head but when she said he cheated and he looks hurt it's not good???Why the double standards????

The bets were off the day ASR called her classless in front of his staff'this is the girl who has don't nothing wrong and always tried to find some reason in his behaviour. She was forcefully married, kicked out and made to sleep near the pool, has been told times and times again that she means nothing to him and yes so he stares at her and grabs her that doesn't mean anything because overall the affect is lost.

The CV's have ruined the most important thing: the characters of the cast'.honestly in my mind this whole fancy dress thing was another stupidest thing to do'when you have such huge issue in your marriage and the you care about fancy dress???Why does no one want to solve the stupid MU????from 14^th feb all I see is games games and more games and its getting boring to say the least'.oh yeah and in between shirtless Barun'.didn't care for that either.

Frankly speaking khushi should have said much worse but she is nicer than me, but it's a start he needs to start thinking that if a girl was so much in love with his jija would she really care what he thinks???Would she care whether he acts for the family or her???Would she be so upset when he doesn't answer her???see these are the things Arnav should worry about not that she said to the organiser that he is a cheat which he is'..but no as usual we will have dumb asr and chirpy khushi to look at. Tomorrow there will be comedy, some rabba ve's and eye lock sessions and all is well in IPKKND land'disappoints me but that is the truth.

This is my opinion, not sure who agrees but calling spade a spade is not wrong.

Originally posted by: stafhtad

I am first I am first.

Jokes aside, I agree with each and every line you said Vibha. I will make a detailed rant of my own if you don't mind me spamming your thread later on.

But this is not a serial worth rooting for anymore

They started with butchering Kushi's character on Feb 14th

Then they butchered each and every character including Nani since then.

Then CVs were not satisfied and have started butchering the chemistry between the leads.

None of the Rabba Ves (except for holi epsiode) since Feb 14th have been magical, even though the leads are in the same room and physically close to each other. Compare that to the walk Arnav take along the corridor of Kushi's house and they have an eye lock. Physically far but the chemistry and intensity was fabulous.

More to come in a bit.

But kudos to you for making this post. Loved it.👏👏

Originally posted by: Danina45

I disagree with your post till an extent

fancy dress wasnt stupid and they havent ruined their characters its just how you choose to see it

ASR is still same

Khushi is still same

Asr did it for nani and Khushi enjys such things and how can they solve it when Khushi doesnt know about it? and Arnav has misunderstood her and this epi today is a step towards the truth actually!

Hey vibha🤗

I actuaIIy Ioved khuhsi today , after a Iong time i thought her character made sense atIeast to me , she was reaI

She questioned him , she was angry when he Ieft from there unanswered and she made him aware of that

She didn't pretend that aII is weII , precap i am sure there is more to it i think it is ok to be manipulativebecause arnav got the message and and cIear he aint fooIing any body , by just avoiding to answer

And if he can pretend it is aII a drama so can she!!!!

Originally posted by: Lurvebooks

Aw Vibha .. wish there was a SuperLike button! 👏👏👏 to the highlighted bits !

... it is way too uncanny that you''ve written my exact same thoughts ... it was so poetic I can almost hear a Rabba Ve .. let's ditch our respective husdbands and runaway together! 😃

Originally posted by: kpk1002

You are correct about the double standards. He has said and done far worse and in front of many more people.

I think though, and I said this on another post, the precap is never exactly what it seems to be. There is stuff that will happen in tomorrows episode before the part the precap showed that will make it seem more logical. I think this is where the promo might come into play. The part where she says "Agar tedhi ungli se nahi tho chamach se..." may refer to her getting him to finish what he was about to say on stage. 😊

As far as clearing up the MU goes, I think they are saving that for next week, or the week after, or the week after, or maybe sometime in May😉