so y'all hate arnav? seriously?

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Shreya

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Posted: 14 years ago

ok guys! i have had enough of accusations regarding arnav's behaviour towards khushi!...what do you y'all think that whatever he is doing is domestic violence?.. oh please give me a break...had it been a domestic then he would not have even bothered to give her the blanket...rather he would have enjoyed seeing a woman who deceived his trust his family in pain...remember guys we know that khushi is innocent but arnav does not...and today i would like to ask y'all a question how many of you have been in the same condition like arnav??...well i dont know about y'all but i have been in one...where even i misunderstood my partner and left only to realise that he was innocent from the beginning..and believe me the guilt the remorse still hurts till date!...
anyways back to the topic..if its domestic violence then dont you think even after giving her the blanket on humanitarian ground he should have gone back to sleep on his comfortable bed..but know still he waited for her to take the blanket and warn herself...he was controlling his feelings...because according to him he is getting drawn to a woman who disgusts him and that is the most disgusting thing for him..and like we all know asr if he wants he can hurt her like hell without even showing any concern any feeling towards her in return..but no atleast he has the descency to show concern ...and honestly how many of us can do such a thing likeshowing concern for a person who betrayed you ...(atleast i wont be able to)..
so guys stop drawing conclusion about his character...because his real character has not been out (asr) and we all know that if it happens then what will khushi's life turn into...so he is still our arnav who gifter her the bangles, who treated her wound,who cried at the thought of losing her with a pinch of asr!...
sorry for a rude post...but i had to

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Posted: 14 years ago

😊 Thank you for the post

and really people need to stop talking about domestic abuse :|...im a girl and all up for women rights...some of my friends even call me a feminist...but seriously whatever Arnav did was wrong but its nott domestic abuse...he thinks that Khushi is ruining his sister's life and she is betraying his whole family...put yourself in his shoes and I am sure you would do something worse to Khushi than what he has done...he gave her the blanket when he realized his mistake ...but she didn't take it.
How many wives have actually thrown their husbands out of the house when they cheated on them? I am sure a lot...is that a domestic abuse then? 😕...no one says anything when a husband is thrown out of the house for doing something wrong 😕 (don't get me wrong i would do the same if my husband cheated) but the point is that for Arnav Khushi is basically cheating on him so he behaved the way he did

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Sameera

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Posted: 14 years ago

i don't think its domestic abuse - but the way the scene was portrayed was very sad. no person man/women should have to endure sleeping outside!

i know its a serial, its all part of the script and we all gona be jolly when they do eventually get together.

BUT - some people don't thin of it as such - some may think of it as, if media portrays it such its fine - i can do it too.

thats probably why some poeple are so upset,

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Shalini

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Posted: 14 years ago

I guess poeple have forgotten the meaning of domestic violence!!!... serials like saubhgyavati bhavah is related to domestic violence(NOM)... but here ipkknd has nothing to do with it...

When ASR has been good with Khushi then people love him.

When ASR shouts at Kushi ,people hate him.

Y????😡... Well even if ASR hates him, he cares for khushi , he has the respect for women, though he's angry on kushi he's safegarding her...

I strongly feel that ASR is wonderful husband😎

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Shreya

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Posted: 14 years ago

i agree with y'all...

domestic violence is a very strong word...

this thing can be called a facade hatred but its not even a teeny tiny bit of domestic violence...

and yaah people love watching raaba ve but the moment a hate scene they are like cursing the cv's...common people get a life life is not all about raaba ve and happy moments..it is filled with sadness misunderstanding also..and this show portrays it all...

so plss stop cursing arnav i am sure if anyone would have been in place he or she would not have even bothered to give the blanket to their loved one atleast i would not have...

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Blue Rose

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Posted: 14 years ago

one simple thing...doing something wrong and then apologetic behavior is part of the domestic violence circle...they hurt their partner and then apologize ...just because you regret later the earlier wrong doesn't become right!!!

So he did it in anger or disgust or what ever it may be but sorry it was inhuman and wrong and yes i would equalize it abuse...whatever may be his reasons for doing it!!!

Tomorrow would you appreciate if Khushi in a fit of anger pushes him from first floor because she angry that he ruined her life or was about to ruin her sister life...even she does not know the truth so will it ok...I am sure you guys would retaliate and bash Khushi...all she did was mere dance and mild teasing and there posts saying she made fun of disease so the show should close up...and she was named t**t...come we like the actor or even character is ok but why the need ot justify what he did..and yes his throwing the blanket like some would do to begger does not justify it...just because he was all guilty and looking tensed also doesn't justify it...Barun did that part well i accept but that does make the issue right...it was domestic violence!!!

sorry ...but throwing blanket at their face after throwing the girl is not in my dictionary a way for showing concern...i think he just wanted fell at peace with his won guilty conscious!!!!

whatever track is going on is more of CVs way of high pitched drama but please don't glorify it!!!

and hey who spoke about throwing out husbands who cheat...but if just assume like silly that your husband has cheated you and throw him out and then just throw out blanket at him...and be sleepless inside your cozy room you are WRONG!!!!!

So even here he WRONG...just because he feels guilty it doesn't make him right!!!!!

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Nisha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Since this is identical to another thread already open on IF, I will post the same thing I posted in that thread :

I don't think people really hate Arnav. I think it's what he did that people have an issue with. I personally adore both Arnav and Khushi, but think that Arnav went a tad bit too far in this instance. To have Khushi sleep outside in the cold was quite disturbing. We don't even let our pets sleep outside...

I personally think the hatred would still be intact if he made her sleep on the floor, the couch or even the bathtub. Something a little less inhumane.

I usually like to roll with the punches, but this was a bit of a turn-off for me.

***On a side note : Just b/c you give someone a blanket does not lessen the inhumane act that was committed. If my husband threw me out of the house and instead of bringing me back in he decides to give me a blanket as an after-thought...HE would then become an after-thought... There is no justifiable reason for those kinds of actions. I don't think you'd be defending such actions if you were on the receiving end.

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Shreya

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Posted: 14 years ago

and what if in the next episode if arnav is made to sleep outside then also will it term to domestic violence?

ohh common guys..domestic violence would have been if he would have slapped her...calling it domestic viloence i dont feel that it will be right...

and according to arnav khushi betrayed his family his trust everything..so thats why he is very angry right now!...

he was about to call her in but then his hatred came in the way..

he is still the arnav who cares for khushi with asr also!

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Lurvebooks

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shreya0305
and what if in the next episode if arnav is made to sleep outside then also will it term to domestic violence?
ohh common guys..domestic violence would have been if he would have slapped her...calling it domestic viloence i dont feel that it will be right...
and according to arnav khushi betrayed his family his trust everything..so thats why he is very angry right now!...
he was about to call her in but then his hatred came in the way..
he is still the arnav who cares for khushi with asr also!

Can you differentiate that ppl are talking about the storyline and not the fictional character? You do realise the problem is with the glorification of a real issue effecting thousands of women which the Writers have given a casual treatment in the name of entertainment ... why are you guys insisting on cloaking this as ASR bashing. Please learn to make the difference between the actor, the character and the script. Then by all means come back and pen your opposition.

Edited by Lurvebooks - 14 years ago

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so y'all hate arnav? seriously?

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